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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:56

@calimc83 well there you go then you don't need to buy any! Try and hold off and see if it arrives! Send me some willpower aswell 🤣🤞 x

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calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:53

@Skl2021 ideally yes..we're supposed to be having a night away on the 15th ( think AF is due around then) I'd rather hold off till we get home if possible..unless AF decides to show her ugly face first...x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:45

@calimc83 well it's up to you! Can you hold off not testing 🤔🤣 it's pointless asking me as I'm a poasaholic 🙌🤦

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WhatTheEll · 02/01/2022 22:44

Thank you so much ladies ♥️
@calimc83 yes thank you, I will call tomorrow, although I was reading they wait until scan has been done before prescribing progesterone so might have to wait. If I get passed 6 weeks I'm booking a private scan! 🤞🏻xx

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:41

Ohhh....jealous ha ha! Nope I have one left over....@Skl2021 x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:35

@calimc83 just a burger or pizza only thing that I can get delivered 🤣 I know I shouldn't I need to tape my mouth up 😬 haha that's up to you! Have u not got any in? If u get them tho u will use them 🤣🙌 x

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calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:32

@Skl2021 I'm debating whether to order some tests.....x

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:32

Ohh it really does....trying to keep busy but it's the evenings when it really consumes you I find..what u thinking of ordering?! 🤤 x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:28

@calimc83 it does drag doesn't it especially the first week. Second not so much as I just test all the time 🤣🙌 haha I keep saying I need to eat better and I have a huge bag or chocolates in front of me and currently debating a takeaway 🤦🙈 I should just go to bed!! X

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calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:24

@Skl2021 yep, ages to go! Ha ha!! Either that or...too many mince pies?! 😆🙈 x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:16

@aesgriff I get lots every month so I just can't be ovulating yet but I am only cd 10 so plenty of time 😂🤦 I'm just impatient x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:15

@calimc83 Thursday! Maybe earlier if I get negative lfts! Ooo children do say some weird things it's like they know maybe it's a good sign 😂🤞🙌 what you at now 2dpo? X

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aesgriff · 02/01/2022 22:13

@Skl2021 I didn't have any CM for my positive OPK! I don't think everyone gets it. I did use pre seed because I read if you don't get much CM then it will help (talking like I've had a BFP 🤣 I haven't!)

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:06

@Skl2021 I bet! When are u allowed out?! Am ok....trying to keep busy! My 2 year old randomly told me I had a baby in my tummy earlier......😬 x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:04

@calimc83 I'm doing ok thankyou! Getting bored of isolation now 🙈😂🤦 I'm cd 10 and ovulation tests are still the same so that must be like my usual lh level 🤔 I just thought they were dark they must just be sensitive tests! Also got no other signs yet so just waiting! How are you doing x

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calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:03

@Sparklesurprise29 how are u getting on?? I think I'm around 2 days into the TWW...fml 🙈🙈😆 x

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:01

@Skl2021 how are the opks going? X

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:00

Huge congratulations @WhatTheEll have u spoken to your GP? They should be able to prescribe you progesterone as apparently that's recommended now for those who have suffered early losses x

Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/01/2022 20:03

Congratulations @WhatTheEll
I've had two miscarriages with no other children so you really start to think it will never happen

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 19:35

@WhatTheEll and good luck with the new job 🤩 x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 19:35

@WhatTheEll amazing news 🎉✨ keep hopeful! I'm sure u will make it past that date! And hopefully with your test being so much darker that's good news! I'm keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🙌❤️ x

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WhatTheEll · 02/01/2022 19:15

Hey again, and happy new year! Good luck to everyone 🌈 🌟
I had my last mc in July and I had what I thought was my period this cycle but I found out I was pregnant. Trying to be hopeful but after 2 mc last year, half of me is thinking "3rd time lucky!" And the other half is thinking "don't even start to get excited."
I'm about 5 weeks. Both previous mc's I've started bleeding around CD41/42 so I NEED to get past this point I feel. The one thing I'm clinging to is my FRER from today 18DPO, compared to my 1st mc at 18DPO, is much much stronger. Dye stealer in fact.
Sorry for rambling. I just don't know what to do with myself. To make matters more stressful I'm starting a new job on Weds 🤦🏻‍♀️

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 18:22

@20viona i think i have had 1 too many fizz's over the past couple of weeks lol.

@calimc83 hi & good luck for your first cycle

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 18:11

@Slops1990 Hi 👋 and welcome. I'm ever so sorry for your loss. I'm on my first cycle TTC after a MMC in Nov xx

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 17:56

@skl2021 thats very true! Its good to know yours was okay, I'm hoping AF reverts back to what it was like before🤞

Thank you @aesgriff 💖

@20viona fizz in the bath sounds amazing! 🍾 although I'm still feeling sick so thinking it defos must be a bug rather than a pregnancy sign!