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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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arianasky · 05/01/2022 12:35

@calimc83 that sounds a good idea think I might do that next time I'll buy some in a few days for when I do get a BFP, thank you for the advice ❤️

calimc83 · 05/01/2022 12:15

@arianasky Yes! If it can be brought privately go for it. One of my close friends is a lead fertility consultant and it was her that recommended it ( poor girl - I e bombarded her with questions!) Said they recommend it to all their fertility patients. Start taking it from BFP xx

arianasky · 05/01/2022 12:11

@calimc83 I might do I might just buy some
Progesterone next month, I haven't got the mental strength to speak to the drs I don't
Think 😞

calimc83 · 05/01/2022 12:03

@arianasky I'm ok...had the cry and feeling better now. I told myself I'm not going to take my problems to work this year 😐..failed at that! Hope the bleeding isn't too bad for you, can you speak to the GP about what's happened? I've been told progesterone is really good for those who have had a previous MC xx

Tofu35 · 05/01/2022 11:59

Second period since my miscarriage started today. Trying not to symptom spot this time, although the lack of physical symptoms this month did get me thinking hopefully! Looking back over the last week, I had total PMS that I was ignoring (irritable, anxious, tired)...

It's okay though, good to know my cycles are back to normal. Although ask me in an hour and I'll be a sad mess about not being pregnant this month.

arianasky · 05/01/2022 11:47

@calimc83 I'm so sorry! I know how hard it is when you have to go back and everyone is trying to act super sensitive and it breaks you, I hope you're ok? Please take some
Time to yourself and look after yourself 💕 my bleeding has started now I've got pinky white discharge with red streaks in it 😞

calimc83 · 05/01/2022 11:29

@arianasky that sounds like a plan! I've just had my formal return to work meeting and cried...yet again! It's never ending sometimes 😩 xx

arianasky · 05/01/2022 10:41

@Hopingforarainbow27 thank you 💕 I was the same with MMC at 12 weeks but I guess it's just a waiting game for the bleed now 😞

arianasky · 05/01/2022 10:40

@calimc83 thank you lovely 💕 I've booked a early finish at work and I'm going to have a long relaxing bath a cry and pick myself
Up then xx

calimc83 · 05/01/2022 10:18

@arianasky ohh sweetheart I'm so sorry to hear this and that you are hurting. All losses count, however early. Be kind to yourself xxx

Hopingforarainbow27 · 05/01/2022 10:04

@arianasky I'm so sorry. I had positive tests for a few weeks after I even stopped bleeding so I'm not sure! Took a while for my hormones to go back to normal!

arianasky · 05/01/2022 09:49

Sorry to ask but if this has happened to anyone here how long did it take after your negative tests to bleed? Thank you 💕

arianasky · 05/01/2022 09:41

@aesgriff @Skl2021 thank you ladies 💕💕 I think I'm still struggling from my MMC so my emotions are coming out from that also 💕

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Skl2021 · 05/01/2022 09:32

@arianasky I'm so sorry to hear this. Hope your ok 💞 thinking of you! X

@aesgriff thankyou will look into it. I got a huge spot on my jaw line in my tww which was my first pregnancy symptom! Now it's just constant since miscarriage. Can't stand it. X

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aesgriff · 05/01/2022 09:26

@arianasky I'm so sorry ♥️ the length of time doesn't make the loss any easier. We get how you feel xx

aesgriff · 05/01/2022 09:25

@calimc83 @Skl2021 thank you ladies ♥️♥️ my first period since my D&C. Been waiting 8 weeks for it and had hoped to catch but it is what it is 🤷🏻‍♀️ damn you AF!! But also bless you at the same time 🤣

@Skl2021 I was prescribed zineryt. It's a lotion that looks like a bingo dabber and honestly it's made such a difference. One of my first signs of pregnancy was awful cystic acne on my jawline and it just got worse after the MC. It's safe to be prescribed when pregnant so deffo give it a go. It's worked magic xx

arianasky · 05/01/2022 09:23

Morning ladies, well I'm out 😞 no bleeding yet but a stark negative this morning and some painful cramping and bad back so I guess I'll start bleeding soon 😞 I'm gutted I've lost another it's only 4 weeks but it's still really upset me how daft. As soon as I start bleeding I'll be back on the TTC train with you all, but I will never test before AF is due again it's just too heartbreaking 💔

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Skl2021 · 05/01/2022 08:57

@Hopingforarainbow27 it's hard not to think like that! I'm hoping it does go again 🤞🙌
@aesgriff maybe I need to go to doctor and try some stuff! Never had anything like it! Sorry to hear af got you. Hope your ok new cycle new start stay positive 🤞✨

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calimc83 · 05/01/2022 08:49

@aesgriff Hope you are ok xx

aesgriff · 05/01/2022 07:47

AF arrived this morning 🥺 CD1 here we go!

aesgriff · 05/01/2022 07:46

@Skl2021 my skin was HORRENDOUS after MC. Spots all over my face, neck, chest and back. I've got some medicine from the doctor now and it's cleared mostly all of it in a week.

Hopingforarainbow27 · 04/01/2022 22:31

@Skl2021 I know I'm just like oh let's add that to the list of things wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️ negative Nancy here sometimes (most of the time) lol

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Skl2021 · 04/01/2022 22:28

@Hopingforarainbow27 glad I'm not alone! It's horrible I keep getting hot flushes aswell on my face like patches. I thought it would be the hormones but I'm nearly 3 month on now 😩 guess it's not going to clear up! X

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 04/01/2022 22:24

@Skl2021 I had "perfect" skin right up until I had my first miscarriage in 2020 and it's been bad ever since, round my chin! I'd say now it has cleared up a bit but there is still bumps beneath the skin. Never had a spot in my life

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Skl2021 · 04/01/2022 22:05

@calimc83 it's driving me mad and it's itching hoping it is because ovulation is near! X

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