Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

@calimc83 that sounds look a good idea 💕

@theblueflowers I feel the same :( first pregnancy I was relieved to get to 8 weeks, happy at 12 weeks but I hadn’t been worried. Next time I won’t even be able to get to 20 weeks without worrying. It has taken all the fun out of pregnancy. Telling family & friends about the pregnancy won’t even be nice or exciting.

So sorry to hear how much some of you are struggling. It is such a rollercoaster in terms of emotions, it can feel so overwhelming at times.
I really miss the naïve excitement in my first pregnancy, and feel so sad that I'll never have that innocence again.

@calimc83 I really hope this is the last of it

@arianasky same. I need to take a step back I think and start looking after myself and try and find some better coping mechanisms as well. On a whim last night I booked a reflexology session with a therapist who specialises In fertility, I know people take alternate therapies with a pinch of salt but even if it helps with just getting me to relax I think it'll be a good thing x

@calimc83 I'm sorry 💕 I know it is hard I just want to be a mother and it's honestly taking over my life it's all I can think about I feel crazy at the moment

@PamelaDoov I bled on and off for weeks after my MC..it's a right pain x

Since Monday not Saturday, but even so!

Urgh I’ve started bleeding again today nothing since Saturday so why now!

@arianasky I'm so sorry to hear that. I can imagine it would really hit you hard especially if you haven't really processed Oct's MC properly as well. I think the grieving process is so long and drawn out. I have good and bad days. Last few days have been bad as AF arrived after our first month TTC...it's just heartbreaking 💔 x

@calimc83 not great tbh, this one has really hit me, it's like I didn't grieve properly in October and suppressed my feelings and they both have hit me now together 😔 I feel such a letdown it's horrible. I'm now just getting a brown tinged discharge when I wipe, I'm hoping that it goes soon and I can take my mind off it. How are you?

@arianasky how are you holding up? X

@theblueflowers I take Viridian brand; I do have PCOS..well, hormones are (were?) normal but cysts on ovaries. I used to have nightmare cycles, anywhere from regular to every 3 months and one time a record, ironic, 9 months without a cycle. I know not the magic cure for everyone but since starting this stuff I've had regular-ish 31-35 days.

@Ganesh2022 I've had nightmare irregular cycles since coming off the implant in August 2019; one was 73 days! To be honest I was shocked that I could even get pregnant- it took us around 6 months but I only had 3 periods in that time! I'm hoping that ovusense will actually give me a clearer idea of my cycle, although I am a little worried about how it might take over my life...
I have always suspected that I may have PCOS as I have some of the markers, but something reassuring to come from this experience is that from my scan they could see that I had no actual cysts on my ovaries. They said that could mean it's an androgen imbalance that I may look into.

Can I ask what brand and form of myo-inositol you were using? I was taking conceive plus capsules which I think does contain some measure of it, but they are not cheap and you have to take 4 a day! I'm not sure if they did help or if it was just chance, but it can't hurt to try again.

Thank you @Ganesh2022

@theblueflowers thx, will you update us re whether it's useful? Have you always had irregular cycles? I used to and mine stabilised, but obviously not sure what will happen now. Myo-inositol worked miracles in stabilising my cycles--in case that helps anyone!

@Ganesh2022 re your post earlier this morning- I have bought an ovusense- the one you put inside you as I have wildly irregular cycles (I'm averaging 55 days!)

Haven't used it yet, but hoping it might give me a bit more of an insight. I have tried OKPs but I I tend to get a few surges in a cycle so I'm never quite sure when I ovulate.

She said it was to "make the body strong" and he said there can be an advantage to starting sooner in terms of heightened fertility, but neither said there was a risk to the alternative. I think it was more for emotions and overall health. He has known me for years, where she is someone I tried out as it was much nearer to home, and I wonder if maybe he knows that for my anxiety I won't be able to just sit on it, where she thought she was talking to a rational human being lol

@Ganesh2022 I'm with you the the least stressful option! Did they say why to take a break? Is it to let hormones settle? X

Interesting, I went to one acupuncturist who said wait 3 months (didn't feel I had time, though I'd love to wait a year tbh) and one who said try right away. So I might split the difference...I think, barring medical necessity, for me I need to do what causes the least stress, though not sure what that is lol that's the problem. I don't think I have it in my to dtd regularly throughout the cycle , blahhhhh. Wish I did!

@Hopingforarainbow27 will do! X

Look up Gin-sen London. They do a free consultation. It definitely helped me and my period went from 35 to 28 @calimc83

@Hopingforarainbow27 right.yeah that makes sense. Thanks, will look into them x