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TTC TWW November 2021

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winkles23 · 06/11/2021 19:15

Hi 👋🏻 anyone else in the TWW?

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winkles23 · 15/11/2021 16:55

I've called the doctors and requested bloods again and they've basically said they wouldn't do them because there's been no bleeding and if they did it just to confirm pregnancy levels they would have to do it for everyone. Feel a bit daft now lol

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Peonies94 · 15/11/2021 16:40

@kizzy97 yeah I’m trying to stick with every 2-3 days for now, just to cover as many days as possible, without driving ourselves mad! Some AF symptoms today, lower back pain, and a weird pain in my side!

1989gem · 15/11/2021 16:34

Thanks for all the advice ladies, I've ordered some internet cheapies and a couple of FRER and they won't be delivered until tomorrow so earliest I will test will be Wednesday when il be 13DPO I think!

@winkles23 those lines look very positive to me! My friends have all said early reassurance scans have really helped them in leading up to the 12 week scan x

mightbeyesmightbeno · 15/11/2021 14:43

Never had a blood test to confirm my first pregnancy so I don't think it's the norm in my area. @winkles23 all of those lines are really good, they are def positive, I wouldn't worry at all about the variation in colour or darkness. X

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 14:27

@beckybabyx that sounds like what I had just this morning. It was just once though after FMU. I'm on 9 dpo and did feel a little bit of cramping a couple of days ago, but not reading too much into it. I'm not going to test until Thursday (12 dpo). Fingers crossed for both of us!

beckybabyx · 15/11/2021 14:18

@Tinkerbell098 I don't think I could even call it spotting to be fair, it's literally a slight tinge of brown when I wipe (sorry TMI) - happened this morning when I wiped and then I've been to the toilet once at work today so far and it happened then too (although a bit less)

I am going to see how I feel tomorrow and maybe do another cheapie and then I could always pop to boots on the way home from work to get a FRER xx

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 14:11

@winkles23 that looks so promising. I wouldn't worry at all. I thought it was standard for the GP to run a blood test to confirm pregnancy so I'm surprised to hear they haven't done that for you.

kizzy97 · 15/11/2021 14:10

@winkles23 - that's still strong to me, just a bit of a thinner line xx

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 14:03

@beckybabyx has the spotting stopped now? is it usual for you to get spotting a few days before AF? If it is unusual and you haven't had your AF by Wednesday, I'd definitely test.

winkles23 · 15/11/2021 14:02

@GivenchyDahhling I'm booked for an early scan on 04/12 which feels like a whole year away lol. I asked the doctors about bloods to check my levels and they seemed confused as to why I was asking for them (I've seen so many posts on here about people confirming pregnancy with bloods so just assumed that's what happens).

I've been doing internet cheapies for progression every day and frers every two days - the cheapies seem to be giving me more progression weirdly!

TTC TWW November 2021
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beckybabyx · 15/11/2021 13:54

I may do @Tinkerbell098, I might order one now and test on Wednesday morning. Do you think its worth doing? xx

GivenchyDahhling · 15/11/2021 13:52

@winkles23 I don’t think you have anything to worry about, they’re all strong lines. Would booking yourself in for a reassurance scan at 6/7 weeks help?

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 13:33

@winkles23 it still looks strong, so I wouldn't worry about it.

@beckybabyx are you going to ty with a FRER as you've got symptoms? the cheapie could be giving false negatives?

beckybabyx · 15/11/2021 13:11

@winkles23 I think all of those lines look really strong, try not to stress and enjoy the moment (easier said than done I know)

Another BFN cheapie for me this morning at 12DPO and a very very tiny bit of spotting and more severe cramps so thinking AF may be on the way Sad (usually my luteal phase is about 16 days) fingers crossed it’s IB but that’s wishful thinking xx

winkles23 · 15/11/2021 12:41

Hi ladies, so I had my first dye stealer today (I think) top to bottom is 12dpo, 14dpo, 16dpo, 18dpo.

I feel like the bottom looks weaker than the other two on top though? Am I going mad? Thought this would stop after a bfp :(

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kizzy97 · 15/11/2021 12:36

@melbxldn - ah I'm so sorry! xx

@Thedesirerainbow - welcome! Hopefully this month is your month! I'm not tracking with opks either just using my app. Good luck, everything crossed for you! xx

Thedesirerainbow · 15/11/2021 12:15

Hiya, I'm new here 😌

This is our 11months of trying to conceive for our first baby. Had quite a few faint positives in the past that needed up into AF showing up - how uncertain everything is..! Little I knew 🤦🏽‍♀️

I think I'm around 9dpo today. First month of not tracking with ovulation strips so not really sure where I am at as my cycles are normally between 27 days to 34.

Congratulations to those who got the positive! 🌈

All the best to the rest who are also in the two week wait xx

melbxldn · 15/11/2021 11:30

AF for me so I’m out but first cycle so knew it was unlikely. Good luck everyone!

kizzy97 · 15/11/2021 10:58

@Tinkerbell098 - As I say I'm aiming to wait until weekend as that's when I'm due! The only thing that's effectively keeping me from testing early is because I'm too much of a chicken!

@mightbeyesmightbeno - Chin up! You're not out yet, still super early!

@1989gem - Welcome! Symptom spotting is an absolute nightmare! Fingers crossed I hope you get your bfp this month! :)

mrsS21 · 15/11/2021 10:52

@Tinkerbell098 fingers crossed that’s a good sign for us both! And hopefully that brownish spot could be a sign of implantation around 9dpo 🤞🏻

Welcome @1989gem :) can recommend the Onestep internet cheapie tests - my usual theory is if I get a line on those I’ll use a frer. Good luck for this cycle - symptom spotting is just a nightmare 🙈 every little thing becomes a sign!

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 10:16

@mrsS21 I had period like cramping on 6dpo as well, which vanished by 7dpo. I am 9 dpo now and no symptoms whatsoever. Although I noticed a brownish spot when wiping FMU, which could be anything to be honest.

@1989gem welcome to the group. Symptom spotting is a nightmare. I get excited over every little thing, but I am also being realistic and trying not to get my hopes up too much. I think FRER is the go to test for most of us. You could also use internet cheapies, although I have never tried them, but should be able to give an early indication.

mrsS21 · 15/11/2021 09:56

Between my two apps I’m either 6dpo or 7, have a period type feeling today, funny aches in abdomen. Sickness seems to have eased off, so not really sure what to expect this month :(

1989gem · 15/11/2021 09:27

Hi ladies, I'm glad I've found you all, the TWW is horrendous! Think I'm 11DPO but petrified of doing a test so I'm leaving it a few days, symptom spotting is the worst and like a few of you have said, I am torn between staying positive and being realistic. What tests do you find the most accurate? x

Rachae · 15/11/2021 09:09

Hang on in there @mightbeyesmightbeno it's super early xx

Tinkerbell098 · 15/11/2021 09:04

@kizzy97 @mightbeyesmightbeno we are in similar stages as I am also 9 dpo. I'm not testing until Thursday, but bet I'll be impatient by tomorrow!