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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC NOVEMBER 2021

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Lua2020 · 30/10/2021 14:34

Well… AF came and got me in a big way today so on to the next cycle anyone else TTC November 2021?

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Billymay · 17/11/2021 19:31

@alexalexalex18 one of my friends took ages to get a positive pregnancy test to the point she was late having her period and was going to the doctors and then she got her positive. I know it’s deflating and if my af shows next week I’ll be gutted but maybe Christmas will be the time? We just need to trust that when the time is right it will happen and put it to the universe. I’ve got another 3 tests so will keep testing just for the hell of it. Xxx

CrumchyLeafs · 17/11/2021 19:26

@alexalexalex18 baby dust and fingers crossed for you!

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 19:24

Thanks ladies,

You give me hope.
There’s no sign of period, if it happened, implantation was late and I read it takes a while for hcg to rise in these conditions.

Positive thoughts and vibes!
You guys are amazing ♥️

Essexnewbie · 17/11/2021 18:46

@alexalexalex18 sending you love and agree with everything else the ladies have already said x

Essexnewbie · 17/11/2021 18:36

@SantiagoSister yes let’s do that!! We can go through the next 9 slow, slow days together 😂 Do you have much planned to keep you busy? I had a quiet afternoon at work today and even that dragged and gave me too much time to overthink everything! 🙈 thank for the link too, that’s really helpful and interesting. We are going to be desperate to test aren’t we 😂 x

Natalie2304 · 17/11/2021 18:18

@alexalexalex18 id say your not out until AF shows so keep positive! You're not yet 😘

Natalie2304 · 17/11/2021 18:09

I've started with sore boobs today. I'm sure usually they don't hurt until day before AF is due which isn't until Sunday. It's also a different kind of hurt, more on top and heavy if you get me. Maybe just reading into things 🤞🏻 not though! Due to test Saturday and the amount of times I've nearly caved and tested wayyy to early is ridiculous 😂

SantiagoSister · 17/11/2021 17:43

@CrumchyLeafs I hear you.. it’s ovulation day today for me and I’m already feeling impatient 😂 I’ll be tearing my hair out come 7DPO! I guess all we can do is keep busy and distracted to try and make the time to faster 🤞🏼

SantiagoSister · 17/11/2021 17:40

@alexalexalex18 so sorry to hear the test was negative, I am really surprised with all your symptoms you have been having. They say you still have a chance until AF arrives, so there is still time for your bfp. Like @WorriedD93 says, it might just be that your HCG isn’t high enough to detect yet, as every body releases different levels at different times in the early days. I’m still keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 16:59

@WorriedD93

First Response Early Result Pregnancy Test, emerged as the most reliable and sensitive test. "It detected hCG at concentrations as low as 6.5 mIU/ml (thousandths of an International Unit per milliliter) - that's almost sensitive enough to detect any pregnancy soon after implantation,"

This is what I used...
I'm afraid to keep hoping for a positive in the next days.

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 16:58

@WorriedD93

The app did say to test first on Saturday but I just knew that my period won't come at 28 days (tomorrow) even if I wasn't ttc.
I regret testing today so much...

Girls, don't test early. This frustration is not worth it.

WorriedD93 · 17/11/2021 16:55

So hcg doubles every 48 hours after implantation, don’t panic as it’s only been 2 days your hcg would probably still be too low xxx

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 16:54

@WorriedD93

On Monday night.
I'm so sad and frustrated I'm shaking.

WorriedD93 · 17/11/2021 16:53

@alexalexalex18 how long ago was implantation spotting? Xxx

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 16:41

@SantiagoSister

Just tested after 4 h of holding my pee, day 13 or 14 PO.
Negative :(

Is there still any chance?
I do have symptoms :(
Temperature is high, 37,08, I had implantation spotting :(

CrumchyLeafs · 17/11/2021 16:38

Congrats to everyone who got a BFP! Grin I can't believe I am only 7DPO, time just doesn't want to go by! I could swear it has been two weeks already!

SantiagoSister · 17/11/2021 16:26

No problem at all @Billymay, I found it really helpful and wanted to share the link as it’s reassuring to know you’re not definitely out if you get a negative test when testing early. Sorry to hear of your negative today, but definitely test again in another couple of days as hopefully you’ll get a nice surprise! Best of luck to you 😊

@alexalexalex18 you amaze me that you’ve been able to hold off this long! Well done! I would absolutely test tonight if you feel comfortable doing so. Your symptoms sound so positive. The metallic taste I’ve heard is quite a common symptom of early pregnancy, I’m really excited to find out how you get on, best of luck for your bfp! ✨

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 15:53

@ajayelbee
Definitely not a peak, sorry :(
Keep testing, maybe if you manage to hold your pee tonight or definitely with first pee in the morning.

ajayelbee · 17/11/2021 15:43

@alexalexalex18 thanks that’s really helpful ☺️ This is the first cycle I’ve been tracking anything at all, so I don’t even have a complete month of BBT to look at, but it hasn’t gone up yet even a little bit.

I’ve been doing the OPKs since CD7, currently CD14 and my cycles are 27-29 days in length. So I was expecting a peak OPK reading yesterday or today. Perhaps I’ve just missed it this month, or it’s not happened yet! You don’t think the thin dark line on my tests above is a peak positive? It’s darker in real life, but just so very thin!

WorriedD93 · 17/11/2021 15:27

@alexalexalex18 I do get ovary pain but think that’s because I had an ectopic last pregnancy xxx

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 15:25

@ajayelbee

A thing that could help track ovulation is using an app where you input your basal temperature every morning the second you wake up.
I use Natural Cycles.

Usually when you ovulate there is a spike in temperature and if you keep tracking and the temperature doesn't lower before you get your period, it means pregnancy.
Ofc you need to input data for a while for it to pick up on how your body works but it gives you a better chance to know when ovulation is near and to know when to test.

A good bet is to start using ovulation strips a week after your period, cause you can start ovulating as soon as 10 days from when it begins. It depends how long your cycle is and how your eggs mature.
It's better to start tracking with strips before you think you're ovulating so you won't miss your window.

gvs97 · 17/11/2021 15:20

Lots of positives coming up from this thread - good luck ladies🤞🤞🤞

ajayelbee · 17/11/2021 15:18

@alexalexalex18 ovulation, yes. I held my pee for about 3 hours for that one and tired to drink less than I normally do. But I get such bad headaches I have to drink something! Honestly. I’m so confused by it all!

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 15:15

@ajayelbee

Is that for ovulation?
Be careful to not use diluted urine. Hold your pee for a few hours, you normally have to test twice per day to get an accurate reading. The peak can disappear fast.

alexalexalex18 · 17/11/2021 15:14

@Curlywurly3

Today my bitter taste is worse than ever :))
I read that if it's not morning pee for testing then I need to hold it for at least 4 hors, going cray here