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Faith, trust & baby dust! βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨ TTC 12 months + 🀞🏼 On this rollercoaster together with a little love, support and giggles to get us by! πŸ’•

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HopefulGlow · 30/10/2021 10:20

Hi all!

We were getting to the end of the previous thread, so thought it’s best to start a new one.

A quick catch up I think mainly everyone on the old thread is as 12 months + TTC.

Newbies are always welcome.

Just sharing our journeys, supporting each other when possible, and having somewhere to moan and let it all out

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Amy259 · 11/01/2022 18:36

Hi ladies,

@HopefulGlow sorry for the big delay, I didn’t get the tag notification and today popped on to see how you all were and spotted it.

Sorry to hear about those having a tough start to the year with rubbish job situations, stressy house moves, announcements, general January blues, and everything else!

All okay at this end, work is a bit slow and I’m struggling to get any enthusiasm back after Christmas - I’ll just blame it on Jan πŸ˜‚

Won’t go into too much detail but all okay with bump too, starting to fly in a little now which is a welcome change from the drag of the first couple of months.

Sending you all lots of love and good vibes as always β™₯️

Bundaberg84 · 11/01/2022 14:48

Hi everyone, I hope it's okay if I join this thread. Starting this month, it's been 12 months now TTC and honestly I'm just over it by now.
The whole journey started so good actually, after three years marriage and 11 years together we decided to give it a shot, got pregnant in the first month really trying but ended up being a chemical. I was almost relieved as it happened so fast, I thought I wasn't really ready yet. Tried again in March or April, got a BFP again in June that ended up in an ectopic pregnancy, I had to remove one of my tubes. Took a break again and started TTC again in August, but nothing since then. Went to acupuncture, even tried a fertility massage once which was nice but I didn't click with the woman who was doing the massages.
I did bloodwork three months ago to see if everything is okay, I mean I know we were able to get pregnant but still, we're both no spring chickens anymore. Everything was alright, doctor was happy about the blood results.
Two cycles ago I decided to not use the cb monitor anymore and try not to track other than with an app, in hopes to not to get too invested. But that is easier said than done. We only managed to DTD once in the fertile week last cycle but I was still bummed when AF showed up yesterday.
As I said, I'm so over it. I think I could accept it if a doctor would tell me that I won't be able to have children. But that limbo, it makes me crazy.
Sorry for the long ramble. It's just not my day or week. I hope you all are having a better time than I'm having right now. I'll soak myself in the bathtub tonight and drink some wine, and tomorrow will be a different day.

xoJellyBean · 11/01/2022 11:40

Oops sorry ladies, I've fallen a wee bit behind πŸ€£πŸ‘€

@HopefulGlow your cushion and skirt look amazing!! Well done you! I wish I was good at sewing πŸ₯°

@LA9610 sorry about your review. That's disappointing but I'm also feeling the same about the maternity leave 🀞🏻🀣

I've probably missed loads more on here... how's everyone's day going?

HopefulGlow · 11/01/2022 08:50

@LA9610 oh my goodness your manager sounds so frustrating!! The fact you have asked what you can do better too, and still nothing?! They sound like my manager, he sings my praises, says how much of a positive team member I am. Then come pay rise month I get 0.97% πŸ˜‚ the lowest out of all my team!!! When I asked him about it he said β€œoh I know it’s awful but it’s out of my hands” but I know full well he bloody decides it! Since then I’ve been on/off looking for new work.

For me it’s not actually knowing what I want to do πŸ˜… I love being creative and doing the stuff I’m doing now but I wish I could find a less corporate job, oh and more money!! πŸ˜‚ because my pay is shocking at the moment. I’m lucky OH gets paid well.

Do you know what work you would want to go into? I would ignore the BFP for now and focus on getting a job you feel valued in and enjoy? That could help do you think?

So sorry you were so upset today, I hate those days. They always take it out of you too. I’m very happy you got to call with you DH and he made you feel better πŸ₯° how is his trip away going?

@Lauralozzle ah ok, that’s good to know you could mix them if you had the opportunity. I don’t know exactly how expensive IVF is but I can only imagine! I found some good test prices private but that’s only the tests, that’s not any help/support or treatment after, it’s crazy!

But I think you are right, the NHS do it so the people who can pay, do! It saves them money. I think summer is a good deadline though, good thinking!!

@AZ1992X tbh I’m feeling much better this week, even with those announcements I didn’t cry although I was low. I think I cried too much last week haha I’ve ran out now πŸ˜‚

My OH is struggling a little too now. He said it’s all around him. I did remind him that he scans pregnant ladies for a living πŸ˜‚ but he said that’s just his work so he can separate it when he’s there. But now he has it at work and everywhere else. So at least I know I’m not the only one seeing it.

Ever since you mentioned your Indian I’ve been craving one, so I put it on our menu board this week 😁❀️ I did manage to do some yoga thanks. Only 25 minutes but it was a good flow, I’m going to aim to do another tomorrow. I’m so lazy now haha I used to do Zumba or yoga every other day and now I much prefer sitting and sewing or playing a game πŸ˜…

I think a Christmas market sounds perfect! Hopefully you will get snow 😍😍😍 that’s on my bucket list, they all look so magic. So you will have an amazing birthday πŸŽ‰

I’ve not been to Leeds before so I’m really excited. We got this hotel spa offer which includes one treatment and we are going to a restaurant called Tattu. It looks so nice. If you recommend anything let me know!

Wants everyone’s plans this week?

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AZ1992X · 11/01/2022 08:24

@Lauralozzle Just wanted to say welcome!

You’re more than welcome to join but as the others have said I’m so sorry you’re in this position ❀️ 2.5 years feels like such a long time so I’m glad you’re finally getting some help.

The ladies on this group have been so supportive especially in some really hard times for me. I hope we can do the same.

I must admit that I also didn’t know much about prolactin so its been useful to find out, I really hope now they have picked it up they can help.

AZ1992X · 11/01/2022 08:04

Morning ladies!

Just trying to catch up so apologies if I miss something.

@HopefulGlow that’s great you haven’t got long to wait till your assessment and I’m really glad that OH is being really supportive too. That must be really tough for both of you, I hope that it’ll help speaking to someone about it.

Haha I like that mindset that the Indian was 0 calories πŸ˜‚, did you manage to find some time for your yoga? - I’ve also been really lazy over Christmas with the exception of one very long walk so wanted to try and get on track and hope it’ll make me feel a bit better too.

I wish our chocolate had gone, we’ve still got so much left and it’s so hard to not snack on them during the day πŸ™ˆ, so far I’m doing well and having a couple in the evening with a cuppa.

A sewing machine sounds like such a thoughtful gift - I love it.

I’ve not been Italy before but really hoping we can go as it looks so nice and we’re planning on doing some day trips too. For my 30th I’m thinking a city in Europe that does Christmas markets - maybe somewhere in Belgium or Germany?

I love Leeds too! I’m sure you’ll have a lovely time. What are your plans? Food/shopping etc?

Wow two announcements in a row - you did so well not to cry. I think I defo would have πŸ™ˆ , hopefully that’s it on the announcement front for a little while.

Realised I’ve only got through your message but don’t want to lose what I’ve wrote so far so will try and catch up on the other messages shortly.

Hope everyone’s doing ok ❀️

Lauralozzle · 10/01/2022 14:22

@HopefulGlow I think technically I can have 1 full round of ivf and still be eligible for NHS but it’s the cost factor and then the delay - any frozen embryos would have to be transferred too before I could go ahead with NHS. I don’t think I could afford IVF and then multiple FETs without a program like access fertility because I don’t think I’d be comfortable knowing I can only afford one round on my own. I think we’d need a package type thing for extra goes for security factor of it all!

If I can get somewhere with the docs by Summer then I’ll keep at it, if I’m still in this position and getting nowhere I think I’ll make a private appointment and what it costs - I know fertility assessment/scans /tests can cost thousands once you’re in it so to speak.

The cynic in me thinks the NHS do this on purpose to weed out people who will go private. Or perhaps I’m just in a bad mood! Lol

Another issue is that we’re in middle of sorting our house out - we have some funds but they’re for spoken for, so to speak. It makes trying to sort funds difficult. Don’t want to wait much longer, but if use our savings on treatment then get pregnant we won’t have the money to make the house safe for a baby! Currently living in a bit of a building site, as we’re saving to sort one room out a time and I got a bit carried away last year ripping out all the skirting boards/getting most of house replastered. It’s not finished yet! We could potentially take out another loan but to be honest, at the moment I don’t think I’m quite there yet!

@LA9610 I’m sorry to hear about your work review. That’s not very helpful! I stuck in my last job last year thinking can’t really leave and waiting for BFP for mat leave! I didn’t want to go into new job then get pregnant/have to go on mat leave shortly after but I was bored and fairly unhappy.

So, in attempt to tempt fate I just bit the bullet and applied for my new job last year, half hoping it’d be sods law that something would happen soon and I’d have to have awkward conversations with my new boss about being pregnant haha. I also am interested in what I’ll be doing, much more so than my old job, so it’s the right thing to have moved - I’m just bored at the moment because my training can’t start properly yet! Hence why I’m here! Haha! Although, Trying to tempt fate isn’t working at the moment!

My Monday is going ok, nothing much to do. My one meeting has been cancelled! Just sat reading policy documents haha. Boring! AF seems to have tapered off now, so now starts the time where I’m waiting for fertility window. Had a late ovulation last month, historically speaking, that usually means this cycle will be short (24 days ish) so expecting the expensive pee sticks to start showing high fertility any point in next few days!

LA9610 · 10/01/2022 13:39

Hey everyone, Happy Monday.

@Lauralozzle - thanks, I did have a long video call with DH last night and he cheered me up as usual. Honestly spent most of yesterday crying - was a really horrible day. This is what I hate about TTC, I'm normally not much of a crier but now I just find myself crying all the bloody time, I hate it! That's a bit rubbish you have nothing to do at work - i've been quite quiet since Christmas too which is unusual as normally i'm always busy. Giving me time to write on here tho haha.

Had my end of year performance review this morning with my boss which was so frustrating - sings my praises, gives me nothing negative or even constructive criticism to work on - then gives me an absolutely average rating. So I ask for areas of improvement, how I can get to the next level etc. and he's giving me absolutely nothing. i ask if he perceives my performance in 2021 to have been any worse/better/same as in 2020 and he can't tell me that either. Such a waste of time and I feel so frustrated with my job atm but like many others I feel stuck while TTC and just praying to get BFP and be able to go on maternity leave for a year LOL.

HopefulGlow · 10/01/2022 12:04

@Lauralozzle ahhh the dreaded Google searches haha we all do it and sometimes it can be helpful, other times it can make you worry tenfold!!

Thanks for clearing up about Prolactin, I had no idea so it’s great to learn something new 😁

Thank goodness the levels are low too so it’s nothing worrying. Hopefully the fertility specialist can help give reasons for this and solutions.

Private is so expensive, it’s frustrating. Maybe you could dip between private and NHS? Is that something that’s possible? I’m not too sure.

Yeah I’m hoping a dead arm is my only side affect πŸ˜‚ I did Google getting the booster in your TWW and plenty of people got it and got BFPs so at least that’s one less worry?

@Tinkerbell098 thank you! It’s made me want to sew more, I need to practice though.

Glad your prolactin went down too, stress can cause so many issues and it’s hard not to be stressed when TTC πŸ˜…

How’s everyone’s Monday? βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨

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Lauralozzle · 10/01/2022 10:39

@Tinkerbell098 yes, had x2 bloods for prolactin- both elevated just over 1000. I know stress can elevate the levels, I have a new job now that is less stressful. Doctor said for it to be tumour he’d expect it to be way over - I think that’s why he’s just not sure, because my cycles are so regular. It’s hard not to feel stressed after 2.5 years of ttc. Maybe I’m in a constant state of stress!

Tinkerbell098 · 10/01/2022 10:17

@HopefulGlow amazing work on the sewing! It looks lovely!

@Lauralozzle just wanted to ask if you've repeated your Prolactin test by any chance? I had my first bloods done back in Aug last year, which showed elevated Prolactin (over 1000 miu/L), which was re-tested in November, and it was down to 132 miu/L, which is a massive drop. I have spoken to three different doctors who re-assured me that Prolactin is one that can vary even with stress, and also mentioned, for it to be a tumour, it'll need to be much much higher in the 10,000 range. So I wouldn't worry too much about that if you have regular cycles and everything else looks ok. Hope that makes you feel a little better.

Lauralozzle · 09/01/2022 22:01

@Fra1991 @LA9610 @HopefulGlow thank you all! need to be in some good company!

I've made the mistake looking down the google hole re prolactin. Problem is, I asked my doctor if it can affect fertility and he said he'd ask the hormone specialists. From what I under stand, my prolactin levels are double what they should be, it can be caused by a benign tumour in your pituitary gland in your brain, but the doctor did say if that was the case, he would expect my levels to be much much higher. Google says that it can cause infertility, mainly by basically stopping you ovulate - screws up LH I think. This is where it gets a bit strange for me, every month I get EWCM, always get a peak OPK etc, regular periods every 26-29 days. Doctors did not say there was anything wrong with day 21 bloods so it looks like I'm ovulating.

With them first set of bloods my thyroid was borderline too, so had repeat bloods for that, my thyroid was fine second time around. Under active thyroid can also cause elevated prolactin levels. As can PCOS.

I've also read that elevated prolactin can cause luteal phase issues in people with fairly regular periods. My luteal phase is about 11-12 days, not massively low, but not 14 either. Could also cause insufficient progesterone and implantation issues from what I've read. But a lot of that is read down a google hole of gloom and how much is true I don't know. I suppose it's enough of an enigma for doctor to basically say I don't know, which isn't particularly reassuring.

It definitely seems to be an issue though.

I originally went to the doctors at 1 year mark, basically said come back in a year. Went back at 2 year mark, which is when the bloods started. Had a little issue in August as they had my height down wrong so my bmi was over 30 - basically told to lose some weight. When I went in December they measured me and weighed me and it came to I was down as like 7cm shorter than I am, so bmi has actually been below 30 the whole time!

I'm on the verge on wanting to go private, but DH is adamant that we can't afford it right now (he's right, really). So I'm banking on doctors doing their jobs properly at the moment.

@Fra1991 4-6 weeks seems like a long time! Hopefully it gets done before then. Going away for a weekend in Feb sounds lovely.

I don't have many plans this year really at the moment. A couple of birthdays coming up, but no holiday or anything planned yet.

@LA9610 I hope you're feeling a bit better. I know how hard it is when you know your period is around the corner and will show up like clockwork. It's crushing. Hopefully you can look forward to your trip to Italy (might be a tiny bit jealous, me and DH went to Sorrento for our honeymoon). Loved it.

@HopefulGlow definitely, at school basically told get near a penis and you'll end up pregnant. Not bloody likely.

I had my booster in December, delayed ovulation by a couple days but apart from that, I was fine, bit tired day after. Just felt like someone had punched me in the arm really hard for about 3 days.

You're knitting looks good. I can't even sew a button on properly!!! I manage it, but it looks horrendous when I've finished!

Is anyone ready for Monday πŸ™ƒ I started a new job in December and I've got nothing to do! It's really hard trying to fill in my time, it drags massively, training should start properly this month at some point but at the moment it's so slow! at least I'm way less stressed than I was before! Thats got to be worth something.

HopefulGlow · 09/01/2022 16:49

Welcome @Lauralozzle πŸ’• so sorry you’re in this position too, 2.5 years is such a long time but I’m glad you’re getting some help now.

I have no clue about Prolactin either, can you educate us? πŸ™‚ it’s crazy how many things can be β€œwrong” to affect fertility. I watched a Ted talk about a lady who struggled with infertility and she hit the nail on the head…”in school and tv you’re taught as soon as you get within 10cm of sperm or a penis you will get pregnant….clearly that’s not the case”

And it made me laugh, because it’s so damn true! A lot of us spend years avoiding pregnancy at the wrong time and as soon as we try for a baby, it seems impossible! πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

I would deffo chase your doctor, sometimes they can be slow and need a little nudge.

It is such a long process! I’ve had all my tests (which are fine?) but we are waiting for my OH to have his SA…even though he’s had 2 DC before, so I know it’s not him. 😫 hopefully you hear back from fertility soon.

@Fra1991 it’s so difficult isn’t it?! You don’t want to feel like that and you know it’s not fair, but you can’t help it.

Good idea on deleting socials, that seems to be what a lot of people do to cope.

I was thinking today, hopefully one day when we make our own baby announcement, how can you do it with a subtle nod to others in our position now? No one knows about our struggles but I would like to maybe put something about TTC in the announcement without it being obvious? And also say if anyone needs to mute/unfollow me because of it, I understand! Does that make sense?

Everyone seems to be going away, that’s definitely a good idea to have some positive and romantic times too πŸ₯°

@LA9610 I do that all the time too haha or press the wrong button and click off the page πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

What’s normal people? I’ve not seen it. So sorry you’re feeling so low, it must be so hard with DH away too. Sending lots of hugs πŸ’•

Augh that’s so annoying! Damn covid ruining all our trips!! Fingers crossed for May though 🀞🏼

Ive got my booster on Weds and I hope I’m ok after, I never had issues with my previous jabs.

I’ve done a bit of sewing today! It worked out okay πŸ˜‚ I made a little skirt out of an old shirt for my OH DD and then put my punch needle thingy on a cushion for a late secret Santa gift πŸ˜‚ they deffo look handmade but πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

Not ready for Monday though πŸ˜­βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨

Faith, trust & baby dust! βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨ TTC 12 months + 🀞🏼 On this rollercoaster together with a little love, support and giggles to get us by! πŸ’•
Faith, trust & baby dust! βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨ TTC 12 months + 🀞🏼 On this rollercoaster together with a little love, support and giggles to get us by! πŸ’•
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LA9610 · 09/01/2022 13:22

Hey everyone!

This is my second time writing this as the first time I got distracted midway and then lost it πŸ™ˆ

@Lauralozzle welcome! 2.5 years is such a long time πŸ˜”, you must have the patience of a Saint to have waited this long to get the referral to subfertility clinic! Hope you hear something soon.

Think a few people have asked now so won't reply to specific person but I'm 11DPO atm. I know I'm going to get my period though. I literally feel it coming when I get to this stage, every month the symptoms are like clockwork. AF is due on Wed (snap @Fra1991 !) But I reckon I will probably get it on Tues πŸ˜” just feel so hopeless and tearful just now.

Had a really rough night last night, DH is away and I was reading Normal People (seen the programme so I already know the story) but my god it just gets to me because I find the story really relatable in ways and I was crying because of that but also just the realisation and hopelessness that comes when I know it hasn't worked again πŸ˜”

Sounds like everyone has nice plans for the year 😊 I'm similar, just want to make the most of the time that we haven't conceived but obviously Covid is not helping that plan πŸ˜’ were meant to be going Italy in April but it was just cancelled so I've rebooked for end of May 🀞 hopefully get a wee city break in before then or a weekend away or something!

Hope you are all having a lovely weekend? I've done F All except read πŸ˜‚ going to force myself to do a workout in a mo x

Fra1991 · 09/01/2022 12:41

Hi girls! Hope everyone is having a good weekend!

@HopefulGlow I’m glad you are getting someone to talk to - I know what you mean about the bitterness - I get it too because my OH and I have been together 10 years and I have waited for him to be ready for kids but now I think maybe if we had started 5 years ago this wouldn’t be such a problem but then I think will his SA showed no issues so it must be me anyway. @xoJellyBean I am the same re nursery - we even put up shelves in the room I want to use a couple of years ago and I made sure that they would be higher than the baby wardrobes I want to get πŸ™ˆ . All the baby announcements are hard - I deleted my social media to avoid them now.

@LA9610 af due Wednesday which it would just come this is the worst week and it feels like I have AF for 2 weeks out of 4 so just feels like all the time! Where are you in the cycle?

@Lauralozzle welcome! This group has helped me - it’s good company and also reassuring to know others have the same feelings as you. Sorry you haven’t conceived yet, what does prolactin do? Definitely try again - my sisters work in hospitals and told me you just have to kick up a fuss to get anywhere. I’m not very good at doing it tho.

I contacted a fertility clinic on Friday and they said to send on my medical history so I phoned my doctors and they said it would be 4-6 weeks! Seems bizarre for something that seems like it’s just a case of lifting from the computer!

We are going away in February for a weekend so looking forward to that and also lots of weddings! What about everyone’s else’s plans for the year?

Lauralozzle · 09/01/2022 10:44

Hey all, hoping I can join.

We’ve been trying for 2.5 years, DH has had SA and everything is good. Ive had bloods taken, but they’ve found out I have high prolactin.

Doctor hasn’t got a clue what to do about that, so has written to hormone specialists for further advice. That was in December (I had to have repeat bloods to check). Not heard anything yet, temped to ring them next week as my doctor has been known to say he’ll do something and then just doesn’t do it. Also had referral to fertility doctors at same time but haven’t heard anything from that, but I’m not 100% sure it’s been done!

Currently on CD 7 of cycle 34 (I think). I think I’ve just resigned myself to this not working until we get proper help from fertility clinic to be honest. This whole process is just taking a lifetime.

HopefulGlow · 09/01/2022 10:22

@AZ1992X I have an assessment at the end of the month, so I’m quite impressed with how quick it is. My OH is so supportive and helpful and I feel so bad feeling so negative and sometimes bitter about him already have DC. And I really don’t want that mindset, it’s not helpful and it’s not his fault. He said before of course he doesn’t wish he didn’t have them, but he does wish it could have been us instead. So I know it’s hard for him too.

Yes I’m very grateful the moving is over & on the plus side we saved money by doing it ourself haha I’ve just been spending my days off unpacking and it’s been therapeutic.

Haha that is annoying BUT I think it’s good you exercised because that cancels out the Indian! Which means all the delicious food was 0 calories/fat haha that’s how I see it. I’m going to do some yoga today I think, I’ve been super lazy recently. Might even try and do some Zumba this week too πŸ™‚

That sounds lovely! I of course got chocolate too which I’ve almost run out of πŸ˜‚ and everyone chipped in to get me a little sewing machine as mine broke a few months ago. So I’m happy I can attempt to sew again haha

Your year sounds lovely and I might have to steal that goal! I’ve never been to Italy but it sounds and looks so beautiful. Ooooo a big birthday too! Where will you go? 😍

We are going away to Leeds at the end of the month just for the weekend, but I’m so excited. It feels like we’ve not had a date in forever.

My SIL announced she’s having a baby boy on Friday πŸ₯°πŸ’™ then yesterday I was cleaning my kitchen and my new neighbor had a gender reveal in the garden…I only knew as pink confetti and smoke suddenly covered my whole garden πŸ˜… I was like geeze two days in a row?!…I’m happy for you these people but please give me a break πŸ™ˆ BUT I didn’t cry, so that’s always a bonus. πŸ˜…

What’s everyone’s plans today? Im definitely having a lazy one as yesterday I was cleaning and unpacking loads.

Also, sorry again for a long message πŸ˜‚

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AZ1992X · 09/01/2022 09:36

P.s sorry for the very very long messsge! πŸ™ˆπŸ˜‚

AZ1992X · 09/01/2022 09:35

Morning ladies!

Hope everyone’s having a nice weekend. Ended up going for an Indian last night fairly last minute which was nice but ready for a chilled evening tonight.

@LA9610 I think I’m around 1/2 DPO so I’m the 2ww. Where abouts are you in this cycle?

I agree about Christmas - I use that as a pinpoint and think by next Christmas I’ll have a baby or be pregnant and nothing. I’ll still say the same about next Christmas though - trying to be positive 🀞

@HopefulGlow I’m glad you feel a little bit better asking for some support - did they say how long it would take to access the counselling?

Oh no! It’s sounds like you’ve had a nightmare moving. At least it’s done now and you can look ahead to enjoying your new home and making some good memories. ❀️

Yes, agree I was defo ready to get back to being a bit healthier, did a workout yesterday too just to try and make myself feel a little better. Although we got asked if we wanted to go for an Indian so feel it went out the window!

Christmas was the usual stuff chocolate, beauty and skincare, pjs, perfume, etc … did you get anything nice?

RE this year me & OH have said we really want to try and make it a good year with some things to look forward too. We’ve committed to at least one date night or day every month something like a meal out or cinema or a day trip then we’re hoping to go to Italy in April and maybe go abroad for my 30th later this year ☺️ Do you have any nice plans?

@xoJellyBean I’m glad you had a nice Christmas but sorry to hear about all the announcements especially around Christmas - I think that’s really hard. I know it’s hard but try and stay positive I’m sure our time will come ❀️

@Tinkerbell098 welcome back! Hope you’re doing ok and had a nice Christmas/ New year

X.

HopefulGlow · 08/01/2022 08:44

@Tinkerbell098 hi! Welcome back :) how was your Christmas? Did you have a nice break?

@xoJellyBean Augh that would be a dream wouldn’t it πŸ₯° I have a whole Pinterest section on nursery’s too, I still save to it just in case. But I wouldn’t want to know the sex so I would have to pick neutral colours πŸ˜…

Glad you and your hubby have sorted it out, it’s hard when you’re not on the same level isn’t it!

I was so thankful it was Friday yesterday!! The first week back after a break is so hard and it was only 4 days haha

What’s your plans this weekend? βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨

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xoJellyBean · 07/01/2022 19:19

@HopefulGlow I've been dreaming of doing up a nursery since we moved in here 🀣🀞🏻 that's great.

Ahh yes my hubby was a little annoying because he couldn't understand why I was upset but we are all okay now! Thankful for mumsnet πŸ₯°

Glad to hear you had a nice Christmas. I was off for nearly two weeks, amazing! Hard to get back in to it now 😀 how's your Friday going? My OPKs are still negative at CD22 lol

@Tinkerbell098 hey, how are you doing? ☺️

Tinkerbell098 · 07/01/2022 13:53

Hi ladies, just caught up with the messages as I've been off mn for a couple of weeks. Hope you are having a lovely Friday so far.

HopefulGlow · 07/01/2022 07:57

@xoJellyBean forgot to say my Christmas was nice thanks. Luckily I was off for a little bit. Were you? βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨

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HopefulGlow · 07/01/2022 07:54

@xoJellyBean it’s lovely when everything starts falling into place isn’t it! It feels like unpacking boxes is never ending though haha

Oh no, I’m so sorry there were loads of announcements 😞 I think I would have had a melt down too. Did you manage to get some support from everyone? It’s hard when you get overwhelmed like that, but it can’t be helped ❀️

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xoJellyBean · 06/01/2022 21:44

@HopefulGlow aww that's great, I love settling in once the stress is all over!! We moved a year ago and it's flown inπŸ₯° I had a lovely Christmas, surrounded by lots of pregnancy announcements though so had a little freak out that I may never be a mum but trying to stay positive🀞🏻 did you a nice Christmas? Were you off work?