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Cycle Day 1 - SMEP method?

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MummyStevensToBe · 28/10/2021 16:18

Hi Mummies-to-be! Is anyone at a similar stage in their cycle and going to try the SMEP method this time? Would love to share the highs and lows of the journey together!

This is our second cycle, TTC baby #1, but first cycle I’m pretty sure we DTD around the wrong time / missed my ovulation day. Thought SMEP could give us a better chance!

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Firsttimetrier · 19/11/2021 14:26

It feels so strange and don’t believe that it’s real. I think because I’ve not had any symptoms this week. Usually my boobs are so sore in the lead up to AF.

Feel a bit worried to get too excited as it seems to early.

I didn’t think lines would be so strong at this stage, but I will go and get more tests for my FMU tomorrow.

Moonshine160 · 19/11/2021 14:21

@MummyStevensToBe I think I’m going to give it till Wednesday which I know is a while away but I know then that my period is definitely late. Last month I tested on the day my period was due which was a BFN then my period arrived about 30 mins later :(

@Firsttimetrier wow those are good lines for 9DPO! Congratulations Flowers

ExPatHereForAChat · 19/11/2021 14:13

@Firsttimetrier That's a great line. Woooo!

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MummyStevensToBe · 19/11/2021 14:08

@ExPatHereForAChat you totally deserve to treat yourself and that sounds like a lovely pamper session - enjoy :)

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MummyStevensToBe · 19/11/2021 14:07

Omg!! Congratulations @Firsttimetrier that is amazing!!! 💕

JUST as you'd said you're not feeling anything either! Great lines at 9DPO too!

So exciting! How are you feeling?! X

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Firsttimetrier · 19/11/2021 13:58

Well, a lot can change in the space of two hours.

I decided to do my cheap test out of curiosity and a second line popped up..

After a crazed call to my best friend as I can’t get through to my DH as he’s teaching (and probably not news he needs to hear partway through teaching 😂) I got another positive test.

I was so, so sure we were out this month as I don’t feel anything!

Only 9DPO, so going to wait and see what happens!

Cycle Day 1 - SMEP method?
ExPatHereForAChat · 19/11/2021 12:26

Thank you ladies. It's a bit disappointing but hey ho. @MummyStevensToBe I've just booked my hair appointment. Blonde highlights with some pink and an Olaplex treatment. May as well spoil myself.

I'm very impressed at the people holding off on testing. I could have saved 12 quid this month if I'd been more sensible!

Firsttimetrier · 19/11/2021 12:22

So sorry @ExPatHereForAChat really hope next cycle is the one for you! Do you think you’ll do SMEP again?

I’m basically symptomless at this stage, which I know is perfectly normal for 9DPO, but I swear I had PMS this time last cycle?

I’ve got some cheap tests which I might use over the weekend and into next week, then use my FRER if anything seem remotely positive.

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MummyStevensToBe · 19/11/2021 12:08

So sorry @ExPatHereForAChat :( sending hugs 💕 and def treat yourself to those highlights now! On to the next cycle 🤞

@Moonshine160 that sounds positive! Will you test on Monday if no AF? 🤞

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Moonshine160 · 19/11/2021 11:58

@ExPatHereForAChat sorry to hear AF arrived :( but yes that’s exactly one of the reasons why I’m refusing to test until my period is due from now on! Hope you’re ok.

I’m 12DPO and woken up with a really strong sense of smell and I feel a bit tired and sicky. Hoping it’s a good sign but I have had a cold so could just be from that.

ExPatHereForAChat · 19/11/2021 11:32

Well, AF showed her ugly face this morning! Only saving grace is I didn't waste a FRER this morning before I realised. Sending all you ladies lots of baby dust.

Moonshine160 · 19/11/2021 07:27

@MummyStevensToBe my apps say wednesday based on previous cycles but I ovulated a couple of days earlier than normal this month so I think it should be Monday x

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MummyStevensToBe · 18/11/2021 22:23

@Firsttimetrier definitely don't give up any hope just yet, it's still very early days - positive thoughts 🤞

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MummyStevensToBe · 18/11/2021 22:20

@Moonshine160 well done for resisting the urge! What day is AF due? X

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MummyStevensToBe · 18/11/2021 22:20

Happy birthday @mrsS21 🥳🎂 here's hoping for a BFP birthday present for you!

So sorry to hear about your situation @Peonies94 ❤️ is there anyway the bfn could be wrong still? As you said, if not this month then next month :)

I've had such a stressful day and was so desperate for a glass of wine tonight but then panicked in case it impacted anything so didn't - am I being ridiculous?!

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mrsS21 · 18/11/2021 21:08

It is really odd, especially to have two with very obvious lines. I’m so sorry you’ve had such a rollercoaster the last 24hrs @Peonies94 💐

Yes there is always next month, hopefully our 2nd month trying smep will do the trick! My resting HR seems to have dropped off completely, so think I’m definitely out too…dammit. Would have been perfectly timed for a birthday present this week!

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 17:41

@mrsS21 yes bfn on frer and one step after a long hold! So frustrating! I took 2 yesterday after I saw the first line I wanted to confirm, it’s just weird how 2 come up positive! Nevermind.. there’s always next month!

mrsS21 · 18/11/2021 17:17

Thank you :) Have you tested again @Peonies94?

@Moonshine160 let’s hope AF doesn’t show and you get a lovely end to the month!

Moonshine160 · 18/11/2021 15:26

I’m 11DPO today and still resisting the urge to test. I’ve got lots of PMS symptoms so pretty sure it’s a no this month but I can’t stand the disappointment of a BFN so think I might just wait till AF arrives x

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 15:22

@mrsS21 glad you’ve had a lovely day !

mrsS21 · 18/11/2021 14:55

Thanks @Peonies94 ☺️ It’s today - we’ve had a lovely family day together so far. Was hoping testing tomorrow might give me more chance. But think I’m just going to wait and see if AF shows or not. Feeling pretty normal today, no symptoms. What will be will be now.
@Firsttimetrier think we’re on same dpo :) hope you’re doing ok!

Firsttimetrier · 18/11/2021 11:16

Just wondered how you are all getting on?

8DPO here and not feeling too much, even though I know it’s too soon. I’m really in two minds if this month is successful, with leading towards an unsuccessful month but we will see!

Got some internet cheapies, so might just test from tomorrow until AF which is due A week today

ExPatHereForAChat · 17/11/2021 17:32

@Mummystevenstobe I know you're right and I should wait until the weekend for sure. Whether or not I'll manage that, we shall see.
I currently have NO symptoms at all, not even my normal pre AF cramps which is a bit weird.
Currently preparing for DS's birthday party tomorrow which is a great distraction.

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MummyStevensToBe · 17/11/2021 17:25

@Moonshine160 the waiting game is so tough, but not long left for you 🤞

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MummyStevensToBe · 17/11/2021 17:24

@ExPatHereForAChat aww, don't worry! 9DPO is soooo early, that negative means nothing. Still plenty of time! Maybe test this weekend?

@mrsS21 happy birthday for Friday! Let's hope You get your birthday wishes 💫

I'm 2DPO and I know I won't have any symptoms yet either way but I am EXHAUSTED - nothing new there though, and more than likely just catching up after all the pressure of the fertile week 😂

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