Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

When to test?

317 replies

StillJustWaiting · 28/10/2021 09:34

Hey ladies, I'm spending sooo much money each month on pregnancy tests... i think I'm addicted to peeing on sticks 😅 how early have you ladies actually got a positive test? My af is due in 6 days and i been testing all week - knowing its way to early but getting so disheartened seeing just the one line :( when should i start testing really?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
55
Stallsey · 20/11/2021 19:37

@1Dandelion1 sorry to hear AF arrived, enjoy the cheese😍

@JemG908 hope you get some answers soon, it really is frustrating! Insomnia was one of my first symptoms.

@WhatTheEll Wooooo!!!! Get busy! Sending positive vibes for this cycle xxx

WhatTheEll · 20/11/2021 17:32

@1Dandelion1 Enioy the carby cheesiness!!

@JemG908 Sorry you're in limbo! I hope you get clarity soon.

Just got a high reading on ovulation dip test. Back to it ladies 👏🏻

JemG908 · 20/11/2021 16:00

@1Dandelion1 enjoy the weekend!!

Still no AF for me - but no positive yet either, tested yesterday morning and don't think it could have been more negative, 6 days late which is highly unusual. Decided to stop testing now and if no AF next week I'll do another then try and get in with docs. Definitely have loads of symptoms - lay awake until 430 this morning Confused

1Dandelion1 · 20/11/2021 13:47

@WhatTheEll AF arrived last night, woke me up with her usual thunder claps!
Going to enjoy cheese and carbs this weekend!

WhatTheEll · 19/11/2021 19:34

@1Dandelion1 @StillJustWaiting how did you both get on? X

1Dandelion1 · 18/11/2021 20:40

Still no AF for me, plan on testing again tomorrow.

StillJustWaiting · 18/11/2021 18:08

I have to be honest, I'm almost too scared to go to the dr's incase its something bad bad if that makes sense? But I will call them again tomorrow, fingers crossed i get through this time!!

@Stallsey it is very think and even, its very light blue but definitely blue ... bet then again we know what these blue dye tests are like!

@JemG908 I was a couple weeks ago getting very very faint lines on FRER but have fully given up with those tests as i swear it's just the indent line I'm spotting with my hopeful eyes !!! But had totally negative CB tests .... i have had EVIL evap lines on CB so i do not look at them AT ALL after 10 mins- causes too much heart ache...

@WhatTheEll I know, I'm so so fed up with it all... i just want to totally give up but i also feel like I can't totally give up till AF arrives .... i still have absolutely none of my usual AF symptoms - other than painful, lumpy boobs !

I stopped at the shop on my way home from work and grabbed a couple more tests - tested just now and it's totally negative, ill try again in the morning or in a couple days and see but i will also get on to my GP tomorrow xx

OP posts:
WhatTheEll · 18/11/2021 17:08

@StillJustWaiting Definitely see it too! It's hard to miss actually. I really feel for you, there's obviously something going on. You must be so confused ♥️ I'd speak to GP xx

JemG908 · 18/11/2021 13:45

@StillJustWaiting I definitely see something there too - where you getting faints before now? X

Stallsey · 18/11/2021 13:22

@StillJustWaiting that's crazy, I can see it! It does look very thick. Definitely book some bloods at the docs as they will be able to check your HCG levels! Xxx

StillJustWaiting · 18/11/2021 06:49

So I found a CB test this last night, took it this morning and got a vfl instantly... but still very faint ... could be line eyes, can anyone else see it? CD50 now!!!

When to test?
When to test?
When to test?
OP posts:
JemG908 · 17/11/2021 10:33

@Stallsey ah that's brilliant, excited for you!! I just had a thought as well, and I know I'm probably clutching at straws - the FRER tests I have are from last year, we had one try and then all the restrictions came in again so sort of shafted us - they aren't out of date - but I'm thinking / hoping there is a possibility they are defective 😂!! Real thin straws here, but I might order some more for the weekend before trying the docs... if AF doesn't show up that is! But will keep you posted!

Stallsey · 17/11/2021 10:26

@JemG908 Ah thank you! Yes my first, booked a private scan for a few weeks time so think it will all sink in then.
Very true about booking in at the doctors! Let us know if you get an appointment next week! X

JemG908 · 17/11/2021 09:22

@StillJustWaiting test couldn't be any more negative this morning - so weird... maybe just having an odd cycle. But will try and leave it until the weekend now to test again if AF hasn't shown up. Have you booked for bloods just in case?

@Stallsey yeah if nothing by the weekend I'll try and get in with the docs, but that's a nightmare for anyone at the min. Congrats to you, is it #1 for you?

Stallsey · 17/11/2021 07:06

@StillJustWaiting sorry for not replying sooner, I'm good thank you! Not much to report, I'm 5w3d now and eating everything in sight 😂 anymore AF symptoms? Let us know when you get a drs appointment ❤️

@JemG908 hi! all looks promising, if AF hasn't shown in a few days it might be worth getting some blood tests as they detect HCG earlier than any pregnancy test! Keep us updated!

@WhatTheEll wooo keep DTD!! You've got this 😘

StillJustWaiting · 17/11/2021 06:50

@JemG908 that all sounds really positive! :D please kee us updated when you test again ! :D

Im CD49 now, haven't tested since Friday as that was my final no for me but still AF is a no show! Still got very sensitive painful boobs but but that is still my only AF symptom.

I can't believe I'm on CD49 and not pregnant! I have never had a cycle this long without pregnancy!!! Xx

OP posts:
JemG908 · 16/11/2021 21:20

@WhatTheEll yes definitely, My partner is also female, so only get one try a month at it - so everything is timed to a T so to speak. It's just very unusual for AF to be late, along with the symptoms it's all very positive. But I was convinced it would have shown up on a test by now :(... didn't test yesterday, so going to try again in the morning and hope for something. Thank you for replying :):)

WhatTheEll · 16/11/2021 21:15

@JemG908 Hey 👋 it does all sound so positive. Are you definitely 15DPO? Do you know for sure when you ovulated? You're only a day late so there could still be hope. Always hope until AF arrives 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@emmilyb just plodding along at CD10 waiting for ovulation, CM and to DTD! 👍🏻 x
How are you?

JemG908 · 16/11/2021 18:29

Hey ladies,

I hope you don't mind me joining, I have been watching away at these threads for a long while, but never really had anything useful to add or say. But I'm looking for some advice / opinions.

I am 15dpo, and 1 day late - usually bang on 29day cycle. I from 4-5dpo I was getting symptoms I've never noticed before, and usually only get AF symptoms literally 30mins before arrival.

The last week or so I have been a mixture of grumpy and sensitive, low belly cramps on and off, today and yesterday I've been feeling sick on and off through the day. And today have very noticeable CM which I haven't noted before AF in previous months.

So everything points to great news - however as of yesterday morning i am still testing negative - I have inspected the tests and used different brands and no sign of any line at all - is it worth holding out hope for this month? Xx

emmilyb · 15/11/2021 23:31

@1Dandelion1 oh bless you!! There is definitely a line on both of them without fail have you been keeping the tests to see if the lines are getting darker! Fingers crossed 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 keep us updated xx

1Dandelion1 · 15/11/2021 22:52

@emmilyb 16-18 days dpo (i think)

We gave up trying 5 years ago after trying 10 with only heartache, i only track my period these days which was due last week - i only did the test to scare AF into line!

emmilyb · 15/11/2021 22:43

Hey ladies hope you're all doing well
It was deffo AF for me unfortunately mine was a chemical pregnancy but now back to a fresh cycle, my partner isn't clued up on ttc and ovulation and seems to think it means dtd everyday🤣 think I'm going to take a month of opks this month and just go with the slow and see what happens, last cycle was very stressful and ultimately meant me testing way too early, to think if I hadn't have tested I would never have known because af was just the same as normal. Fingers crossed for us all this month!
@StillJustWaiting i know the feeling on the long shifts! I work for nhs and mine are 12.5hr shifts so finding time around work can be hard but deffo get an appointment poked with gp if af doesn't show soon xx

@1Dandelion1 i can see faint lines on both have you tried clear blue digital untranearly I got "pregnant" on that one with faint lines, but it was a chemical, how many dpo are you?

@WhatTheEll how are you getting on hun x

1Dandelion1 · 15/11/2021 14:26

@StillJustWaiting I'm not sure and have pretty much come to terms with a negative result, maybe the previous test was a evap line.

If AF hasn't made her appearance by the weekend I'll test again. In the meantime i will enjoy chocolate, cheese and carbs.

WhatTheEll · 15/11/2021 14:12

@1Dandelion1 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you!
@StillJustWaiting how are you doing?? I'm currently CD9, started OPK (just cheap dip tests, so back on the DTD wagon 😬

StillJustWaiting · 15/11/2021 14:03

@1Dandelion1 that looks positive to me xx

OP posts: