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When to test?

317 replies

StillJustWaiting · 28/10/2021 09:34

Hey ladies, I'm spending sooo much money each month on pregnancy tests... i think I'm addicted to peeing on sticks 😅 how early have you ladies actually got a positive test? My af is due in 6 days and i been testing all week - knowing its way to early but getting so disheartened seeing just the one line :( when should i start testing really?

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emmilyb · 30/01/2022 18:24

@WhatTheEll
I have felt a lot more sick this time round but can't quite tell if it's because of my gastric sleeve surgery I had last July or pregnancy related sickness 🙈
I've lost 6 stone since my surgery but still have a very big belly😂 so doubt I'll show until late late pregnancy if at all.
I've spent the last 7 weeks trying to forget I am pregnant so now it's hard trying to tell myself I am xx

Here's my 8 week scan against my 12 week scan mad how quickly they grow x

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WhatTheEll · 30/01/2022 16:20

@emmilyb It went well!! Everything looking great. 🙏🏻
Do you have many symptoms? Ah 12 weeks! I'd love to be where you are so I'm out of the woods. Are you showing yet at all? Xx

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emmilyb · 30/01/2022 13:44

@WhatTheEll ahh that's amazing how did the scan go!

Yes I'm great Thankyou I'm currently 12 weeks had my anomaly scan and all went well still doesn't feel real to me though!

@StillJustWaiting @Stallsey how are you getting on? Xx

WhatTheEll · 30/01/2022 12:31

Good, how are you @emmilyb
Currently 9 weeks tomorrow! I had a private scan yesterday and got moved forward almost a week! I'm on progesterone too which is giving piece of mind ♥️

emmilyb · 29/01/2022 21:32

Hey ladies how are we all getting on? Hope you're all doing well!xx

Stallsey · 19/01/2022 09:27

@WhatTheEll I'm gooood! Currently 14.5 weeks, had our dating scan and it was amazing!
Completely sympathise with the tiredness, its tough in the first trim. But all a good sign! X

WhatTheEll · 18/01/2022 22:28

@Stallsey Thanks so much! ♥️ How are you getting on? How many weeks are you now?
New job is interesting! Tough going as I'm so tired but getting there x

Stallsey · 17/01/2022 19:22

@WhatTheEll absolutely amazing, so so happy for you! So glad you saw a heartbeat and I hope the new job is going ok ❤️

WhatTheEll · 17/01/2022 16:36

6weeks 1 day today!! Saw a heart beat Saturday ♥️ starting progesterone this evening, but everything looks good. Third time lucky for me 😬
Hope everyone is doing ok xx

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WhatTheEll · 04/01/2022 11:16

@StillJustWaiting Yay! Glad the scans were all good. This cycle I used the Ferti-Lily cup and it worked first time 😬 with me getting a BFP.
Also because of my previous miscarriages, I've got a GP calling me this evening so we can discuss progesterone pessaries as per the new NICE guidelines xx

Stallsey · 04/01/2022 11:06

@StillJustWaiting I did! Actually used them the cycle we got pregnant so never finished the full pack, and taking this brand pregnancy vitamins too.
Glad nothing sinister showed up on the scans x

StillJustWaiting · 04/01/2022 09:57

CONGRATULATIONS to those of you with BFP's! I will read through and write a better post after work, I've just been for my scans, everything looks super healthy, no cysts or anything so absolutely no idea whats going on! I am pleased that I'm looking healthy but also miffed for answers! Well i guess ima get back to trying then 😅 has anyone used these? Xx

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WhatTheEll · 03/01/2022 22:20

@Stallsey Oh I'm so sorry lovely! Main thing is, like you say, you and baby are fine. But it's just rubbish isn't it. Hope you feel better soon xx

Stallsey · 03/01/2022 21:36

@emmilyb fab news 🤍

@WhatTheEll aww that's amazing, bet he was over the moon!
I'm not so great, I tested positive for covid so having to push back my dating scan which was meant to be this week. I'm gutted, hoping they can fit me in as soon as I'm neg!
Everything happens for a reason though, sad but at least me and baby are ok!

Xx

WhatTheEll · 03/01/2022 21:02

Yes @emmilyb !! That's great news ♥️ Any symptoms yet? X

Thank you @Stallsey 🥰 I told my husband yesterday, so waited a whole week (not sure how I managed it!)
Boobs are sore, crampy dull aches and some nausea but I'm only 4.5 weeks.
How are you doing? X

emmilyb · 03/01/2022 19:02

Hey everyone hope you're all doing well!

Just a quick update for those hat wanted one, we had a scan today and measure 8 weeks and the little blob has a heartbeat🤞🏼 still doesn't feel real but hopefully this gives you all the hope ❤️

Baby dust to you all and can't wait to hear of all of your Bfp

Stallsey · 30/12/2021 11:08

@BlueSky57 🤞🏻 keep us updated x

BlueSky57 · 30/12/2021 11:02

@Stallsey thank you! I took a FRER test today on CD23 and got a BFN. Think it may have been a bit early for me so will wait for AF to hopefully not show up as you suggested Smile

Stallsey · 30/12/2021 10:57

@StillJustWaiting Ah bless you, really hoping you get some answers after the 4th. Hope your period has calmed down abit 😢
Thank you lovely, it really has flown over! I feel good now, didn't weeks 6-9 though 😬
Hope you had a lovely, relaxing Xmas ❤️

@WhatTheEll oh wow, CONGRATS! Really amazing news. How are you feeling now? Have you told hubby yet?
Thinking of you and hoping for a very sticky baby 🤍

@BlueSky57 hi! Only takes 1 time to make a baby so seems like you did it right!!
I got a faint line 9 days past ovulation, that's quite early so to be safe I would just wait until your period is due and test away. Baby dust to you x

BlueSky57 · 28/12/2021 09:28

Hi everyone, it’s nice to see a couple of BFPs on this thread as it gives me some hope Flowers Congratulations & good luck to those still trying Smile

We started ttc this cycle but having recently come off the pill I don’t really know if we dtd at the ‘right’ time or not. AF came on December 8th for me so treated 19-24 as ovulation time but only had sex 3 times across those few days…

I currently have no symptoms of anything although I have never been pregnant before so wouldn’t really know what to expect anyway
Blush The only weird thing is I also had my booster during the couple days I may have ovulated and since then the bottom of my back has been sore Confused

I haven’t done any pregnancy tests yet because I didn’t really know when to!

WhatTheEll · 28/12/2021 08:48

@emmilyb thank you ♥️ let us know how your scan goes. Last two miscarriages I booked private early scans for 6.5 weeks, but ended in hospital being scanned. So I won't book anything until I'm passed that stage, like you. Good luck! I'm only around 4 weeks so still early. I'm starting a new job on 5th Jan as well 🤦🏻‍♀️

emmilyb · 27/12/2021 22:45

@WhatTheEll ahhh amazing congratulations!!! I'm 7 weeks today and haven't felt at all pregnant so have booked an early scan for next week to just confirm it. I too have only told my partner as too scared to tell anyone else just in case, it's a horrible feeling knowing you are hit not allowing yourself to be excited to protect yourself from the hurt just in case the worst happensSad I think a lot of us have been there hun but this is amazing news ❤️ fingers crossed for a sticky baby as am I🤞🏼🤞🏼

WhatTheEll · 27/12/2021 22:22

Happy belated birthday @StillJustWaiting (keep us posted on scans)
And happy Xmas everyone! 🎄
I had this yesterday, I've not even told my husband, I'm just carrying on like nothing has changed, I had what I presumed was a light period (red blood, just not heavy). I tested on a whim because it stopped suddenly and my boobs became MORE painful. I'm at a loss because this is how my last pregnancies started and ended in miscarriage. I'm not excited, I'm just empty. I haven't a clue if I'll even tell anyone until it's more real and if I get passed the 6/6.5 week mark 😭

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StillJustWaiting · 26/12/2021 18:41

I had a 19DC, come on on Christmas eve :( I'm not really tracking anything anymore other than my periods, my last 3 cycles have been
53DC, 14DC,19DC
Just got to wait and see if anything comes of these scans on the 4th, this is my 2nd period this month and probably the heaviest I've had all year, literally soaking through a full pad every hour, awful!

Not 'trying' anymore just if it happens great but going to focus on sorting my cycles etc out before focusing on baby making for now

Eek 11 weeks! My gosh thats gone so quickly!!!
How are you feeling with the pregnancy? :)
Next Christmas you'll have wine, brie and your baby!! Will be so worth it ! ❤️

Thank you!!!
Hope you had a lovely Christmas xxx

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pennysays · 24/12/2021 20:06

@StillJustWaiting if you have long cycles it' because you're not ovulating on day 14. You'd ovulate 14 days before your period. However if you're not ovulating, you could have long cycles with spotting throughout. Either way, if carries on, worth getting checked out. Are you using OPKs and temping?