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Conceiving after miscarriage

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Tina12745 · 23/10/2021 23:26

Looking for some positive vibes from others that have been through similar 💫I had a miscarriage in June, had my first period last month. Tracked ovulation and ttc straight away this month, feeling deflated as af has arrived right on time tonight 😢

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Tina12745 · 24/10/2021 21:44

Hey @Shortmamashortcycles thank you so much for commenting on my post 😀 my doctor referred me to counselling as i was so anxious and stressed that my period had not returned. Probably a coincidence but two days after my first session my period returned and it was a huge relief. Ive had three sessions now and im so glad i went ahead with it!

So sorry to hear about your miscarriage experience, i was bleeding quite heavily at 7 weeks. I went to EPU and they said baby was fine and had a heartbeat, diagnosed me with a small bloodclot and didn't want to see me until 12 weeks

A week before my 12 week scan i booked a private scan as i was certain something wasn't right as the EPU refused to scan me, my tummy was scanned and there was nothing on the screen. So basically the baby had come away without me realising.

Sending you lots of luck for your bfp hopefully in the near future ❤️

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girlmummy25 · 24/10/2021 21:42

Im so sorry.
Just had my 2nd miscarriage whilst ttc baby number 2. So gutted. This will be our 12th month of trying and im finding it heart wrenching now.
Wishing you all the luck x

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Tina12745 · 24/10/2021 21:37

Hey @Bellesjp thank you so much for sharing your story with me and i'm so sorry for your loss❤️

Fingers crossed for our bfp in November, it would be lovely to go through this together and even better if we both got that bfp next month 😀 xxx

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Shortmamashortcycles · 24/10/2021 21:17

Hiya - just waiting for AF after my first full cycle after a missed miscarriage in August. Various reasons meant we didn't manage to DTD as much as I'd like, so not hoping for much.

I'm so sorry to hear about both of your losses - it's so unfair and painful. In my case, we'll never know what went wrong - we'd seen a heartbeat at 7 weeks and had no sign anything was wrong until the 12 week scan.

I had a counselling session and the advice there was that the bad days are the ones where you're doing the most work - being honest and processing that this is grief and it's real. That's really helped me to lean into the full range of emotions as they come and go.

Hoping you're both doing ok this evening, 💕

Bellesjp · 24/10/2021 20:50

Hi @Tina12745, so sorry to hear about your loss, can I join you?

This is my first month ttc after losing out baby on 10th September, she had turners syndrome and hydrops and so we sadly had to terminate for medical reasons as she was so poorly.

My first af since is just finishing and want to get trying this month as it look us 7 months to conceive last time and terrified of it taking so long again

I hope this is our month 🤞🏼 x

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