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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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Danani · 25/09/2021 08:06

@Mummytobe93 ahhh I so felt this!šŸ™ˆ

My DH is very chill about this whole TTC sitch too šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚ He takes his vits but how regularly IDK. I refuse to prep them for him, so I’ve left him ā€œin chargeā€ of that one. 😁I’ve bought us each one of those big water bottles in an effort to step up our water intake this month.
And obvs will be using OPKs and temping. I swear he thinks I’m mad with the effort I’m putting into this, especially since he was the one to nudge me in the TTC direction. But how do I explain it to him that now that we are trying, I want it to happen NOW! šŸ˜‚

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Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 07:24

Looks like we’re pretty in sync indeed šŸ˜‚šŸ™‚

@Danani regarding taking your temperature, I’m just starting myself but from what I’ve researched, it’s apparently more important taking it after you’ve had at least 3 hrs of sleep than taking it at the same time each day. So if you wake up for a wee at 5 am and you know you won’t get much sleep after that, take your temperature before getting out of bed. If it’s the weekend and you sleep solidly till 9 am, take it then.

I suppose after a while you get to know your pattern and you know more or less what’s the norm. My issue definitely is insomnia and pretty much every night my sleep is distributed. But between around midnight and 3-4 am I tend to always get a block of sleep.

I’ve told my DH that he needs to be on it with his vitamins and he was like ā€œwhy?ā€šŸ˜Ø Erm., let me think, maybe because I want to give it our best shot this month?! šŸ˜‚ He’s so oblivious to this whole TTC because he’s already got a DS with his ex, and that was accidental apparently. He’s, therefore, got 100% trust in his ā€œswimmersā€ and he’s confident we can conceive accidentally too. He doesn’t consider the fact that he’s older now, and let’s be honest we don’t DTD that often to cover my entire fertile window.

But I feel like I can’t give him the full lecture on all Ive been doing to get pregnant cause it’ll put him off completely haha He loves being spontaneous and HATES being put under pressure so I need to keep him in the dark, and just send the ā€œI want to DTDā€ signals at the right time šŸ˜‚

I’ll try my hardest not to test so early this cycle, I’ve wasted so many tests and ££ šŸ™„Knowing that my luteal phase can be 13 days long (thought it was only 11), I’ll only test at 13 DPO and later this time šŸ¤ž

Kiaa · 25/09/2021 07:17

Hey all,
Will be joining you all I'm currently cd6 ttc#2 cycle 7 hopefully ovulate next week
Best of luck everyone 🌟

Danani · 25/09/2021 06:53

Hey @Mummytobe93 I’m sorry, but happy to have you! And we seem pretty in sync too!
I did BBT for the first ever this morning and it was 36.45. I didn’t sleep amazing but it sounds about what you’d expect for CD 2, right?
Do you do yours the same exact time each morning? Any tips for a complete newbie?

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Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 05:49

Hi ladies

AF came at 3 am with horrible cramps that kept me up🄓 Right before I got out of bed to go to the toilet, I took my temperature and sure enough it dropped to 36.2 from nearly 37 yesterday morning. BBT is truly a fascinating thing!

So I’m officially joining the October thread, with my O predicted for the 9th. ā˜˜ļø

Danani · 24/09/2021 20:54

Hey @Cruz86! Same here. Hopefully we sync up for O and it’s our lucky month! Are you tracking in any way? What are you using? :)

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Cruz86 · 24/09/2021 20:11

Hi all, officially CD1 for me again. Fingers crossed this is our month!!

Danani · 24/09/2021 17:32

@Peauela it sure is, welcome and good luck!!

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Peauela · 24/09/2021 16:38

I will be ovulating in the next few days but testing in October.. Is this a thread for me? Grin I could use some more places to chat!

beckybabyx · 24/09/2021 15:08

me too @CatLady93 and @Danani .. so glad when it falls on a weekend Grin

CatLady93 · 24/09/2021 15:00

@Danani I'm probably ovulating around 8th October too!! 🄰

jadeypies · 24/09/2021 14:35

Hi everyone, hope you don't mind me joining. We are ttc #1 but unfortunately just miscarried at 6weeks. Had a bfn now so trying again this month. I'm on CD4 and finished bleeding so fingers crossed this is our month. I don't track anything, we just dtd every other day throughout the month and hope that I hit ovulation 🤣 I can't bear the idea of it being too prescriptive. Good luck everybody, look forward to seeing some bfps 😊

FlyOnTheWall89 · 24/09/2021 14:31

@Danani I am CD2 today and ovulate on CD16/17 usually so we are pretty much in time :-).

mrsS21 · 24/09/2021 14:21

Hey ladies!
Cd12 today, started opk this week as really no idea when I’m due to O…with my last two cycles being so long and random I’m cautious I don’t want to miss out dates!

Feeling excited for this month too @CatLady93 šŸ€ positive attitude hopefully will lead to great news! If we conceive this month I think there’ll just be 3 years between our little one and our new bean 🄰

CrackingTheWhip · 24/09/2021 13:51

Afternoon!

AF is still here for CD4 but it does seem to be slowing down so I’m thinking tomorrow will be the end of it.

I’m wondering how many days this cycle will be too. I’m hoping less than the last one so that I can see it all settling!

I’m managing to get my temperature taken most days but my sleep isn’t that good so we’ll see how it all goes!

Danani · 24/09/2021 13:28

Hey hey! Glad to ā€œseeā€ some familiar ā€œfacesā€ in here! šŸ‘‹

I’m using OPKs this month, and for the first time trying temping.
Also making it a priority to drink lots of water.

CD 1 for me today. My predicted window is CD10 to CD 16. So probably will start DTD from next weekend and ramp things up the few days before O.
My apps are predicting O to be on Oct 8, it will be interesting to see what the OPKs and BBT show!

Anyone else in sync with me?

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CatLady93 · 24/09/2021 12:25

Hi guyssss 🄰 CD7 for me, usually ovulate around CD17-21 so I'll start OPK testing in about a week I think and looking out for EWCM before then too šŸ™šŸ¼ I feel good about this one for some reason.. if we conceive then I'd be due around the same time as my own birthday which I love.. cancer (star sign) ā™‹ļø all the way! šŸ¤ŸšŸ¼šŸ¤£

Are you guys planning to try anything different this month? X

FlyOnTheWall89 · 24/09/2021 12:19

Joining this thread :-). x

GingerFox2021 · 24/09/2021 11:56

Hey! Nothing changed but from today I am trying to be positive. Let’s see where my positivity will lead. Simply, getting tired to be dissappointed and sad.
Good luck to us!

Danani · 24/09/2021 11:30

Hello! How are we all today?

AF is starting for me this morning, got some pink tint when wiping (sorry TMI) which means it’s starting.

I am disappointed, I really thought this month was the month, but hopefully it will be one lucky lucky October!

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Danani · 23/09/2021 21:42

Y’all, October will be IT for us! I can feel the magic in the air! šŸŽƒ But seriously, sending positive vibes to us all! I know it will be one lucky group! šŸ€

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GingerFox2021 · 23/09/2021 21:17

The same! Cycle 12 or maybe 13, can’t remember anymore.. probably I should even jump to futuristic November bus as going away for October šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

tryingforbabyh · 23/09/2021 20:25

Looks like it's CD1 again for me. Onto cycle 12 - feels like a big milestone...can October please be the lucky month!!

Danani · 23/09/2021 20:21

Good luck!!! šŸ€

I will be shortly moving on to cycle 3 of TTC.
1st cycle used OPKs but we didn’t manage to DTD on the best days.
2nd cycle (this one) we DTD a lot, but I didn’t use OPKs so kinda winged it…
In October will be cycle 3! I’m planning to use OPKs and try BBT for the first time. I’m not leaving anything to chance!!! Lol šŸ˜†
Also I don’t know how much is true and how much is BS, but after DTD I won’t be jumping in the shower. I know realistically it really shouldn’t matter, but you bet I’ll be laying on my back with my legs in the air or whatever the rule is 😁😁😁

If anyone has any tips or tricks to share, would personally really appreciate that!
I still struggle a bit with the whole how much to DTD… I’ve read somewhere every day in the fertile window, elsewhere it says every other day. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

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Effram · 23/09/2021 13:56

May I join? Cycle day 2 here, of my first post partum period (my second son is nearly 11 months, my eldest is 3!)

Have decided to let nature take its course and see if a third comes our way. We were incredibly lucky and conceived 1st and 2nd month previously, but I was very focussed on the OPKs and temping, I hope to take a more relaxed approach this time (mainly because with 2 smalls and a job I don't have time to get obsessed again!).