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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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beckybabyx · 27/09/2021 09:49

Hi ladies AF has arrived today so CD1 for me, hoping this is our lucky month Grin xx

Mummytobe93 · 27/09/2021 09:20

Haha literally @Danani šŸ‘Æā€ā™€ļø

Oh no, hope your food poisoning is just one day thing. I hate having any sort of stomach issues, there’s no much you can do about it and makes you feel yuk!

Regarding the temperatures, not sure myself, but looking at other peoples charts I think the norm is below 36.5 in the first part of your cycle … Your temperature could be higher now due to your bad belly plus not sleeping properly.

Good luck with staring DTD :) I’ll start as soon as I detect some CM

Ive got good feeling about October too šŸ€šŸ¤ž

Danani · 27/09/2021 08:53

Morning @Mummytobe93!

I swear we are the same person! šŸ˜‚

AF is very very light barely-there today for me, I expect it will be basically gone by end of today with the odd spotting here and there tomorrow and that’s it. But I agree, when I was younger It was a full week affair!

I had a pretty bad night myself, I think I got a food poisoning or something because spent half the night on and off in the bathroom. 🄓
I slept a couple of restless hours and then took my BBT and was 36.6. Again, I’m new to this - is this too high? It was 36.5 yesterday and 36.45 the day before. I literally have no idea!

Weather is absolute sh*t here too, I am not planning on going outside.

I’m looking forward to Fri though, it will be CD8 for me, and I decided to try the SMEP thing, so it will be day 1 of DTD. 😁
I’m not sure I’m doing the BBT right, so definitely will be relying on my clear blue ovulation tests! I’m feeling hopeful about this month and hope we see BFPs!

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Mummytobe93 · 27/09/2021 07:32

Morning,

How is everyone?

I’ve messed up taking my BBT this morning- when I woke up I thought it’s much too early because it was so dark outside… turns out it was nearly six o’clock! I spent an hour trying to get back to sleep only to hear my alarm going an hour later 😫 my reading was 36.7 so I might as well discard it as I was awake for an hour… I need to get into a habit of taking it as soon as I’m awake.

My AF is winding down, just after 3 days! When I was younger, I used to have my periods for literally the whole week, it got much shorter as I got older ( or the hormonal BC did it)

Weather is pretty bad today so wrap up warm ladies !

FlyOnTheWall89 · 26/09/2021 20:47

Hi @Coco9910 - welcome! I’m on CD3/4 so won’t ovulate for a few weeks but šŸ¤žšŸ» this month. I’m on cycle #6. X

Danani · 26/09/2021 20:07

Hey @Coco9910 good luck! This will be cycle 3 for #1 too! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ€šŸ¤žšŸ»

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Coco9910 · 26/09/2021 20:06

Hi all,

I’m gonna hop on here if that’s okay! I was due to ovulate on Friday but my opks are still quite faint so I’m hoping they get darker over the next couple of days šŸ¤žšŸ¼ 3rd cycle TTC baby number 1 🄰 xx

sle0911 · 26/09/2021 15:05

I'm stressed and actually want AF to arrive 😭 it's CD38 today and another BFN arghh

Mummytobe93 · 26/09/2021 14:53

My AF isn’t too bad actually! I’m feeling quite good and optimistic.

Also, looking my back I’m glad I thought I was pregnant last cycle - I’ve got a very detailed notes of all my symptoms which turned out to be my usual PMS. At least I know what symptoms are definitely not typical for me: sore boobs, spotting, constipation, lots of CM.

I’m measuring my temp, taking my vitamins and planning my fertile week, as well as planning my wedding šŸ˜‚

Xx

Danani · 26/09/2021 13:39

How is everyone else doing today?

CD3 for me, AF was in FULL force yesterday, things are getting slower and lighter today.
Taking it easy and relaxing, been taking my BBT yesterday morning and today and will continue throughout this cycle, first time doing this but interested if it will tell me anything new.
Other than that, nothing new to report.
It does feel nice though, in a weird way, to not be obsessing and thinking am I PG, am I not. This time between AF and the fertile window is oddly when I’m the calmest and in the best/healthiest headspace. Anyone else?

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Danani · 26/09/2021 13:35

Ahh so sorry @Veronika13, I know how deflating and demoralising a BFN can be.
Good on you for getting yourself in for that appointment, better to know where you stand and what are the next steps! Hopefully nothing is wrong, or something really small that they can give you something for to get your BFP!

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Veronika13 · 26/09/2021 00:34

I'm out, got a BFN. Fertility appointment next month!
I've now ovulated ten times over the last ten months (digital ovulation test showed so) and dtd all around that time. And nothing.... unless my tubes are totally blocked I just form know what it is anymore...

sle0911 · 25/09/2021 18:30

Heyyy moving over to this thread šŸ‘‹šŸ¼ CD37 for me today šŸ™„ and no sign of AF or a BFP ā˜¹ļø

Peauela · 25/09/2021 13:37

@Mummytobe93 it’s not showing for me! Just the three icons, maybe because I’m new to the forum?

Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 13:34

@Peauela You need to click the paper clip icon and select Photo Library :)

Lucky October? šŸ€
Peauela · 25/09/2021 13:10

Apparently there is no evidence that laying still or tilting your pelvis after DTD helps the sperm travel, like someone mentioned above it’s supposed to take seconds for it to reach the egg :) having said that there is probably no harm in doing it even if it would slightly increase the chances :D

I only recently noticed my libido is crazy high before my fertile window! Nature!

I wanted to ask a question with posting w picture but I don’t know how to add one Shock anyone?

beckybabyx · 25/09/2021 12:35

@Mummytobe93 yesss the body is so good isn’t it cos I’m the same in fertile week my libido shoots up! X

Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 12:19

@beckybabyx

Isn’t it funny how it’s made out that men think about DTD all the time but it seems all our partners use the tired excuse 🤣 x
I know right! The only guy like this was my first boyfriend when I was 16šŸ˜‚He was 19 and always up for some šŸ‘€ But maybe it was just the teenage hormones … thing is, I go through phases are it’s usually during my fertile week and right before my period that my libido goes up. The rest of the cycle I’m not really that bothered šŸ˜‚
beckybabyx · 25/09/2021 10:17

Isn’t it funny how it’s made out that men think about DTD all the time but it seems all our partners use the tired excuse 🤣 x

Veronika13 · 25/09/2021 09:31

@Danani hmm I try to lie down for at least two mins after dtd. I thinkkkk jumping off the bed makes more come out ļæ¼

@Mummytobe93 I know when I started ttc I would think 'there's NO way I can do this for a year I'd go insane!' Yet here I am, picking myself up again after each monthly disappointment 😪 my digital ovulation is showing I'm ovulation every month, we dtd every other day - and nothing ...

Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 09:00

Hi @Veronika13 and @Kiaa , welcome on board šŸ˜„

@Veronika13 bless you, I truly gained a new level of respect for people who TTC for months/years. I’m sure you’re miracle is going to happen! šŸ’–

@Danani I think the swimmers are suppose to get where they should be within seconds so I don’t think showering afterwards does any harm 😊 I’ll put the emphasis on DTD 2 days before and the day of the O, though we will see how good my OPK readings will be. Last cycle they were rubbish, I got high readings for two days with no surge and then they were negative. I ordered some new ones.

Fingers crossed ladies, I’ve got good feeling about October. Let’s try not to stress, I know it’s hard but stress hormones really impact our bodies. For example I sleep less and get eczema, which surely doesn’t encourage my body to implement the egg.

Have a lovely weekend 🌸

Veronika13 · 25/09/2021 08:43

Joining again (took a break from posting for a few months).

Trying since feb 😪 Af due next weds but I'll do a test tomorrow. We have a fertility app in October. Just hoping I'll be that dream story of cancelling my fertility app cos I'm pregnant.

Wishing everyone luck šŸ€ and bfns xx

Danani · 25/09/2021 08:34

@Mummytobe93 I feel you, we don’t DTD every other day, although since TTC we’ve upped our game. I don’t know how some couples do it every single day or numerous times a day. I’m not about that life.

I’ll try to follow my app’s suggestion, which is if it’s correct about O is to DTD Oct 3, Oct 5, 7,8 and 9. šŸ¤žšŸ»

I also wonder, usually after DTD I jump right in the shower. I didn’t think that would do anything to the TTC outcome (and it probably doesn’t) but maybe it is a rookie mistake? Maybe I’ll try to chill for a while after and not rush to shower. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

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Mummytobe93 · 25/09/2021 08:19

Oh dear, yeah the water intake - my DH could live only on coffee and pop! Since we’re together he got better, but only drinks flavoured water, which is very hard to find in the shops lately😹

And he’s the one who’s teasing me about having a child and what we would call him (though I’m convinced I’d be having a girl) , but when it comes to the strategic part of it he wants to stay clueless. I’d be fine with it if we’d DTD every other day after the AF but there’s no way this is going to happen šŸ™„

I’m just hoping he won’t be too stressed with work during ā€œourā€ week.

Danani · 25/09/2021 08:09

Ah pressed post too soon šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

Thanks so much for the tip on the BBT, i was wondering how to do it when I wake up one time during the week and a different on weekends. This really helps, will try to do it that way!

I’ll also try not to test early this cycle, testing early unfortunately has done me no good the last two cycles. Other than ruining my mood and headspace days in advance of AF.
I’ll try to wait for AF this time round. šŸ¤žšŸ»

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