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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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Kyoshi · 29/09/2021 23:10

Yep AF is due on Friday for me too! Gonna test on either Saturday or Sunday. I’ve ran out of tests šŸ˜… so I’m not buying any until the weekend cause I know I can’t help myself! šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Dobcaty · 29/09/2021 21:49

Hello everyone, jumping over from September bus if I'm allowed

Currently on cd2, approaching 2 years of ttc #1

@Coco9910 ClearBlue never worked for me..I always have very short peak and using clearblue ones in a day, made impossible to detect peak and o. I used lh strips in the same time, tracked bbt so I did knew I was ovulating

@Danani using bbt its a very useful information but you need more cycle to see your own pattern. (Hopefully you won't as this will be a very lucky month) So many things can mess up; a glass of wine in the evening or a heavy meal before bedtime etc.
I used to work night shifts/early morning shifts and I never had two temperatures taken in the same time, just went to the 3-4 hours sleep and took my temp before got out of the bed. After 10 months of bbt I can clearly see my pattern even when the tww's insomnia hit me (never can sleep after o)

Looking forward this bus how busy and lucky will be šŸ¤ž

Peauela · 29/09/2021 12:42

@Vwhite hey! Welcome :)

My cycles are about 30-31 days and my peak was on CD17 :) I am also trying for our first :) best of luck ā¤ļø

Coco9910 · 29/09/2021 12:30

Hi everyone,

I will stop asking questions about OPKs soon (sorry!!). I did a Clearblue ovulation test as soon as I got up this morning and had a blank circle but then did my usual OPK test around lunch time which is when I usually do them and my results look like I could get my peak tomorrow or Friday, but then that doesn’t explain the blank circle on the Clearblue. Or would it be that maybe I have a really quick and short peak? Any advice appreciated Smile xx

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Vwhite · 29/09/2021 12:11

Hi all, this is my first time on one of these chats, this is the 1st cycle of ttc with child #1. Im currently on CD19 and my cycle averages about 33days. I have found that many different ovulation calculators that all say somewhere between 25th to the 2nd are fertile days. Has anyone else found this? What one can be trusted? I haven't used OPK’s as feel this would take the fun out of it we have been DTD everyday since CD11. Fingers crossed to everyone trying this month 😊

Mummytobe93 · 29/09/2021 11:51

Haha oh dear šŸ˜‚

One way or another we’re going to make it happen šŸ˜šŸ¤ž

Effram · 29/09/2021 11:33

Hello everyone! You are all making me really excited about TTC again... I have been swinging back and forth about whether it's too soon but I know I'm just going to get swept up in it now!

@Mummytobe93 we have the same issue with falling asleep on sofa - I go to bed earlier (because also our smalls get up before 6 often so I need to front load the night!) and my husband will stay down to 'watch an episode of something' or 'play on his xbox'... actually he just always falls asleep in about 10 mins then sheepishly crawls into bed at 3!

We laugh because for our first we were v keen at baby making and I think he was actually conceived on a night away when we had had a lot to drink after a fancy meal in the hotel we were staying at. Our second, it was purely functional 'I am very tired please just perform your duties so I can get back to sleep' haha!

Anyway this has mainly reminded me to go and check my temp. I always take it and then chuck it back on bedside table then enter it later...

Ocelotka · 29/09/2021 11:06

@Danani I think the red lines appear after you've had 3 days of higher temperatures, so it doesn't predict ovulation but only confirms!

Danani · 29/09/2021 11:02

Ahhh @Peauela totally!!! Christmas makes for super cute announcement photos too! 😬😁

@Ocelotka that’s good to know! Thank you for sharing your chart! Btw, daft question but when does FF add those red criss-cross lines? I only have the raggedy blue line so far. I assume…after O?

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Peauela · 29/09/2021 10:52

Good morning all! ļæ¼

@Mummytobe93 lol my DH literally was asking me if I'd play fifa with him when he gets it... men Grin

I think my DH also enjoys baby making Grin I try not to refer to it this way though and just try to seduce him whenever it's time šŸ˜‚ no complaints so far!

I can't believe Christmas is so close... this year flew for me. it would be so cool to spend it with little bubba in the belly Blush

Ocelotka · 29/09/2021 10:47

@Danani @Mummytobe93 I started BBT charting this month as well. I generally don't sleep very well, wake up multiple times through the night, get up to go to the bathroom etc. I wake up completely between 6.30 and 8 so my readings are not always taken at the same (or even roughly the same) time. I did however have a positive OPK on CD15 and a clear temperature shift on CD17, so FF app says I ovulated on CD16 which seems about right! So I don't think that taking temps at exactly the same time, or after a solid nights sleep, is essential - at least for me it seemed to work without these things!

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Danani · 29/09/2021 10:15

Hahahha @Mummytobe93 you always crack me up! šŸ˜‚ ughhh I feel the struggle though, mine is similar in a way, but he seems pretty onboard with the baby making so far! :) I try my hardest not to make a big deal out of it or put any pressure on him but it is HARD!

Re BBT, yeah, it’s tough isn’t it? I’m doing it for the first time too and not sure how reliable it will be! Although weirdly I’ve been waking up at 6.30 each morning so been pretty consistent so far. I’m impressed with myself, although depending on how I’ve slept through the night my temp is fluctuating, so who knows if it will be able to predict O?! šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

Otherwise, I’m feeling good this morning. CD 6, nothing interesting to report really. Starting the SMEP plan and OPK testing from Friday! Wish us luck that we manage to follow it! šŸ˜¬šŸ¤žšŸ»

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Mummytobe93 · 29/09/2021 08:56

Morning šŸŒž

How are you doing ladies?

I’m not sure I’m capable of measuring my BBT - didn’t have a good sleep at all, was in and out of sleep from about 3 till 6 and then my temp was 36.7šŸ™„ think I’m too anxious šŸ˜‚unless it’s just the first couple of days.

I’m sending my DH signals that my fertile window is approaching, unfortunately so if the latest Fifa for PlayStation, I’ll have to compete with the game šŸ˜‚

We used to DTD much more when we had TV in our bedroom, we’d watch something, then one thing led to another, then I could just drift off to sleep and he’d stay up playing. Now I get too sleepy watching tv in the sofa , so I’m the one going to bed first whilst he stays downstairs. Can anyone else relate? šŸ˜‚

Peauela · 28/09/2021 19:31

At least I'm busy at work so have other things to distract myself ! Smile

Coco9910 · 28/09/2021 19:09

@Danani I have heard that actually but completely forgot! Thank you, that’s made me feel better! Will test again in the morning šŸ¤žšŸ¼ X

Danani · 28/09/2021 18:17

Hey hey šŸ‘‹

@Coco9910 with CB the reader always gives you blank circle first use (something to do with it calibrating to your levels or idk) , so don’t stress! Maybe try it again in a few hours or tomorrow!

@beckybabyx get that rest in, this will be one busy month šŸ˜‚šŸ˜¬

@Emz861 hello hello! Fingers crossed! Good on you for using the OPKs, I think our bodies do funny things sometimes and it’s so easy to miss the actual window!

@Peauela, @Ocelotka - ahhh the dreaded TWW, when time as we know it literally stops and goes backwards. šŸ˜‚ the rest of us have a little while to go until we join you! Hopefully by then you share some positive news with the group! I have my fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this round! šŸ€

I’m also glad to see a lot of you jumping on the SMEP bandwagon! 😁 Great to have company as we go through this!

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Coco9910 · 28/09/2021 17:52

My pictures have loaded the wrong way round. So first pic is today’s test and one on the right is yesterday’s x

Coco9910 · 28/09/2021 17:51

Still not got my peak on OPKs this month yet but it’s getting darker so hopefully in the next day or 2 šŸ¤žšŸ¼ First picture is yesterday’s test and second is today’s taken around the same time each day. I just did a Clearblue ovulation test after a 4 hour hold and it was just a blank circle 😩 fingers crossed for more progression tomorrow 😌 x

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Peauela · 28/09/2021 16:55

@Ocelotka Hey! Welcome! Another friend to do the wait with! Grin I'm 2DPO :)

Ocelotka · 28/09/2021 16:24

Hi all, can I join in? I'm on 3DPO, really hoping that this is THE month, will try to hold off testing until at least 12DPO but I'm not sure how much patience I will have left by then Grin

beckybabyx · 28/09/2021 16:18

CD2 today and AF cramping is in full force! Pj's and hot chocolate on the sofa for me tonight Brew
Just downloaded the pre-mom app as I saw a lot of you have been using it so going to start using that this month with the OPKs and DP agreed to SMEP!!! Going to get my rest in as think it is going to take it out of me haha xx

PlantLadyMum · 28/09/2021 15:58

I'm CD21 now, trying to hold out till at least CD26 to test, that'll be 10DPO which is when I got my last BFP (ended in MMC and MVA)

Emz861 · 28/09/2021 15:38

Hi everyone! Fingers crossed for a lucky October for us all šŸ€

I'm on CD20 and just got my strongest result on an OPK...this is our first cycle using them so wasn't sure about them as you'll see from the photo it's been up and down but this is the highest number by far so I'll be enticing DP tonight!!! Thought we were done after the high reading on CD14 but I do have long cycles so this is more likely reliable. Wish me luck!

Anyone else's results a bit erratic with the OPKs?

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SammiStap · 28/09/2021 15:25

I only have 3 day periods and always light to medium. Always have as well whether ive been on contraception or not.
It’s normal šŸ™‚
Thanks all, will seduce the husband tonight 🤣

Danani · 28/09/2021 14:58

Hey hey!

@SammiStap, I second everyone else - this is one good looking line!!

@Mummytobe93, I am not a doctor, but I've read that period between 2 and 7 days is considered normal. Also, your period should be counted from the first day until the last day when you have any sort of bleeding (no matter how intense or light, this also includes spotting!).

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