Lucky October? 🍀

*Sorry it was meant to say “looks the same to me”

I don’t know how accurate the pre mom app is in reading the OPKs but last nights one and this morning’s looks the day to me , though it says I peaked yesterday… what do you girls think?

@beckybabyx

No BD’ing over here. OH fell asleep ALL evening. I’m really upset/angry about it. I’ve just cried on the way to work I just don’t think he sees that he could have just ruined our chances for another month!

I told him straight this morning that I’m disappointed we didn’t DTD last night, and he was like “oh I didn’t know you were in the mood, you should’ve been more blunt about it”🙄 I mean isn’t that the ultimate mood killer? It thought that subtle hints are better but apparently not.
I was hoping for a quickie this morning but then it got too late and I had to start getting ready for work.

I’ve still tested high on OPK this morning + had some EWCM so hopefully I didn’t ovulate yet or I’ll still be in the 24 hr window tonight.

I hope he felt my frustration and we’re going to go for it tonight though I think it’s too late now anyway…

Hope everyone else managed to get some! 😂xx

Oh @beckybabyx, sorry to hear that 😞 hopefully the times you have done it are good enough and this month is your month! How long have you been TTC? X

@Lianna93 very good idea!! Fingers crossed for your BFP soon 🤞

No BD’ing over here. OH fell asleep ALL evening. I’m really upset/angry about it. I’ve just cried on the way to work I just don’t think he sees that he could have just ruined our chances for another month!

@Peauela @Danani @Dobcaty Thankyou, I'm still going strong and not tested although I find it harder at the weekends not to test so hoping I get through it 😅

@Peauela you're not out until AF shows 😘

@Danani that must be hard but maybe it's the greater being telling you to have a month off and get some r&r

@Dobcaty I love how you have such a positive view on it all!

Loving all the BFP

Good luck to everyone for the rest of the month!!

@danani thank you for your wishes. Did you get your peak yet? I hope your DH’s back was better this afternoon and he was in the mood too 🤞

@effram thank you! How is your OPKs doing? Are you getting stronger lines? Do you usually have rapid or gradual lh surge?

@Peauela don't feel bad, honestly. I know our time comes when it needs to come. During this period learnt a lot about myself and started to trust and love my body, and it made our relationship stronger then before. Its hard for us women, but it is hard for them too, even when they put the brave face on it, because we can, we allow to show our emotional but it is not accepted by the modern society for them.
Probably without this waiting time I could never appreciate the miracle that much as I would appreciate now.

But tomorrow is a new day and honestly I know that my little eggs are developing..I was talking to them 🙈 and continuously cheering them to grow, and I feel it. I usually have the pain before ovulation and on the ovulation day and I can tell which side is the active in certain months, but this month is a tiny little bit of different as they have to be ready by tomorrow morning, so its a little bit more sore then usually.

Lovely to see all the BFPs already this month and I know there are more to come ❤️

Congratulations to all the positives!

Seems like there's going to be a lot of BD'ing tonight - judging by my cm and cramping I'm coming up to my surge too 😂

Yay congrats on more BFPS this month!

According to my app , I am 3DPO. Twiddling my thumbs already 🤣

@Danani sorry to hear your OH is still having back problems, you aren't out until AF shows though so don't give up just yet xx

Mines saying how tired he is 🙄 I said well tough the tests say it must be tonight 🤣🤣

I was feeling some ovulation cramping earlier today so decided to test every 6-7 hrs and went from low this morning to high in the evening. I’m on CD12, thought I’d ovulation at day 15 but it’s couple of days earlier this cycle.. I wouldn’t be surprised if the surge happens overnight…
We deffo DTD tonight, I dont take no for an answer😂

@Pugmumm honestly feel so burnt out but you're right, I know I'll definitely regret it, I'm hoping the weekend will be different for me.
Might treat myself to a complete pamper day on Saturday to see if that helps any 🤞🏻

@beckybabyx 😂 I thought that may have been the case. They say you’ll ovulate in around 12-36 hours - so defo BD tonight x

@FlyOnTheWall89 I’ve had a total mind block and only just realised static means peak fertility!!! I was thinking ooh yeah O is coming soon now I’ve got a smiley, I never even had flashing smileys! Best get to it tonight haha xx

@beckybabyx oh wow you ovulate so early - I have to wait until CD17/18!!! Get BD-ing ASAP! Fingers crossed for you! X

Wow, that sounds like real hard work @Firsttimetrier 😂 Are they optimal times to be DTD then?! I'm trying for my second and have never heard of this!! I don't think I've got the energy...🥱

@Lianna93 I sympathise with you but haven't felt the need to not want to DTD just yet as I am so desperate (I am only on month 2 though)

I would suggest trying to have some time to yourself with DP and a nice meal and movie if you can and just see where the night takes you (excuse the embarrassment there).

You may feel different in a couple of weeks then you won't be in your fertile window and you may of wished you had taken the opportunity xx

Joining the October bus if I may!! Good luck to everyone and let's hope for some July 22' babies xx

@FlyOnTheWall89 static smiley today, was planning to do SMEP from day 8 but it never happened so starting it today instead xx

Ladies - do you ever have months where you're just not feeling like DTD?
My mental health has taken a total dive this month, I've had a lot going on this week & I'm just so exhausted physically & mentally from it all but I'm about to go into my fertile window (I think)
Anyone got suggestions/ideas on things that have worked for you?