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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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HRHXO · 08/10/2021 15:14

Hello, hope I can join?
I'm only on CD3 as AF showed 3 days early and spoiled my fun lol.
This month I am going to start OPKs from CD7 or 8 because I'm not sure I've been ovulating or when. I've got easy@home ones and CB as easy@home don't seem to have worked for me in the past unless I've just done them wrong! Been off the pill since May but haven't actively been trying just going with the flow and seeing what happens. Last month I had what I thought were pregnancy symptoms but did a test and it was BFN and then AF showed. I was excited for minute so we have decided this is the month to really really try!

Danani · 08/10/2021 15:11

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ nothing like taking him on a good ol’ guilt trip @Mummytobe93🤣

Good luck @Firsttimetrier! šŸ„‚šŸŒ

I’ll be putting on my ā€œsexyā€ pyjamas tonightšŸ˜‚

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Firsttimetrier · 08/10/2021 15:05

That’s what I feel like @Cruz86 what if we skip and it’s the optimal day! We did 4 days in a row last week and I’ve had to take two days off šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚.

Love all these suggestions though gals! I’m going to get out of my very unsexy WFH sweats and suggested we go to the pub for a date night.

Cruz86 · 08/10/2021 14:43

I honestly have no idea if I've ovulated or not yet and really feel like I need to cover all bases by carrying on DTD, but I really can't do anymore! 4 times in the past 6 days is my limit šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

You defo need make up sex though @Firsttimetrier!!

Mummytobe93 · 08/10/2021 14:24

@Firsttimetrier

I was hoping to DTD tonight but DH and I have just had a mini falling out! Hoping he apologies and we’re on track by this evening. Confused
Guilt trip him ! šŸ˜‚Worked for mešŸ˜‰xx
Danani · 08/10/2021 13:29

@Firsttimetrier make up sex šŸ™ˆšŸ˜

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Firsttimetrier · 08/10/2021 12:55

I was hoping to DTD tonight but DH and I have just had a mini falling out! Hoping he apologies and we’re on track by this evening. Confused

beckybabyx · 08/10/2021 12:53

We all must DTD tonight, OH’s need to suck it up 🤣 this will be our lucky month ladies xx

SammiStap · 08/10/2021 12:34

@Peauela fingers crossed!!! šŸ€šŸ€šŸ€

Peauela · 08/10/2021 12:14

@SammiStap ahh so we're similar with our cycles ā¤ļø fingers crossed for you!!!

BoyMum18 · 08/10/2021 12:10

@TTC081994

Hello :)

Hope it is okay I join in, new to this forum completely, but it feels good to have so many women together TTC. I have read through all the posts and makes me feel not alone. I am somewhere between 5-8 DPO as I think I’m ovulating slightly earlier then my app as I was getting cramps a fair few days before my app said I was ovulating. Anyway, waiting to see if a positive this month, only our 2nd month TTC.

Good luck!!!
TTC081994 · 08/10/2021 12:08

Hello :)

Hope it is okay I join in, new to this forum completely, but it feels good to have so many women together TTC. I have read through all the posts and makes me feel not alone. I am somewhere between 5-8 DPO as I think I’m ovulating slightly earlier then my app as I was getting cramps a fair few days before my app said I was ovulating. Anyway, waiting to see if a positive this month, only our 2nd month TTC.

SammiStap · 08/10/2021 12:04

@Peauela 10dpo today

Peauela · 08/10/2021 11:39

@SammiStap how many DPO are you? You probably said it before but I have terrible memory šŸ˜‚

SammiStap · 08/10/2021 11:33

@Peauela I totally get that. I’m trying to convince myself that what I’m feeling is menstrual pains and progesterone getting my body ready for a period šŸ˜‚ I got aches going on low down on my abdomen and hips and my boobs just feel a bit tingly but yes, it’s just af preparing šŸ˜‚ xx

FlyOnTheWall89 · 08/10/2021 11:29

CD16 here and a flashing smiley this morning - I predict static smiley tomorrow but DTD every other day and probs all weekend to be sure :-). Some of you are a bit ahead of me but some will testing at the same time. Hoping for lots of BFPs from this thread!! x

Peauela · 08/10/2021 11:12

@Danani in that case you just have to get hubby for another ride tonight haha! šŸ˜„

@SammiStap thanks love, I kind of know that but I'd rather be surprised than hold on to hope because chances are really low this month. I had a chat with hubs and got him on vitamins for next month and told him when my next window should be šŸ˜Ž šŸ˜‚

SammiStap · 08/10/2021 10:41

Hello all. Lots of good stuff happening here for you all! Lots of peaks going on so I certainly hope your all lucky!

I agree with @Danani on this on @Peauela as dpo12 I still really early and you are so not out until af shows. If implantation happened on dpo 9 it can still take a couple more days for hcg levels to rise enough for a positive. Just hang in there! I’m right behind you on dpo10 and I’m not going to test until I’m actually late! My af due tues/wed so if no show by next weekend I will test with an early test. šŸ˜€

Danani · 08/10/2021 10:40

@Mummytobe93, the TWW is such a bi*ch. Stay strong till at least 9 DPO! I think you have a massive chance, especially after the legs in the air last night Grin.
I got peak tomorrow morning on CB, but on stips was still low. Then in the afternoon, I got what we all determined looked like a peak on the strips too. Then this morning I haven't done CB (as the static smiley stays on for 48 h on the reader), but did a strip and it was as dark as yesterday afternoon and my app actually determined it was a tad higher than yesterday when I scanned it. So IDK girl. I'll do another at lucnh time-ish, and probably another one late afternoon too just to see what's up.

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Peauela · 08/10/2021 10:33

@Danani I absolutely refuse to hear that !!!! You're only just peaking!! And you got to BD!!! I think you have a great chance šŸ˜Ž

Mummytobe93 · 08/10/2021 10:32

Haha you’re welcome @Danani šŸ™ˆšŸ˜‚

Oh that’s weird with the OPK, though I don’t know much about the CB ones… Did it say high or peak yesterday?

They say that after you get your peak you should stop testing.. Wether you ovulate today or tomorrow I’d think you’re covered, even if you can’t DTD today :)

I really think it’s a really long shot for me this month but I need to wait and see😬
Period due on the 20th but I know damn well I won’t wait with testing until then. My aim is to hold off till at least 8-9 DPO. Until then I’ll just carry on measuring my BBT šŸ€šŸ¤ž

Danani · 08/10/2021 10:29

Awww, I'm sorry to hear this lovely. I, personally, will not believe it till you say AF has actually arrived. 12 DPO can still be early for a BFP even if you are pregnant! But I totally understand how you feel, and I too hope if AF does come for you, that you have a super lucky next cycle and you do get to eat for 2 this Christmas! :)

I don't have much hope for me this cycle tbh. I just feel like it's not the one. So I'm right with you on to the next!

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Peauela · 08/10/2021 10:25

@Danani thank you ā¤ļø preparing for the new cycle šŸ€šŸ¤žšŸ» negative @ 12DPO, even though I wasn't checking BBT throughout the cycle I started with normal thermometer until I get a proper one and it's extremely low for the past 2 days (as low as 95.5), still cramping, sore boobs and mood swings which means AF is definitely coming 🐵 but I had my moment of sadness and now I'm moving on with hope for the next one. Hopefully I still get to eat for two this Christmas! And I will stick around here to see how you all get on, hopefully lots of BFP still to come šŸŽˆ

I'm glad you got to BD!!! Hopefully it's your month šŸ€ā¤ļø

Danani · 08/10/2021 10:03

@Peauela where are you up to, huni? Testing? What DPO? :)

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Cruz86 · 08/10/2021 10:02

How long are your cycles normally @beckybabyx? CD12 is still early on so seems like ovulation is on its way over the next few days!

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