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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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Firsttimetrier · 11/10/2021 13:54

@Cruz86 my Flo app is telling me that my last fertile day is on Wednesday too and I just don’t know if we can keep going until then šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ that would be six days straight and only two days off since the 2nd Oct!

I can honestly say we’ve tried our best at this point and given it our all 🤣🤣

lemons44 · 11/10/2021 13:16

@Danani you can use the below link to adjust your temps if they are at a slightly different time

www.whenmybaby.com/basalbodytemperature.php

I wouldn't worry too much if the time you take it is a bit different, it's the trend you are looking for. Based on your temps it looks like you had a nice dip on CD17 which may mean you ovulated then. However you won't know until at least three temp rises to confirm it. My cycle was similar this month, I ovulated two days after my OPK peak (normally it's the day after).

It is important to take it after uninterrupted sleep though (think they say 4 hours but sometimes I'll take mine after a 2hr block and it's still fine usually)

I really recommend fertility friend app for temping.

Xx

Mummytobe93 · 11/10/2021 13:11

Thanks @Effram , I’m fine today, actually maybe a bit far from ā€œfine ā€œ - I’m irritable and constantly hungry šŸ˜‚

4 DPO , dry CM, and I seem to feel some little twinges I’m the left side of my uterus, but that’s probably just another symptom of a normal cycle… at the end of the day whether you’re pregnant or not your body prepares for itšŸ˜€

Try my hardest not to symptom spot.

Don’t worry @Danani my chart is all over the place and issued many warnings about incorrect readings šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Cruz86 · 11/10/2021 13:09

Thank you for your reassurance guys. Going by what you say @Danani, tonight will be the last night to bd šŸ™ŒšŸ»šŸ˜‚ my app is telling me to keep going til Wednesday!! Feeling quite crampy today so hopefully that's a good sign.

I think you have to be so careful and routine with your bbt so I'd try not to worry about it too much!

I'm really hoping we all have some good news soon. All due AF around the same time! X

Squiff70 · 11/10/2021 13:08

@Shortmamashortcycles I'm sorry for your loss Flowers

Sounds like you've timed things perfectly with DTD so fingers crossed for you too!

Shortmamashortcycles · 11/10/2021 12:59

Hello, I've been lurking for a while - is it ok if I join you?

I had a MMC in late August, and this is my first cycle back in the game. Things are a bit weird post-mc but I have tons of EWCM today (cd12) and based on my usual would expect AF on 24th Oct too... so right in time with some of you.

Managed to DTD the last two nights but DH is working insane hours this week so I don't think we have another shot. Hoping the weekend was enough and really hoping for a sticky, healthy bean this time!

Squiff70 · 11/10/2021 12:51

@Effram thank you for your reply. My cycles are normally very regular but I had major surgery last month which may have messed things up a bit. It's just frustrating as I have no idea how many DPO I am Confused

Danani · 11/10/2021 12:40

Case in pointā€¦šŸ˜¬

Lucky October? šŸ€
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Danani · 11/10/2021 12:35

@Effram well done you for managing to BD one more time!!! Very impressive! I hope all your efforts pay off hun! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ€

I’m 2 DPO, nothing exciting is happening. BBT…I feel like is unreliable for me, because even though I’ve been taking it daily, it’s been at different times and I feel like some of those times I must have been half asleep and not done it right because I have a very raggedy line and it hasn’t detected O. I’m choosing not to panic yet, but annoying. I get my AF like clock work, and I get the EWCM and the positive OPKs, so hoping that I do ovulate and just the BBT is not the right method for me. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

AF for me is predicted next weekend - 23 or 24 October, so I’m right with you on that!

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Effram · 11/10/2021 12:29

Happy Monday everyone... I have stopped testing because like @Firsttimetrier and @Cruz86 we are too tired to manage any more, we rustled up one last attempt last night and now will just play the waiting game! I'm due on 24th apparently. Really going to try and wait until then to test!

@Squiff70 usually luteul phase stays consistent so if you ovulated a couple of days later than normal, and it looks like you did, you would expect your period a bit later too. maybe the app just is going off your normal cycle length in the algorithm?

@Danani @Mummytobe93 how are you guys feeling today?

I have so much work to catch up on this week after last week being a right off because either a child or the childminder was off sick, so hoping that will keep me busy during the TWW!

misstickhill · 11/10/2021 12:29

@Danani I’m with you on the boring 2DPO wagon.

I’m feeling optimistic today though which is something I struggled with last month. I shared my OPK pics and chart yesterday and was worried i didn’t ovulate as I didn’t get a proper positive result but my temp spiked yesterday and has gone higher again today after a CD 15 noticeable dip so I’m really happy my chart seems to be looking good! One more day of high temps and I’ll be sure I ovulated.

@Cruz86 - I think that ovulation occurs after the initial surge which would be when you first see a peak as that spike prompts the egg release. I think you’re just seeing your LH take a while to go down which looks normal looking at the different types of LH surge. I think you’re covered :)

HRHXO · 11/10/2021 12:27

Hey! I had a weekend off MN as it was my mums birthday over the weekend so been a bit busy. I think AF stopped yesterday so from tomorrow I will be doing OPKs and I'm excited to try again this month!

I've only been at my new job about 5 weeks which makes me a bit anxious but I'm 31 and TTC #1 so don't really want to put it off any longer!

Good luck to all!

Bundaberg84 · 11/10/2021 12:24

Thanks @Danani - I try to hold out. I don't feel any pressure right now, but that could change any day as usual.

Danani · 11/10/2021 11:54

@Cruz86 if you stop testing after you detect a peak, I’d say you’d want to DTD the day of the peak, the day after and the day after that. And I’d draw the line there. šŸ˜„

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Danani · 11/10/2021 11:53

Oh hey @Peauela šŸ‘‹

Yay for AF going away! You have time for another try at the lucky October! šŸ€šŸ¤žšŸ»

We managed to BD , yes, not sure if I’ll class it as ā€œa lotā€ especially compared to other champs on here like @Firsttimetrier or @Cruz86 šŸ˜šŸ˜‚ but we tried! Now we wait.

2 DPO is booooring.😓

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Cruz86 · 11/10/2021 11:50

[quote Danani]@Cruz86 why are you worried about that in particular? Like, has it been an issue with your first baby? If not, then, I don’t think you have an actual reason to worry, lovey! X[/quote]
No it wasn't an issue šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø I had my first peak test and didn't test after that. And fell pregnant that cycle! I just don't know when to stop dtd haha x

Danani · 11/10/2021 11:48

@Cruz86 why are you worried about that in particular? Like, has it been an issue with your first baby? If not, then, I don’t think you have an actual reason to worry, lovey! X

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Cruz86 · 11/10/2021 11:33

@Mummytobe93

I think only first peak is what matters, and that’s when you’re about to ovulate. Some doctors say to just stop testing after the first positive OPK because you’re fertile only about 12-36 hrs after you detect it.
Oh really?! I'm so worried about my body gearing up for it and then not actually releasing an egg, but then missing it if I stop dtd x
Mummytobe93 · 11/10/2021 11:30

I think only first peak is what matters, and that’s when you’re about to ovulate. Some doctors say to just stop testing after the first positive OPK because you’re fertile only about 12-36 hrs after you detect it.

Cruz86 · 11/10/2021 11:30

Yeah you're right @Danani. I'm stressing unnecessarily! Need to relax x

purpleskyssssss · 11/10/2021 11:28

Hey all hope everyone is doing ok, just wanted to get onto the October bus.

I have had a few weeks/ days off MN with the arrival of AF and my bday - I have made the most of relaxing and enjoying my very long winded birthday celebrations 🤣.

I'm 10DPO today not due to ovulate till next Friday, feeling positive and OH has finally had his SA taken, YAY 😁

Peauela · 11/10/2021 11:22

Omg I have so much catching up to do. I hope you don't mind me sticking around? My AF was a bish and so painful like getting it Itself wasn't enough šŸ˜‚ CD4 today and it's slowly going away. We're excited to start trying again.

How's everyone doing? @Danani I see you managed to BD a lot, fingers crossed for you this month šŸ¤žšŸ»

@Vwhite congrats ! So exciting!

Danani · 11/10/2021 11:20

Hmmm šŸ¤” that’s interesting! But I guess it’s not not normal! Remember what @Mummytobe93 shared! You seem to be in the Plateau pattern! Hopefully today is the third and last! X

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Cruz86 · 11/10/2021 11:17

[quote Danani]@Cruz86 surely that’s good news, no? The end is nigh! Maybe you’ll O later today/tonight! šŸ¤žšŸ»[/quote]
It'll be my third day of peak tests though. Which means ovulation keeps getting pushed back a day!

Danani · 11/10/2021 11:17

Welcome back @Bundaberg84! Glad you had a lovely time not fixating on the TWW! :) Are you planning to test or wait for AF?
Very exciting so many of you are coming to the end of the wait this week!! šŸ€

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