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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC #2

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L0tM0w · 12/09/2021 13:14

Hi everyone, it’s my first post on mumsnet, I spent a LOT of time reading through these threads when ttc my son and they helped so much.

Now I’m back ttc my second and it is only our second cycle and I am already much more desperate for it to happen than I was the first time around with my son 3 years a go.

I think it’s because it took us 10 cycles to conceive my son and I’m already heartbroken over it potentially taking that long (or longer) this time around.

Anybody else out there ttc their second baby and feeling the same anxiety? I swear I drove myself mad last cycle, it’s no wonder it happened really, I was borderline insane with googling, symptom spotting and even poas as early as 4dpo Confused

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Kiaa · 03/11/2021 23:45

Oops @L0ts was ment to tag you 1st
Wishing you the best this cycle Don't give up hope usually when you least expect it 🤞

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 23:42

Thank you @Kiaa. Although I am finding it harder to lose the weight as time goes on but feel losing a couple of pounds a week will help keep the weight off in the long run. Good luck to you

Kiaa · 03/11/2021 23:41

@has30 wishing you the best this cycle
Don't give up hope usually when you least expect it 🤞

@has30 omg yes it really is I finally got my static face today 🎉
Hope you get yours soon and the 2ww goes fast

Kiaa · 03/11/2021 23:38

@Borolass84 good job losing weight I've been doing the same just in case it gets to the 1 year mark

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 15:40

Thanks @has30 told the doc I aim to lose another stone as needed to as I’m not exactly tall haha. Also doc said if I go IVF route they don’t accept smokers. I’m currently a smoker but cutting down so less cigarettes using my ecig more to reduce cigarette intake further. Not sure if that will affect day 8 and 21 bloods like as I’m aiming to be off the cigarettes totally in about a week

has30 · 03/11/2021 15:32

@Kiaa I'm on day 2 of flashing faces!! It's horrible isn't it! Almost worse than waiting for a positive test haha!

@Borolass84 well done with the weight loss that amazing! Hopefully now things progress quickly for you!

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 15:15

@L0ts yes I will keep you all posted

L0ts · 03/11/2021 15:08

@Borolass84 Hey don’t apologise, I’m going to see that as a good sign!! 😂😂

You’ll have to let us know how you get on with your blood work!

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 14:20

Sorry @L0ts I misread or got brain fog (or both lol) fingers crossed for you x

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 14:13

@L0ts aww that’s brilliant news; so pleased for you! Il keep updating as I go. Just want these blood results so I know what’s going on. Just out of my window now so hoping it’s this month for me Smile

L0ts · 03/11/2021 13:50

Hi everyone!!

I got a positive OPKs on 27th and 28th so assuming I’m around 5/6dpo. Don’t feel any different as of yet, I think I’ll be mega shocked if we’ve conceived this month for some reason! You know when you just feel like it’s not worked this cycle? I don’t know why I just don’t have my hopes high at all!

Hope everybody is okay 😃

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 10:08

I’m awaiting day 8 and 21 bloods via GP. Due to losing 1.5 stone my BMI is now below 30 so can be referred to fertility clinic if needed.

Kiaa · 03/11/2021 00:28

The clearblue flashing smiley faces are driving me crazy 5 days in a row 😂
How is everyone else going ?

has30 · 30/10/2021 08:03

@whymewhyme welcome. So sorry to hear how your TTC number 2 is going. Really hope it happens for you soon.

@Kiaa and @kmbegs let's hope this is our month!! I'm holding off my clearblue sticks for the moment as I'm pretty sure I ovulate quite late in the cycle (considering dates for my first) so will start them on Monday! Ive heard a lot of good things about pre seed. Will be interesting to see how your month goes! Good luck both!!

kmbegs · 30/10/2021 06:19

@whymewhyme so sorry to hear about the MC. And fingers crossed that it isn't AF. This stuff is hard isn't it? I'm on month 8 now (well cycle 8, month 9) and feel like just giving up but can't. I feel so conscious of the ever growing age gap between my daughter and a potential sibling.

@has30 I'm approaching fertile window too, although after a crazy long cycle last month I've no idea what to expect, really hope it's not another super long one. I'm using pre-seed this cycle so we'll see if that makes any difference. Fingers crossed! I'm 35 in two weeks and GOD I would do anything for a BFP birthday present!

Kiaa · 29/10/2021 23:16

@whymewhyme sure thing welcome 😀
So sorry to hear about mc .Aww hopefully is not your Af :(
Best of luck xx

Kiaa · 29/10/2021 23:13

@has30 looks like we have a similar cycle 😀 I'm about 4 days off fertile window started opk testing with clearblue this time and normal ones . This time feel like it's going so slow

whymewhyme · 29/10/2021 18:51

Can i join in please.

TTC for 14 months with a MC in between. I'm so fed up, I'm due today, i was hoping it was a no show but I've just wiped and their was slightly brown and stingy discharge so i guess I'm out now. Sending luck to everyone else xx

has30 · 29/10/2021 17:18

How's everyone getting on? Anyone close to testing? I'm a few days off my fertile window excited to start another month off after what feels like forever since AF started!

mrsS21 · 27/10/2021 21:37

Wonderful news @WingingIt101! Huge congratulations to you and your other half 🎉

has30 · 27/10/2021 07:06

@WingingIt101 ah thanks for that. Really helpful!
Wishing you all the best for your pregnancy. Please keep us posted xx

Kiaa · 27/10/2021 00:49

@WingingIt101 congratulations so exciting 🎉so lovely to hear keep us updated of how you go 🥰

WingingIt101 · 26/10/2021 22:37

I used natural cycles to conceive my daughter but with disrupted sleep I think it becomes less accurate, combined with my cycles being longer since having her I was never sure it was accurate.

This was my first month using ovulation testing and I used clearblue digital.
We dtd on the Wednesday with negative LH test that morning, then tested Thursday morning and got a static smiley face to indicate it was my Lh surge so did it again that night, then negative Lh test on the Friday.

Apparently you usually get a flashing smiley face first to indicate the hormones are rising but I missed that so can only assume it started at some point in the day after I tested!

has30 · 26/10/2021 21:38

@WingingIt101 is this your first time using ovulation sticks? Did you DTD on your surge day? It will be my first month this month using them and I'll be so interested to see how different it is to the apps!

Borolass84 · 26/10/2021 21:31

I’m so pleased for you. How long have you been ttc? I’m currently using the OVIA app to calculate my ovulation dates. The apps now saying 2 days til fertile window. That’s the thing with these apps; I jotted down on it that I thought I had implantation bleeding but doesn’t seem to have recorded it as that.

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