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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC #2

413 replies

L0tM0w · 12/09/2021 13:14

Hi everyone, it’s my first post on mumsnet, I spent a LOT of time reading through these threads when ttc my son and they helped so much.

Now I’m back ttc my second and it is only our second cycle and I am already much more desperate for it to happen than I was the first time around with my son 3 years a go.

I think it’s because it took us 10 cycles to conceive my son and I’m already heartbroken over it potentially taking that long (or longer) this time around.

Anybody else out there ttc their second baby and feeling the same anxiety? I swear I drove myself mad last cycle, it’s no wonder it happened really, I was borderline insane with googling, symptom spotting and even poas as early as 4dpo Confused

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Kiaa · 10/11/2021 01:17

@Kiko12 welcome
Yes the symptom are the worst hard to tell them apart from Af ones
Hopefully a good sign , hope the next 6 days goes fast for you best of luck 🤞

Borolass84 · 09/11/2021 13:37

@L0ts first baby and ttc for 8 months. Yeah allot of the things are pricey which is off putting. Hope you’re well.

Kiko12 · 09/11/2021 13:17

Hi all! Not been active on MN since I conceived my first but she's now 2 and we've been trying for a year now to conceive with no success. I just seem to have early pregnancy symptoms followed by a really heavy period every other months.

I've been nauseous, sore gums, fatigued - the whole caboodle this month but 6 days away from my next period so - fingers crossed!

L0ts · 09/11/2021 13:05

@Borolass84 How long have you been ttc for now? Is this your first or baby number two you’re trying for? Hope the pre seed helps. I’ve been tempted to give it a try tbh because I know so many swear by it! It’s just the price that puts me off 😂

@WingingIt101 I really hope the next few weeks fly by for you ❤️ Pleased you’re doing well!

I’m now anywhere between 8-10dpo. AF is due tomorrow or Thursday but I really think it’ll be pushed back due to late ovulation again like last month. If I go by my temp spike I’m only 8dpo but if I go by my positive OPKs (which I had for two days) I’d say I’m about 10/11dpo, so god knows 😂

I feel a little achy and a little nauseous at times but not too sure if it’s all in my head? I said I had sensitive nipples the other day but they disappear afterwards which is unusual. The tww literally drives me insane!!! 😂😅

Kiaa · 09/11/2021 10:50

@WingingIt101
Aww just take it easy try not to stress everything will be fine for you & bub
How exciting Hopefully the next month goes fast for you 🌟

WingingIt101 · 09/11/2021 10:38

Thanks @Kiaa - doing ok here. Very tired and experiencing a lot of anxiety which I didn’t get with my first. By my maths my dating scan should be around 20th December which feels ages away!

Borolass84 · 08/11/2021 23:38

Good evening all. After some confusion at the surgery (it’s always eventful lol) had bloods taken today (next lot are 21 day bloods). I take multivitamins daily anyway but have reminded OH to take them daily too (he’s hit/miss as he forgets). Purchased pre seed and awaiting delivery of COq10 for myself and OH to take. Contemplating acupuncture despite not being a fan of needles. Hope everyone’s ok :)

Kiaa · 08/11/2021 23:22

@mrsS21 glad to see everything is going well for you 😀 best of luck for you 🤞

Kiaa · 08/11/2021 23:20

@WingingIt101 thanks hope your doing well 😀
@L0ts hoping for good news for you 🤞

mrsS21 · 08/11/2021 10:19

Excited today is our O day, really impressed with easy @ home tests this month, they’ve been so good to track with.
Trying smep this month, so hopefully we can dtd tonight, tomorrow and Wednesday to cover our bases!

WingingIt101 · 07/11/2021 17:08

Ahh @L0ts you aren’t out til you’re out. Remember that the symptoms of af and implantation can be so similar x

L0ts · 07/11/2021 11:57

Ergh I’m about 8dpo and I feel so not pregnant it’s unreal. I’ve had sore nipples since this morning which usually happens about 4/5 days before AF starts so I’m feeling incredibly out this month 😩

WingingIt101 · 04/11/2021 20:41

Good luck ladies! Excited to hear so many static smileys are happening 😃

has30 · 04/11/2021 13:54

Thank you all for that! My DH is going to be happy when I tell him!

Kiaa · 04/11/2021 08:41

@Moonshine160
Once you get a static smiley face ovulation should occur 12-48 hours after
Dtd asap at least next 2 days

Kiaa · 04/11/2021 08:37

@has30 oh yay cycle buddies 😀 the leaflet says once a static smiley face ovulation will occur 12-48 hours I think just depends how fast you ovulate but definitely dtd asap
I'm planning on dtd next 3 days 🤞

kmbegs · 04/11/2021 08:32

@Moonshine160 and @has30 I think there's so much confusion because there is no right or wrong answer. Someone people will be imminently about to ovulate when they get their LH peak, others will have a few days to wait. I use the 'sperm meets egg' plan to make sure I am covered - that means you have sex every other day from about day 10 then once you get your static smilie (or positive LH test) you have sex that day and the two following days, then you skip a day then you have sex again to make sure you've definitely had sex around ovulation. You shouldn't ovulate more than four days after a positive LH test so that should mean you're covered. Well that's what I go by - I'm sure others will be different but just adding in case it helps.

Moonshine160 · 04/11/2021 07:47

I’m wondering the same @has30
I’m on cycle 2 of TTC #2 and it’s my first month of using the clearblue ovulation tests. I’ve had a flashing smiley for a few days. Once I get the static smiley how long do I carry on DTD for after that?! Just that one day or a couple of days after?

has30 · 04/11/2021 06:52

@has30

Stupid question, does a static smiley mean the egg is about to be released or has been? I've got 2 apps tracking (sad I know) one has moved my fertile window so it ends tomorrow. Then another has said my best chance of conception is in 2 days!!! No wonder I've got no clue about my dates if they are this all over the place!
I must add this is after I put in my positive ovulation test
has30 · 04/11/2021 06:50

Stupid question, does a static smiley mean the egg is about to be released or has been? I've got 2 apps tracking (sad I know) one has moved my fertile window so it ends tomorrow. Then another has said my best chance of conception is in 2 days!!! No wonder I've got no clue about my dates if they are this all over the place!

has30 · 04/11/2021 06:45

@Kiaa I've just had my static face this morning too!!!! Let's do it this cycle now haha! Only problem is I've got to go to work first Angry xx

Borolass84 · 04/11/2021 03:15

Once another stone is off I will be where I need to be :)

Kiaa · 04/11/2021 03:03

@Borolass84 oh that's good . One step at a time no need to worry you'll be fine 😀

Borolass84 · 03/11/2021 23:50

@Kiaa my weight loss has been entirely off changes in diet. Next step is to try quitting smoking for good as it’s now making me anxious as I’m awaiting day 8 and 21 bloods

Kiaa · 03/11/2021 23:47

@Borolass84 no worries
Yes same here it has slowed down but struggle with finding time to exercise with my 3 years old or that I'm exhausted lol
Your doing good
Fingers crossed for you 🌟