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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 05/09/2021 13:10

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/01/2022 14:03

@Kelb79 thanks lovely another scan to get through I am really worried for some reason just hope it's more good news.. how are you?? Xx

Kelb79 · 17/01/2022 13:07

Started bleeding again, AF for sure this time I think ☹️☹️

SunnySideUp2020 · 17/01/2022 12:56

@apwilso
I dont know if it was related or something but it seems like my body took a while to recover from MC. It took us 7 cyes after the MC for another bfp, when initially i got pregnant straight away.

I guess sometimes things just take longer. But i would defo get some checks done for peace of mind. That's what i did quite quickly as I am very impatient..

SunnySideUp2020 · 17/01/2022 12:53

@Annny27
Sorry the b is on the way for you...
And completely understand how tired of it all you are.
What are the next steps for you btw? Are you on a waiting list?

I had an almost positive on Friday it was, but then the same day almost negative one. Yesterday I had a positive in the morning and a real good positive, not like a ok will count as positive 😁🙄
Then in the afternoon was low again...
But today and yesterday been having lower backache and just feeling ovulation pains so we will see.

@Kelb79 sounds promising 🙂

apwilso · 17/01/2022 12:52

@Annny27 I find it upsetting like I've failed and scared of a negative outcome but need to now!

@Kelb79 think I will do. Just waiting to see if AF comes. I'm due on today but got the complete other way with symptoms that are more pregnancy than period so hoping I am but fingers crossed

Thanks both for listening to my rant!

Kelb79 · 17/01/2022 11:08

@Sweetbabydust1989 omg good luck for tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Exciting and terrifying all at once!!!

@apwilso I hear ya lovely! I feel exactly the same!! We started TTC in July 2019 and didn’t get pregnant until August last year. The MC after such a long TTC just killed my hope! But I’ve got to be honest, we started fertility investigations just a couple of months before the pregnancy and i think it helped. It changed my head, helped me to just let go as they were taking control. Get to the GP for sure 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

@PeanuttyButter yeah, I’m still pretty soon after the MC (3 months) so things could still be a bit up in the air I guess. It seemed to settle straight back into my old cycle but you never know!! How are you lovely? Hope you’re feeling a bit more positive ❤️❤️❤️

@Annny27 oh noooo!!! Stay away AF!! Hoping you’re wrong!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I know what you mean though…. AF arriving used to upset me, now I’m so completely numb to it!!

God knows what’s happening to me!! Stopped bleeding completely! Tried BD’ing to bring it on but nothing! CD 25 13DPO so I guess I’ll just have to wait and see!
Flight home just got cancelled 🤦🏼‍♀️ Stressful but I’ve possibly lucked in with an extra couple of nights out here! 🤪 And it stops me frantically testing I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

Babyghirl · 17/01/2022 11:08

@Annny27
Received all my content forms by there app so just getting all them sorted and filled out it's all done on line now, I'm crap when it comes to technology to lol 💚

Sorry the bitch is on her way tell her to beat it she's not welcome 😂😂😂😂

Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/01/2022 10:55

@Annny27 you got this girl!!! I have my next one tomorrow very scared it's so early still but they wanna check the sac or something won't see much at 5weeks 3 days but hey ho least they're being cautious.. just have mild cramps nothing else.. hoping it's all positive they couldn't see my tubes one the other scan so that's a good sign don't feel pain like last time xx

Annny27 · 17/01/2022 10:52

@sunnysideup2020 oooh that's exciting you had a positive opk!!

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Annny27 · 17/01/2022 10:50

Hello ladies :) pre period time for me and she is definitely on the way with bfn today at 11dpo and some brown discharge today as well. Just sick of it tbh, cba with it but ofcourse will never give up!

I am sort of numb to it these days. Just went to see hubby and just said periods on the way and both of us were just like ah okay 🙄

@apwilso 100% it's very all consuming isn't it and is very frustrating to navigate. I would book GP appointment this month and get the ball rolling

@kelb79 oh no way - have you tested? If it's not normal to your cycle it might be implantation!

@sweetbabydust1989 so glad that the scan went well 💗💗💗 when is the next one?

@peanuttybutter I am the same, sometimes no spotting, sometimes a few days!

@babyghirl have you had a date through yet for ivf?

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apwilso · 16/01/2022 15:37

I'm kinda over this TTC feeling a bit negative but need a rant.

I've been trying (which I use loosely as sometimes I tracked and sometimes I just went with the flow!) since November 2020. I got pregnant in April 2021 so quite quick obviously miscarried and still no sign of being pregnant since.

This month was the first month we got ovulation day and week as we were home together but just had some light spotting. I know it could be implantation bleeding and I have had a different experience this month with it all and felt good but since seeing the spotting it's sent my head!!

If I'm not pregnant this month I think I will take myself to the doctors because I'm fed up now 😢

Sorry for the rant

I've had loads of symptoms this month I never normally had like cramping, constipated which is anyone knows me it's 100% nothing like me. How annoying!

PeanuttyButter · 16/01/2022 11:21

@Kelb79 hope it's not AF and just some strange implantation bleeding. I've noticed that pre AF bleeding differs from month to month since my MMCs sometimes I will have nothing until the day before or spotting for days and days. Still got my fingers crossed for you xx

Kelb79 · 16/01/2022 09:13

😵‍💫 I think it might be AF super early… that’s never happened! 1 day maybe but not 4/5 🤷🏼‍♀️
It went brown and sticky yesterday, really like it would be at the end of AF, then bright red with a single clot (i use a moon cup so can inspect everything 🤣🤣)
But this morning, nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️
I had an evil headache all day yesterday that’s still kicking me a bit today…. I usually get that on the first day of AF so….. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Eurgh! Why do our bodies have to be so confusing??!! 😫😫

apwilso · 14/01/2022 14:16

@Kelb79 I had bleeding on cd 14 with my pregnancy (MMC) but I was getting faint positives but that was really heavy was so weird!

Kelb79 · 14/01/2022 13:12

It is yeah…..,not heavy, no clots/stringyness, pretty wet - not too thick…..
it could just be AF coming early but 10DPO seems really early - I’ve never been more than a day early 🤔 I’m on CD22 …..

Sweetbabydust1989 · 14/01/2022 13:06

@Kelb79 is it like spotting?? Xx

Kelb79 · 14/01/2022 12:40

Had shower and still had a bit more after…. more brown coloured…but not dark 🤔

Kelb79 · 14/01/2022 12:06

Giiirrrlllss!!!
I just wiped blood at 10DPO 😳 wtf??!!
What’s your opinions??
I didn’t have implantation bleeding before so I don’t have a point of reference…. Could it be???
Quite bright red, not loads, watery….
I’m not home from Egypt until two days after AF is due so early testing isn’t gonna happen 🤣🤣

SunnySideUp2020 · 14/01/2022 08:36

Great news @Sweetbabydust1989
Can't wait to hear about your next scan x

I think I am ovulating tonight or tomorrow. Opk almost positive this morning and i tested because I literally had massive leak of CM (sorry for tmi). Will test again this afternoon. It is the first time I notice proper CM.

That being said I read about breastfeeding and ttc and it will most likely not happen until I much reduce the nursing... but I will try!

Haven't dtd yet this week so will try today 🙈

Good luck to the ladies in tww (quite a few!)

apwilso · 13/01/2022 20:19

@Annny27 the one time I actually tracked as well and i bloody forgot!

My boyfriend wanted me to do a test today knowing it's my 8th wee of today and it's too early but just so he was happy. I think 10 dpo is tomorrow now so going to test over the next few days

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/01/2022 14:29

@Kelb79 yes me to seen loads to all happy and there is me sweating and legs like jelly while waiting for my outcome.. just Tuesday to wait now everyday is a mile stone I am doing it week to week now I have told my partner but not my mum yet xx

Kelb79 · 13/01/2022 13:21

@Sweetbabydust1989 that’s great news!! 🥳🥳🥳 first hurdle crossed!! Each step is going to be awful however you come at it, MCs alter your perspective on the journey so much! I think I’ve actually been grieving the loss of the potentially beautiful journey of pregnancy almost as much as the pregnancy itself! I’m so jealous of those women that have perfect pregnancies!

@Annny27 I’m not sure when I OV’d as I wasn’t tracking anything but my predicted OV dates are usually bang on. Travel could knock it out but we DTD pretty much every day (and sometimes twice 🤣🤣 OH is always on fire on holidays!!) from the 30th Dec until 5th Jan (predicted OV was 4th). Then a couple of days break as we were in bunks on an overnight train and twin beds one night - we were a bit tired and bickering with each other that night so we stayed in our own beds!! 🤣🤣 but then been back on it since! Pretty much covered all bases but quality V quantity?! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣 Been an emotional wreck today….. hormones alert!!! Probably to start of pre AF week but a girl can hope eh?! 😉

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/01/2022 13:07

@PeanuttyButter thanks lovely I am so relieved but still anxious for Tuesday I was messaging @Babyghirl the whole way through my scan to take my mind off it legs in the air and messaging is highly recommended if you have a dildo probe in you and are very anxious 🤣 it did freak me out when she said one of my ovaries looks a little horse shoe shaped I was like wtf and she was like no it normal don't panic 🤣 xx

PeanuttyButter · 13/01/2022 13:03

@Sweetbabydust1989 such good news!

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/01/2022 12:24

The verdict is in drum roll.... no ectopic, tubes weren't inflamed but I am so early they saw what appears to be a small scan rescan Tuesday xx

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