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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 05/09/2021 13:10

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

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Annny27 · 20/01/2022 12:37

Sorry that AF arrived for you too :( @apwilso sucks!!!

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Annny27 · 20/01/2022 12:36

As if I wasn't moody already I wrote a massive message and it disappeared haha. So here we go again....

My period arrived today at 14dpo. Obvs gutted and feeling like shit and just remembered it's the month of my 2nd miscarriage due date so another kick in the teeth 👀

@kelb79 totally understand your pain, it's so shit isn't it! Just no break from the pain and wondering and planning and thinking

@elm7 awwh thats tricky, on the one hand it's fantastic that there's no issues but also it would be nice to have something to fix!
I think all pregnancies have a 25% chance of miscarriage because its 1 in 4 pregnancies. So with the aspirin and progesterone I hope you have an amazing chance!

@27donfin how are you doing - have you started wedding planning?

@sunnysideup2020 yayy for ovulating !! And good going for dtd with being tired from baby haha

We sre waiting to hear back from our ivf appeal which should be a months time. And then regardless of the outcome we will either start nhs ivf or do private ivf come April. Really hope we catch before that as don't wsnt to do ivf unless needed

@babyghirl lots of exciting stuff coming ahead this year with ivf starting for you 🥰🥰🥰

@sweetbabydust1989 amazing!!! Let us know when you have your next scan xxx

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apwilso · 20/01/2022 12:31

@Kelb79 I was like that at Christmas because that was my due date. You will feel low but you get through it. I get you!

I'm confused period has stopped after nearly 2 days so weird. I don't get it. I had this last time and I was pregnant so god knows. Negative tests on cheapies so god knows

Kelb79 · 20/01/2022 12:06

Eurgh! I’m having one of those really crappy down days 😓
I would’ve been 6 months this weekend and I’m totally fixating on it! I keep thinking I’m getting over things but then it hits me again and still feels so fresh and so painful.
I feel totally hopeless today 😣

Babyghirl · 20/01/2022 08:31

@ELM7
It's weird when we get that news like we want something to be wrong so it can be fixed, having nothing wrong does not feel like a relief because then we have no answers for all our losses 💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 19/01/2022 19:50

@ELM7 Hey lovely! Nice to hear from you. No chance to dtd again but tha fine.

I understand the feeling re the letter. It s like good news nothing seems to be wrong yet there is a recurring issue. And the 60% isn't the most optimistic.... weird. I mean weird that they aren't giving you something else than progesterone and aspirin... but then again if nothing seems wrong guess it is hard.
How do you feel?

ELM7 · 19/01/2022 17:09

Hi Ladies hope you are all ok.

@Sweetbabydust1989 that’s great news on your latest scan really hope this is your 🌈

@SunnySideUp2020 glad your OPK finally stay positive for you hope you got another chance to DTD

Sorry AF is messing around for a few of you.

I’ve had my follow up with the recurrent miscarriage clinic and the good thing is they can’t find any issues (have attached a copy of my letter) but all I can see is the 30+% chance of another miscarriage 🤦🏼‍♀️

🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕
apwilso · 18/01/2022 21:18

@Kelb79 thanks. Yes I think it's time!

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2022 21:14

@Babyghirl that's weird if it is AF... let us know.

Finally it lasts for me... opk still positive tonight 🥳 CD35 was about time.
So i guess for the past week my body was gearing up but failing and today is finally going for it.
Except we have been dtd 3 times now this week and I am so tired. So today is the last day 😅

Babyghirl · 18/01/2022 17:36

@sunnysideup2020
Deffo think it's an early period, getting the cramps now to go with it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈.

Kelb79 · 18/01/2022 13:38

@Sweetbabydust1989 🥳🥳🥳🥳 HUGE CONGRATULATIONS!!! Amazing news!!! And hope for the rest of us 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
So so happy for you 😁😁

@apwilso welcome to the AF club lovely, I’m so sorry she got you, especially after a little glimmer of hope. I can empathise entirely. Lots of love ❤️❤️ Defo get onto your GP xxxx

@Annny27 where you at cycle twin??

apwilso · 18/01/2022 12:56

@SunnySideUp2020 I think AF has come now. I think it's just line eyes unfortunately. Doctors will be getting phoned today I think xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 18/01/2022 12:29

@SunnySideUp2020 thanks so much still early days taking it each day at a time.. how are you been lovely?? Xx

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2022 12:20

@Babyghirl ok well if it is brown now sounds like your cervix got a bit irritated maybe. I wouldnt think these are periods...
When did you ovulate you think?

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2022 12:18

Ohhhhh amazing @Sweetbabydust1989 !!!
That is awesome progress! Sounds like this is your rainbow 🌈 congratulations 🌈

Sweetbabydust1989 · 18/01/2022 12:04

Just an update had the scan and baby is in the right place a visible sac and yolk were seen I am still in shock back in 2 weeks for hopefully a heart beat hope you are all well come on girls we can all do this don't let me be alone 🙈😂 xx

Babyghirl · 18/01/2022 11:55

@sunnysideup2020
Got discharged from the clinic last April as had cin1 cells removed and last smear came back all clear, it was like a pinky colour last night after dtd but abit more brown today norm gow mmy period starts of the first day so will c bit strange only being cd17.

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2022 11:32

@Babyghirl it is hard to temp because i sleep with my baby and nurse and wake many many times every night 😐 so i dont think it would be accurate...
But might give it a try!

For the bleeding? Is it brown or red? Have you had a smear test recently??

Babyghirl · 18/01/2022 10:14

Well strange thing happened last night cd17 dtd and started to bleed, wtf is going on

@sunnysideup2020
Try temping next month so you can see what is going on.

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2022 09:02

Show us! @apwilso

Good luck today @Sweetbabydust1989 !

Annnddd another positive opk for me today.
This is the third one in the last week.
It is driving me mad. After having none, I am now having multiples but always low a few hours later. Today CM also tempted me to do it. A proper mindf*

What is this?!!! My body must be veryyyy confused. I also did a hcg just in case which is obviously negative. 🙄

🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕
Babyghirl · 18/01/2022 00:06

@apwilso
Let us c a photo lol x

apwilso · 17/01/2022 20:56

@SunnySideUp2020 I definitely will. I'm just so nervous!

On CD34/13dpo had extremely light spotting when j wipe so think AF is coming. Tests are negative so think I'm out! Think I can see a faint line on a cheapie but think it's wishful thinking

Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/01/2022 14:46

@Kelb79 put it's this was way I am that worried I haven't converted my apps into the pregnancy mode yet I just keep getting notifications telling me I am late 😂🙈 xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/01/2022 14:36

@Kelb79 it's horrible I stopped trying and it seemed to have helped i get as shocked to get my BFP as I was was expecting another bfn.. treat it as a fresh month... oh it's scary I am doing them weekly atm I just don't want someone to burst my bubble I am looking at the positives xx

Kelb79 · 17/01/2022 14:07

@Sweetbabydust1989 crossing everything for you chick! 🤞🏼🤞🏼
I’m a bit gutted, body playing tricks with me, can’t deny I got my hopes up a bit, but bleeding again so it’s hit to be AF. Onto yet another month! 😓