🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

Ok guys. From literally nothing yesterday to this, this morning. Hopefully this is the start of my peak. Sorry for the spam in the next 24hs xx

@PeanuttyButter
I'm painting r bar out the back today lol, pups have been evicted out to the kennel, mind you only 3 left so not to bad 💚

@PeanuttyButter oh trust me I'm bad for that it's because I've ran out🤣 I tested and were convinced we can see a faint faint faint faint line on CB but we've got line eyes so onto the next cycle?!

Anyone used CB fertility monitor. I've just got one and excited to see if it can help! Pricey but hopefully it works!

@PeanuttyButter i have similar things happening with ny cycle rn. And also got tired after 2 peaks. And ovulated on 3rd one i think.
But it's what was said before... the body gears up but just can't. So tries again later...
So would also think 1st of jan is ovulation.

MIL arrived today with SIL. I had an argument with DH in front of them 🥲 classic.
But i like them so it's nice for me! Going for a little hike in the mountains hopefully tmrw if not snowing!

Anybody in the tww?

@Babyghirl bit of DIY, see some family. Try and chill really. Looking forward to the weather improving so I can get out and about a bit more.

Anyone else doing anything exciting?

@PeanuttyButter
I'm cd4 today so not to far behind you, it's a cold one today pot of stew ready and going to have a chill night you any weekend plans 💚

Thanks @Babyghirl that's what I thought especially as I had no more highs after that. It's just so frustrating though as you see the first peak and then have no energy for the second.. anyways I will keep you posted on this month. So far all 0% but I'm only CD 8, hoping it starts to climb over the weekend.

@PeanuttyButter
I would say you had a few days of high fertility and took awhile for your peak to be gone I would say u ovulated after your 1st of Jan peak, as your body can gear up then fail and that's how you get another peak reading x

@Annny27
@Kelb79
Still red now but only on wiping never been red for this long this is cd4 norm brown by CD 2 so only a day and a half of red norm 💚

Ok this was last month's...

@Annny27 yeah, I know it’s getting him down too, he drinks to escape overthinking and then he wants to talk but I’m hardly drinking, obviously, and get tired so want to sleep when he wants to talk…. Our schedules are clashing massively! We had a great first week of holiday, felt like we got closer and laid some ghosts to rest but it’s gone downhill since then 😣 I think we’ve still got to figure out how to get through this together!

@apwilso defo test chick!! Put your mind at rest!!

@PeanuttyButter clog away!!! I could do with focussing on someone other than myself 🤣🤣

@Babyghirl yay for healthier periods!! Mine was sooo healthy the last couple of months but has been weird as hell this month 🙄😵‍💫

Anyone fancy having me on their DMs and helping me figure out when I ovulate this month? Don't want to clog this thread up with my crazy poas. I've been having multiple peaks and now my cycle has calmed back down post MC I want some help. My poor DH can't keep up with it all so want to try and make it count when it counts. DM me please, can't ask DH because it gives him stage fright knowing it's time...

@apwilso get testing girl and let us know! I don't know how you can't test like crazy. I sometimes test when I know AF is in full swing just incase haha.

I'm still confused my period has only been for two days. Going to do a test as this is what happened last time I was pregnant

@PeanuttyButter
Same with me lol but this month it's different still quite heavier than norm for 2 and a half days in xx

@babyghirl I usually only have 2 days of red myself then the third day is brown to non existent. Never used to be like that

Have to say this is the healthiest period I have had in a while 2 and a half days of red blood instead of the 1 and a half I would normally have before it turned brown for 3 days xx

@PeanuttyButter
The wait is hard I won't lie but knew it was in front of me like a wheel borrow, I'm nervous about it all tbh, like what I fall but loss again or if I don't fall it all goes through your head 💚

@Babyghirl I was referred back in Oct but due to a mix up they only received my referral in December! Im hoping they come up with a plan for me soon, just want hope basically.

@Annny27
On my period now it came on cd17 I was in sync with my sister for period but went of rail after last loss, so now back in sync with her I alway end up back in sync with her lol.

@PeanuttyButter
My last loss was end of Jan last year, had an app with my consultant middle of Feb and got put on it then, got a letter in Oct time to accept ivf offer, put on hold for a while because my rmc consultant wanted an mri and results first so phoned back in Dec to open offer again and it's all go from there have filled in my consent forms and that on line so just waiting now.

@Annny27 awww sorry AF has turned up. How was you been? Yeah wedding planning is in full swing September 2023 we get married. It's been an amazing distraction from all baby making thoughts tbh and I feel so much better for it. Waiting on referral from hospital to start IUI was told in November it be early in the new year but as yet nothing but happy just to wait as not missing the monthly tracking and stress the 2 years before were x

Sorry I've been so quiet guys been in a bit of a funk and not wanted to think about all this stuff.

@Annny27 sorry AF came, you would think we would be used to it by now but it doesn't get easier does it really. Fingers crossed for this next month.

@Kelb79 sorry you think AF is here too. Try and enjoy the sun the best you can irrespective of what your oh is doing. Tough days are tough I know (I really do lately especially) but try and remember that this is your life and being sad and getting upset isn't adding to that, it's just wasting precious time.

@Babyghirl watching and waiting with you, be good to get a run down on the time scale from seeing your GP etc to being in the position you're in now. I've had my first telephone clinic with the recurrent miscarriage clinic and had loads of bloods done so just wondering what potentially is the next step and time etc

@elm7 i completely understand your frustration as if there was something you can fix you'd feel more confident going forward. Did they offer you the CERN trial? They have offered it to me but don't know how I feel about it all.

Finally as for me. On CD 7 so will start DTD tomorrow and hope something sticks. Cycles seem to be back to 24 days again so hoping my ovulation is on time this month. Think I ovulated a day earlier than usual last month which screwed things up a bit as was expecting to have some stuff ready and waiting and we couldn't before and DH had plans which meant we were passing ships. Fingers crossed for everyone this month xxx

@Annny27 period buddies! It's crap I'm just confused why it's only been 2 days and not 4 like normal! Well at least you've got a support group here who get you as well. I know how it feels as I've just passed me due date at Christmas!

@Kelb79 go throw a cup of water over him! That will get him up. No nothing can help that pain. Sometimes I have that glimmer of hope of let it be implantation or something but I know it's just my period 😞

@apwilso thank chick ❤️ I know that some days are bad and they come and go but I’m feeling so totally broken today. Should be happy, I’m in the sun by the pool in Egypt but it means nothing! OH is being a total douche at the moment too - staying up most of the night drinking and then staying in bed all day. It’s 2:30pm and he hasn’t made it out the room yet! It’s like being on holiday with a bloody teenager and it’s making me so mad! Meh!!

My period has been doing really odd things this month too!! It’s cruel that our bodies mess with us so much!! Hoping that your at least is good news 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼