🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

@PeanuttyButter I’m so sorry you are going through this. Like @Annny27 says we are here for you.

@Annny27 so sorry the witch is looking like she about to make her appearance. x

Sorry I've been quiet guys, found the wait from my scan to be too hard to be sociable.
Scan today at 8+6 and despite there being a heartbeat 2 weeks ago it's now stopped. Got my ERPC booked for Friday. Devastated

@kiwi17
It's tough you will get through it maybe go out for dinner or a wee take away and a movie,

I have fell pregnant the last 3 Septembers now September is here I have just ovulated I think so we will c lol.

@Babyghirl that's so hard especially on your birthday :( it is rubbish and I was not thinking about it too much but dh was and now it's set me off again. Plus the bulbs we planted for it back in march will start to flower soon so as much as that's a nice memory it will be sad to see them I think.

@sweetbabydust1989
@kiwi17
Awww Big hugs to yous girls due dates r the worst but it does get easier you never forget just learn to cope 💚💚
I have a due date coming up for baby lost at end of Jan to so 3 months out of 12 I have 4 due dates 28th May for first loss 3 of June my birthday for 2nd loss 5th of june for 3rd loss and 19th of Oct for 4th loss, hate my birthday now 💚

Morning, sorry you're having a tough time. I don't think it gets easier you just somehow find a way of living with it. Dates and important times such as mothers day seem to be the worst.
Xox

I'm thinking of you both, kiwi17 and Sweetbabydust1989. Due dates are such difficult milestones, and as you say Kiwi especially when you are not pregnant again, yet. Sorry AF kicked in right now - that really is a kick in the teeth. I absolutely have everything crossed for you both that positive things happen really soon.

@Sweetbabydust1989 it is. I'm sorry you're feeling like that and nerves for your op won't be helping. Hope the days pass quickly for you and that it goes as well as it can. Yeah having support is important, not many people know it would have been due this week so no-one will really say anything and I know DH is struggling with it too. I guess I naively hoped I'd be pg again before the due date :(

@kiwi17 so sorry lovely it's awful isnt it i hope you're ok and have plenty of support I feel empty tonight I am due to have my surgery in 10 days too I have had the worst week going and can't see it getting any better xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 I feel the same way. My due date would have been this Wednesday. :( and I started spotting tonight so yet again another failed cycle 😢 it just sucks so badly.

Feeling numb tonight tomorrow would of been my due date please tell me this gets easier 10 days until surgery emotional wreck xx

In that case, it definitely sounds like they are fobbing you off Spotsmama. I know it's not the point, but could you book a private scan for your own peace of mind?

I thought that too. They will see me next week - Thursday which feels like a long wait for check up and early scan. That's also my booking in appointment with midwife.

@spotsmama
They should be able to see something they said they should c a heart beat by 6 to 7 weeks I would phone up and argue with them tbh don't let them fob you off 💚

@Spotsmama sorry you're feeling like this and not getting any support. Weird they are saying they can't scan as it's too early if you are nearly 7 weeks??

6 weeks, 7 on Saturday I think. I had a CP 7th Aug so counted that as my last period.

I am really sorry that nobody is offering you the support you need right now Spotsmama. Being pregnant after miscarriage is terrifying, and it seems so unfair that the EPU can't even you down support/ reassurance. How far along are you now?

Hello, Imfeeling very let down as I've struggle to see a Dr or get support with this pregnancy. Last night I woke up in pain and had on off pains and cramping throughout the night I'm my lower belly, back and hips. I called 111 early this morning who said my Dr would call me. She did and contacted the local early pregnancy unit. They won't see me because eif it is a mc they can't do anything to stop it and say I'm too early to scan and check. I feel like I'm just being left and waiting for a bomb to go off. I don't feel very positive about this pregnancy. I still have this hope on the back of my mind but I feel like I'm already preparing for the worst.
Nobody seems to care about mc and the worry and anxiety that go woth it!

@Babyghirlyes, they were very kind and understanding and said I should probably contact GP again but request to speak to someone else. I have the midwife next week - 30th but it just seems such a long wait.

Well give the mri a ring this morning I'm on the last min cancellation list but if I don't get that I said will it be 3 months and she said it won't be that long so fingers crossed.

@spotsmama
Did they get bck to you yet x

@Annny27
Hopefully not to long going to give them a ring tomorrow c if they can give me a time frame lol.
@spotsmama
Fingers crossed how r you feeling xx

@Babyghirl I took your advice and gave Tommy's an email after a weekend of struggling with dizzines. Didn't realise they had midwife support. Not sure when I'll hear back but beats trying to talk to me gp who likes to remind me she is not a pregnancy expert so can't help. I really feel you should have details for a midwife during ealry pregnancy, it's not until your booked in you can speak to a midwife.
Hope everyone else is doing well xox

@Annny27 thanks really struggled this weekend thinking about it all. We've both said if ICU and IVF on nhs doesn't work then we will leave it at that. So I think I'm a way we have made peace with it might not happen for us so tests extra is string up old feelings of hope