🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

@Sweetbabydust1989 so glad that you've been given the all clear to start trying again! Very excited for you! Xx

Hello everyone,

I'm really sorry I haven't been on here recently. I have been a bit of a nervous wreck, worrying about when things might go wrong, so I've been avoiding looking at anything pregnancy related and more or less ignoring that I'm pregnant! Sounds awful but, after 4 miscarriages, this has been my reality. I ended up paying for another early scan as I couldn't bear to wait until my next NHS scan, which should be at around 13 weeks and this is what we saw today! DH came with me today and we were both so relieved to see our baby moving around with a steady heartbeat! Baby measured around 11 weeks, which is around what it should be. This is the furthest I've got following the 4 miscarriages so it's a milestone for me and I'm trying my best to celebrate this moment. Still nervous as there's still such a long way to go but reassured for today at least! Xx

@Babyghirl it was definitely the start of my period woke up today to what resembles the chainsaw massacre in my downstairs department I am so happy to to be on i was literally 2 days late on my normal cycle which was actually quite good.. I have been given the all clear to start trying again once this period has finished!! Honestly a clear out is definitely what I needed never seen my period so bright before sorry for the graphics 😂 how are you doing?? Xx

@Babyghirl I did think that so did a couple of tests and they all came back with low fertility so I think it's on its way but taking a little longer due to the clear out xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Could be ovulation as some people cramp and spot around then but could also be your period on its way 💚 xx

Hi ladies so had my lap and dye with hysterscopy done 2 weeks ago last night I noticed I had a little bit of pinkish spotting that went away and today I noticed my discharge had a little colour to it I have been on antibiotics which caused thrush 😩 which I have been treating with cream.. I am just a little worried been cramping for days I feel like I am coming on but it's not here yet.. I haven't had sex for weeks so no I am not pregnant any advice xx

Great news for your op @Annny27, I'm really pleased it went well! Must be a big weight off your mind.

Congratulations @Nuggetlover27!

Glad everything has gone well with your surgery @Annny27 💛 all sounds like a positive step in the right direction!

@nuggetlover27
Awww congratulations on your rainbow baby boy, I was 8 13 when I was born enjoy every min of it 💚

@Annny27
Glad surgery went well and hopefully now your rainbow will follow 💚

@Annny27 glad all went well with your op and that it’s all done. Hope you are feeling ok from it.

Good news on tubes all clear and hopefully removing the endo will get you that sticky BFP! Take things easy while you recover. xx

@Nuggetlover27 congratulations on the arrival of your little boy.

@Annny27 hope all goes well with your operation this week. xx

Ahh congratulations @Nuggetlover27 that's lovely news! Enjoy every minute with your little one - it goes far too quick 🥰

Hi ladies. It's been a long time , I don't recognise a lot of the names here at the moment but there are a few I do and I'm still routing for you and sending baby dust your way.
Just wanted to let the ladies know who know me that our beautiful rainbow boy arrived this week. He came on baby loss &miscarriage awareness day and I think there is something poetic about that.
We are so in love with him and count our blessings each day that he is finally here!
He was a big boy at 8lb13oz but healthy and we are both now home and finding our new normal

Love to all 💖💙

How did you get on @PeanuttyButter? I know what you mean my DH has literally said this even that he's fed up with sex now because of the last year and it's horrid when you know you have to do it but you don't want to or aren't in the mood. :(

Well I got a positive OPK today. DH doesn't want to try this month as he doesn't think my body is ready, to be honest it's probably not I've only not been bleeding for 3 days. He gets stage fright too in fertile week, no issue any other time but he ends up putting pressure on himself and can't bring the horse over the finish line so to speak. We'd just gotten into the swing of things pre this last pregnancy and now I'm worried that it's gonna start again. Thing is I have a bigger sex drive than DH anyway so if I don't tell him it's the week he can happily only do it the once. Shouldn't be this difficult should it!!!

@Babyghirl I think you're right it must be ovulation as I noticed my mucus to be more sticky and stretchy today I am suppose to be on today but I think it's been delayed by the op yeah I might actually call them xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Maybe you r ovulating and that's what the pain is, try phoning epu on Monday and ask them how long do you have to wait, you will be fine you got this x

@Babyghirl hello lovely I tried but been discharged from them so they won't no longer speak to me as I am no longer on their books I am a little worried as I am cramping loads and the pain I use to feel on my right side has shifted to my left side xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I have heard loads of success stories after it, I would contact your consultant but when u can try 💚

@apwilso
Typical when you need them to preform they could not be bothered 😂😂😂

@Babyghirl yeah he's said he gets stressed but then I get stressed because I feel as if we're not fitting it in🤣 honestly all this over DTD you wouldn't believe it. It's never a problem any other time😅😅 exactly!!

How you ladies all doing I am pretty much at the end of recovery now finally!!! Stitches are still healing but I feel 100% better now no more pain guessing I just needed a good jet wash out... next cycle I am going to start my ttc journey again not sure if this year is omen though but would be lovely to get a confirmed pregnancy after 2 ectopics this year what do you all think my consultant never actually told me when you start again... is it true you can be more fertile after a lap & dye I just don't wanna waste any opportunity xx

@apwilso
Maybe it's fear with him do you think, I don't tell oh when I'm ovulating because it would stress him out to much maybe if you don't tell him it won't feel like to much pressure. But I get where your coming from its annoying my oh would never turn down a session gs could do it 3 times a day if I let him 😂😂😂😂😂

@Babyghirl I'm okay thank you.

I'm finally off for a week and I want to start DTD as I've had some sticky CM and other half keeps not going through with it. Starting to annoy me because this morning I woke up and I'm like right let's go now!!! It's now becoming a routine which I don't want to happen. I told him in the year off trying on and off this is the first cycle we're at home together all week and now he cba. I'm irritated

@apwilso
😘😘😘 How r you doing 💚