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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 05/09/2021 13:10

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

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Annny27 · 02/11/2021 09:48

@h0peing glad you are getting the extra scans and reassurance, must be difficult after losses xx

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Annny27 · 02/11/2021 09:47

@sweetbabydust1989 hopefully this cycle has been successful then that will be good :D I am also bored of my stitches now haha. No sign of them going anytime soon haha

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Annny27 · 02/11/2021 09:44

Morning ladies :) heavy period has finished now so onto the first cycle ttc after laparoscopy! Havent dtd yet waiting a few more days :)

@sunnysideup2020 ooh that's so exciting!! Is it for work you are moving? How awesome that little one is not even 1 and already lives in two different countries :D

Thata promissing about the heavy cycle after your procedure too - yep it was so heavy for me haha. Hoping it's all cleared now haha

So have you been testing on opks or you arent sure where you are in cycle?

@babyghirl I bet you will miss them when they are all gone to their new homtes 💗💗 awwh lovely! When do they think ivf might start?

@27donfin great news that things look clear :) mine were both clear this month top which is good news! And not too much wsit for you to start iui then :)

@kiwi17 omg omg how exciting congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 can you show us the test? I love seeing positives haha

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 01/11/2021 16:52

So positive opk on Saturday evening thankfully the holder showed a static as it was one pee stick away from being flushed down the loo.. I am currently on cd 14 and by god the cramps are unreal I want to cry it's like a dull ache in my belly and back I has strap stabbing pains in my right side yesterday a long wait ahead 😩 xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 01/11/2021 16:35

@27DONFIN good news on clear tubes hun.. I hope they speed things up for you!! I am in agony today has enough has a positive opk late Saturday night and have been cramping ever since xx

27DONFIN · 01/11/2021 15:14

Just home from my HSG all positive was bearable sore and only for seconds wasn't as bad as a coil. Tubes all clear. Consultant gave us full results of other tests ultrasound clear and blood test to check my egg numbers were really high especially for my age he said. So we are labeld as unexplained infertility. He's put us on the wait list to start IUI says the waiting list for our hospital isn't long will be start of the year

H0peing · 01/11/2021 12:28

@Spotsmama Oh, I've just seen your more recent post. It's a shame they took so long to call you but I'm glad you got your antibiotics. Xx

H0peing · 01/11/2021 12:25

@spotsmama It's terrible that 111 didn't call you back!!! What time is your scan today? I hope it goes really well. Xx

Spotsmama · 31/10/2021 10:44

Fingers crossed @Sweetbabydust1989

Thank you, the out of hours Dr rang an hour ago and has done me a prescription I can go and pick up now. So glad. Its different from the one my GP prescribed but quick Google and its safe and will hopefully do the same job. If scan goes well tomorrow I think I'll feel a bit more better about it all.
Yeah, there is something missing within the NHS to support anxious women in pregnancy. It's not been serious enough for A&E and my midwife is only available one day a week so I never know where to go to for support or reassurance if I have a question or worry.
How is your SIL now? Xox

Sweetbabydust1989 · 31/10/2021 10:06

@Spotsmama sorry you're going through this only thing I could suggest would be going to a&e and getting the on call doctor to do a prescription especially as you're pregnant they shouldn't be leaving this my sil was admitted a few weeks back as she had kidney stones was a nightmare as they left her in agony for a few days and she is deemed high risk due to all her miscarriages she has had I wish we had a place to go when pregnant that's open longer hours so we can divert the a&e hope you get it sorted lovely xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 31/10/2021 10:01

@kiwi17 congratulations lovely so please to hear this hope you're well....

I finally got a peak on my ovulation test so glad I test twice a day or I wouldn't of picked it up until this morning I am hoping we have done enough now other half is shattered and I am back to work tomorrow so makes DTD harder as we are like passing ships he works days I work evenings.. We have DTD on cycle days 5,6,8,10&13 surly that's plenty of time I got my peak on CD12 but we technically didn't DTD until early hours as was watching movies together 😂 I no I won't ovulate until a few days after my peak so hoping his swimmers stay alive hope you ladies are all well and bumps are growing lovely xx

Spotsmama · 31/10/2021 07:46

Morning, thank you. I did ring 111 in the end. They said a pharmacist would call me back to sort it but no one ever called. :(
Been up all night worrying and now I have some cramping that makes me worry. Feels like I normally do before I start my period. Trying to stay positive and think it's just growing but I don't have a good feeling and feel like I'm just waiting for a bleed now....

H0peing · 30/10/2021 20:07

@Spotsmama I agree with Babyghirl about trying another way to get your antibiotics like an out of hours doctor. You could call 111 for advice. It's really good that your midwife told you about it being common for symptoms to change around this time. I've never had a uti in pregnancy but I did have a loss of pregnancy symptoms at around 11 weeks and then baby was fine at my 12 week scan yesterday. I also know other people who lost pregnancy symptoms at around 11 weeks and they now have healthy babies. Xx

Babyghirl · 30/10/2021 17:07

@spotsmama
But I have heard your symptoms do start to drop around that mark as the placenta takes over x

Babyghirl · 30/10/2021 16:56

@spotsmama
Maybe fone the out off hour doc they norm keep antibiotics, they might give you some as it will be up on your records about the uti.

Spotsmama · 30/10/2021 15:35

Hi everyone, I've not been on for a while. Its good to come on and catch up and see some good news from some of you, sorry not everyone has the news they want yet. I'm struggling a little this weekend and need some advice, reassurance maybe?
I'm 11 weeks now, we had a scan at 7 weeks and 10 weeks which were both really positive. I've been so anxious I've not slept, struggle to eat and lost alot of weight which was a worry. The 10 week scan helped and I started putting weight on and relaxing a little.
However I got told I have a uti on Thursday and still haven't got my antibiotics, online delivery has gone wrong. I'm so worried its going to effect my baby or cause another mc. Today I feel different, my boobs don't feel as full and my bump/bloat of a belly doesn't seem to be the same today. I've had a headache since yesterday but think it's just stress. I'm dreading going to another 12 week scan (on Monday) to be told our baby has no heart beat. Has anyone had experience of uti and been OK? My midwife did say not to panic in week 11 if things change as hormones drop a bit this week. I want this so bad, I can't bare bad news. Any words will be helpful xox

Babyghirl · 30/10/2021 12:02

@kiwi17
Omg congratulations girl, hopefully we will all be joining you soon 💚

H0peing · 30/10/2021 11:12

@kiwi17 congratulations!!! That's great news🙂xxxxxx

Babyghirl · 30/10/2021 10:54

@slcxxx
Omg congratulations half way through that amazing news. Pups hard work lol but 4 weeks now for them.

@Annny27
Glad your healing well, and really hope you get ur bfp soon you so deserve it 💚 my wee friends birthday tonight the one who has cancer so heading down l8r for a few and some food so can't wait to c her. I have tryed to upload a video of them but won't let me so will try to pm it to you.

@27DONFIN
I'm out all the time changing bedding bout 4 times a day lol feeding them small amounts 3 times a day cause they still eatting aff mum abit lol., 💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 30/10/2021 06:57

@Annny27 so pleased to read your op went well and you are recovering well!
After I had my polyps removed in the uterus and the exploration done I remember having a super heavy period... so heavy I texted the doc! She just advised to monitor and take iron and vit C supplements. But it settled and that same cycle we conceived. So i always thought it got a good flush! Hope it will be the same for you.

Congrats @H0peing ! Lovely scan pic!

@ELM7 how are you getting on?

We are finally moving to Switzerland with DH and baby next month. Initially we decided to not continue ttc but since I am on CD48 and no sign of anything and ran out of opk and preg tests and not really time to DTD much at all we are not preventing but not trying.
I am still BF 6 times during day/night at least and think this is messing up my cycles.
But I know it is normal!

kiwi17 · 29/10/2021 20:02

Thank you @Equimum I really hope things improve for you - I'm sorry you're having to go through this again :(

Equimum · 29/10/2021 19:46

Congratulations Kiwi17 - that's such exciting news. I have everything crossed for you x

kiwi17 · 29/10/2021 19:44

Thanks for checking in @SLCxxx ! Sorry I've been a bit Mia recently- decided this cycle as it was a year since we've started ttc 2 that I would give up on the extra vitamins, legs in the air and mooncup etc and just temp and opk instead and guess what... just had a bfp at 12dpo with evening wee as well!! Super excited but obviously not trying to get ahead of ourselves and will need to take each day as it comes after last time. Kind of knew I was though as we've been on holiday and just got back and I'd been feeling tired flushed and grouchy 😂Hope everyone else is doing well!

Sweetbabydust1989 · 29/10/2021 14:37

Day 5 of flashing smiley face these are he young old very fast I am contemplating flushing it down the bog now I think the clear blue app told me to test way to early.. stupid question how long does sperm keep alive xx

H0peing · 29/10/2021 11:47

Just waited 1.5 hours for an extra doctors appointment today (due to my history of recurrent miscarriage as well as bring 40). She gave me an extra scan today, which I wasn't expecting. Very quick with no photo but we saw baby moving and heard a good, steady heartbeat so that was definitely reassuring! I asked her if it was possible to get any other extra scans and she's agreed to see me again at 16 weeks. She wants me to reduce my progesterone pessaries from two per day to one per day because she could see my placenta today and the placenta produces it's own progesterone. She also said that I could either stop taking it completely at 20 weeks or 28 weeks. X

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