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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 05/09/2021 13:10

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 19:31

@Babyghirl I think I am out looks like a light flow starting I am ok about it was only a month ago since I had my lap and dye so my cycle might still be out of whack xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 17:18

@sweetbabydust1989
Oh fingers crossed its good news to come 🙏🤞🍀💚 xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 15:34

@Babyghirl sorry dozed off I feel shattered grr had so much to do today well cramps have died down had a towel on since I posted went to pee and when I wiped nothing completely clear not sure what's going on but will keep an eye out for a few more days xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 12:49

@sweetbabydust1989
Yea could of done prop just a good clear out or could be ip bleed fingers crossed xx

@Kelb79
Welcome to r we family so sorry you find yourself with us thou, miscarriage is so hard but don't give up your wee rainbow is just around the corner, I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp ttc num 1 had all sorts of tests had an mri scan for a heart shape uterus to c if it is one or how bad it is, only thing my bloods showed up was low vitamin d so doc put me on high dose and will have progesterone from my next bfp.

Kelb79 · 13/11/2021 12:13

Hey everyone 🤗
Can I jump aboard your band wagon?
I’m 42, TTC since July 2019, started fertility investigations in Dec 2020 but all held up by Covid 😩 Started again in April this year and miraculously got a BFP in August 3 days before a laparoscopy (actually conceived on my birthday!!) it felt so perfect!!
Viability scan showed heartbeat at 7 weeks but scan after a little bleed at 8 1/2 weeks confirmed MC 😞
Had D&C on 29th September and finally on CD10 after first AF

Have massively struggled mentally and emotionally. Feel like that was my last chance. All of our tests came back clear so there was no diagnosis for the infertility. So where do we go from here?? 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

I’ve got an appointment on Tuesday for a baseline scan - trying to psych myself up for it all again is so tough!!

I had a few weeks ago that showed large blood cells so they tested my folate and b12 levels - I really though that was the answer! Either of those deficiencies can cause infertility and MC…I take supplements but thought maybe I had an absorption issue. But I’ve just had my results back as satisfactory 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s totally messed my head up!! 😩😩😩😩

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 11:52

@Babyghirl mine is no my own at all see more of the gynaecologist now that it never has 🤣 right I need some advice ladies I am 13 DPO had a bfn yesterday and just started spotting 4 days before my period I also have cramps i have put a pad on just incase.. could my lap and dye have knocked my cycles out of sync xx

apwilso · 12/11/2021 18:39

@Babyghirl I'm hoping so too! I hope it isn't a faulty test!!

Babyghirl · 12/11/2021 17:50

@sweetbabydust1989
I feel like my fanny not my own anymore 😂😂😂😂😂 everybody and there uncle been down there lol. Xx

@apwilso
Omg how exciting hope it gets darker for you 🙏🤞🍀💚

apwilso · 12/11/2021 16:46

I'm on a confusing spell. So I was 8 days late then started bleeding. Bleeding last 1.5 days and al been negative until last night got a vvvvfl on a cheapie. So seeing if I ovulated late and I'm actually pregnant. I will update after the weekend as it should be clear then x

Sweetbabydust1989 · 12/11/2021 16:37

@Babyghirl oh brilliant least she is buggering off now we need AF repellent 🤣🤣 I am all good 12 DPO I think I tested this morning BFN so not testing no more don't want the heartache and those pee Sticks cost more than a cheap take out 🤣🤣I have been having the worst cramps and boob pain going been feeling a bit queasy the last couple of days oh and have a massive bloated stomach don't think it's linked and to top it all off my smear test letter arrived through the door.. I tell ya the amount of doctors that have rooted around my lady garden this year I should start charging 🤣🤣 xx

Babyghirl · 12/11/2021 16:27

@sweetbabydust1989
All good on cd4 now period just leaving on her broom stick lol, just got abit of brown now got my fertility reading back how sad am I to even get it lol, how you doing xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 12/11/2021 16:16

@Babyghirl I thought that too how are you doing?? Xx

Babyghirl · 12/11/2021 15:56

Where everybody at the thread seems very quite these days. 💚

kiwi17 · 09/11/2021 14:29

Oh yes of course - hmmm maybe it's just a really slow way of starting af? Or related to the hsg? Sorry that's not much help! Hopefully the nurse will give you better answers

27DONFIN · 09/11/2021 14:24

I don't think so before my hsg I had to give a sample for them to check I definitely wasn't pregnant. I had my test Monday last week and was ovulating 2-3 days before we didn't dtd at all that week as we'd been told not to. Iv called the hospital waiting on a nurse calling me back. Just it's been a few days now snd I'd say it's getting heavier

kiwi17 · 09/11/2021 14:19

Oh sorry implantation bleeding! Just because of the colour?

27DONFIN · 09/11/2021 14:10

@kiwi17 sorry I know this will be daft but what's IB?

kiwi17 · 09/11/2021 13:33

Could it be ib @27DONFIN?

27DONFIN · 09/11/2021 12:32

Hi ladies hope all ok?

After my post on Friday night with the dark brown discharge thinking my period was coming it hasn't and I am still having the dark brown discharge daily. Should I be concerned?

Sweetbabydust1989 · 08/11/2021 10:22

Hello everyone how are you all doing so I am roughly 8 or 9 DPO with horrible groin pain hope it passes xx

Babyghirl · 08/11/2021 09:42

@Equimum
Hopefully everything settles down for you. 💚

@PeanuttyButter
Awww Big hugs but a break might be just what yous both need to enjoy the holiday, I don't tell oh when I'm in my fertile window as not to put pressure on him lol 💚

@HOpeing
Love hearing them stories I hope it helps me for my next bfp, definitely going to say to my rmc consultant again about getting progesterone for after ovulation thou. Congratulations 💚

Well the witch is slowly coming on her broom stick so hopefully next month lol. Sad me send away for a fertility reading on etsy 4.30 it cost good reviews on it lol just abit of hope I'm looking, should receive it today at some point.

H0peing · 07/11/2021 21:50

Just wanted to add that another friend of mine now has a beautiful, healthy baby girl following recurrent miscarriages and didn't need any medication at all to get herSmile She was on a long waiting list on the NHS to get medical support when she became pregnant with her. xx

H0peing · 07/11/2021 21:31

Hello everyone,

I had my 13 week scan yesterday morning and the sonographer said everything looked good so that was a huge relief! Still 6 months to go but really hoping this is my Rainbow Baby! I feel more relaxed now that I've got to this point as all 4 miscarriages were before this stage and the risk of miscarriage reduces a lot after the 13 week scan. The only difference I can think of this time is that I took progesterone pessaries after ovulation instead of after bfp with low dose aspirin so that seems to be what I needed. I have a friend who was given progesterone and low dose aspirin at bfp after 3 miscarriages and she's currently heavily pregnant and all is going well with her plus another friend who's also heavily pregnant after progesterone and aspirin with ivf having previously suffered one miscarriage following years of TTC so it definitely seems to be what some women need after miscarriage. I'm sure there's other medication that works as well. I just wanted to share some positive stories about friends of mine. I look forward to hearing all of us on this group being able to share positive stories in the future and am extremely thankful that we can support each-other / receive support from each-other along the way. Xx

H0peing · 07/11/2021 21:22

@PeanuttyButter thank you so much for being so understanding about my mistake! Thank you so much for your prayers! I honestly believe that your prayers and the support from all of the amazing women on this group helped to give me the strength to try again after my fourth miscarriage with the twins as that one hit me the hardest. I am praying for you too and yes, it will happen! Loads of love xxxx

PeanuttyButter · 07/11/2021 21:04

@H0peing I'm not gonna lie I did think Hmm at first but then just assumed it was an accident Grin. If I made it as far as you are after the year you've had I would be shouting it from the rooftops! Your right that we are all here to lean on and support each other and sometimes we take more than we can give, but it all evens out. I have been praying for you and your baby since you told us about your bfp.
I will be ok, when it's meant to be it will happen.