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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 05/09/2021 13:10

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

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ELM7 · 15/11/2021 20:10

Hi Ladoes hope you are all doing ok.

@Annny27 are you all recovered from your op and able to DTD around ovulation?

@apwilso sorry you’ve got covid hope you aren’t feeling too poorly.

@Babyghirl I have an appointment with RMC on Wednesday too. This will be our first appointment so will see what they have to say but have already had an MRI scan so at least they will have that information to review.

Im assuming we will also get details about the testing done from our last miscarriage. Know it’s going to be an emotional appointment just really hope we get some answers.

Haven’t really been TTC since the last MC although haven’t prevented either. Haven’t done any OPKs but think it’s just ingrained in me that I always know roughly where I am in the cycle - Currently CD11

kiwi17 · 15/11/2021 19:46

@apwilso Hahaha I know the feeling 🤣 thanks @Babyghirl time is passing so slowly though. I've been stalking a pregnancy group on here but still don't want to commit in case something goes wrong 🤦‍♀️ so will still hang out for a while as I like to see your news :) hope it's a good app on weds!

Babyghirl · 15/11/2021 19:13

@Annny27
Picking myself back up again thankgod how have you been💚

@apwilso no coughing on me nw fs that's all I need is to catch covid 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kiwi17
Can't believe your 7 weeks glad your feeling grotty sounds weird writing that thou but you know what I mean I hope 😂😂😂😂😂.

Well got a call today got an app with my rmc consultant on Wed must be for the mri results.

apwilso · 15/11/2021 19:06

@kiwi17 wish it was in ovulation week🤣 hope your husband is okay x

kiwi17 · 15/11/2021 19:00

Oh no @apwilso 😑 that's the worst. My husband has had it this last week and I've done so many tests but no positive yet which I'm thankful for but quite surprised by! @Annny27 yeah not much to report really 7 weeks on weds and so far feel pretty grotty which I didn't ever get with the mc at this stage so I'm hopeful! Glad you've now ovulated hopefully you'll get a normal cycle again now 😁

apwilso · 15/11/2021 17:00

So I got two lines today... not for pregnancy but for bloody Covid! Had a really weird period last week so thinking this is what messed it up

Sweetbabydust1989 · 15/11/2021 12:41

@Annny27 hello lovely how are you doing?? Yeah it was af I am honestly fine about it my body wasn't ready this month I having a month off then will be back in December for round 2 dp is having surgery this week so he needs to recover xx

Annny27 · 15/11/2021 12:39

@peanuttybutter we have a month off when I had the operation and it was nice not to constantly be thinking of pregnancy symptoms tbh!

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Annny27 · 15/11/2021 12:38

I need to read through the pages that i have missed!

I have just ovulayed (FINALLY) - it was like cd23 so the operation must have delayed my ovulation I guess

@babyghirl sorry that you are feeling low and a bit out of hope 💗 its such a difficult time for us and with heartache month after month:( xx

@kiwi17 how are you doing now?

@27donfin must have just been because of the hsg - i had spotting after mine for about a week :)

@sweetbabydust1989 sorry it looks like AF is arriving :(

@sunnysideup2020 have you moved yet or still in process? And yep breastfeeding will do all sorts to your cycle so best just to try take it easy or do opks everyday!

@elm7 how are you lovely?

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Babyghirl · 15/11/2021 08:15

@Kelb79
Sorry only getting a notification now, so sorry your going through the same struggle, it's an awful thing to go to go through your moods be up and down for a while so don't be pushing yourself to feel yourself to quick, you never forget but just learn to cope with it.

Look after yourself be kind to yourself and sending you all the baby dust in the world. 💚

Kelb79 · 14/11/2021 11:25

@Babyghirl Sending you so much love ❤️ stay strong xxx it’s so hard to stay hopeful isn’t it!
My pregnancy felt like such a miracle - we saw the folicule prepping to release the egg on a baseline scan and got told to BD on my birthday and the day after. We had booked a weekend away then so it felt perfect! And we actually conceived on my birthday! After over 2 years TTC it felt like it was meant to be!
Losing that baby just felt like the biggest F. You from the universe!
I’ve been struggling so much to find hope again.
Praying I’ll be one of those that get pregnant quickly after MC but DH is worried about trying too soon, he’s scared it’ll happen again if we don’t find out what caused it and he’s worried I’m not ready because it’s totally changed me, he thinks I’ll change back and then be ready - I can’t get him to understand that this has made a new version of me 🤷🏼‍♀️
MC is horrific! Especially coupled with difficulties TTC 😞
I’m sending out little prayers for each and every one of you cxxxx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 22:15

@PeanuttyButter
Awwww Thank you just over my date of my first loss and it knocked me for 6 tbh, 3 years ago and here I am still waiting hopefully this is your month 🤞🍀💚💐

PeanuttyButter · 13/11/2021 22:01

I'm here. Having a month off TTC it would seem (not my choice but it's a partnership afterall) so not much to report. I'm CD16 today so fertile period over. AF usually comes on day 24 but cycles been out of whack since miscarriages. Roll on next month!!!

@Babyghirl sorry you are feeling down at the moment. I really do believe you will be a mum. I feel like you look after everyone in the group here, your always here to offer support. You deserve this so much. Xxx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 21:37

@Babyghirl it sure did I replied ☺️ xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 21:33

@sweetbabydust1989
I think it's went now lol xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 21:27

@Babyghirl I didn't get anything you can send again ☺️ xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 21:23

@sweetbabydust1989
I think I sent you a pm don't know if it has sent thou lol let me know xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 21:18

@sweetbabydust1989
All the tests had an mri done to see if I have a heart shape uterus just waiting on results now, but at 38 I think it's never going to happen for me awww sorry your feeling so down to its awful like I know ppm out there and they r having baby after baby and don't care about the 4 they already have and r pregnant again xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 21:11

@Babyghirl I am sick of it too after 2 ectopics and surgery I think this year my body is screaming no!! I am actually quite depressed too I thought after my surgery I would be one of those girls that catches first time but I think I put too much pressure on my body with pee sticks that it fucked my cycle up like I am 3 days early.. We spend years trying to avoid pregnancy and when we want it so badly our bodies shut down.. have you had any tests done?? Xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 21:04

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm starting to get fed up with ttc and thinking it never going to happen, I don't think I could go on with life if I can never be a mum so my life is kinda down at the moment xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 21:02

@sweetbabydust1989
Just think of it as your body getting ready and preparing for the nxt baby to grow and nourish and it will happen when the time is perfect. Xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 20:56

@Babyghirl oh me too he has been waiting far too long for it its been cancelled 3 times. Yes I am going to relax I stressed so much even though I got the all clear from my op just a little disheartened but it wasn't meant to be xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 20:54

@sweetbabydust1989
You can relax and enjoy Christmas and hopefully will get you ready to catch that egg in Jan xxx hope your dp op goes well to xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 13/11/2021 20:30

@Babyghirl Thanks lovely I am actually a little relieved been very stressed this month I think that might be why it didn't happen.. I won't be able to try now until end of December my partner is having an op xx

Babyghirl · 13/11/2021 19:58

@sweetbabydust1989
Well hopefully next month is your lucky month, now you know your body is getting back to norm and getting ready for that rainbow baby xx