🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

Guys I’m really struggling 😞
I’m on my 2nd AF since MC… it’s battering me! Heavier than ever, 2 days longer than normal so far (still going!!) and I’m completely breaking!
I feel like I’m going backwards rather than forwards, I’m utterly heartbroken and can’t seem to let go of it.
I don’t know what to do 😞

@PeanuttyButter
I'm due the 6 of December so not long to go lol but feel like it's going to make an early appearance, I'm about 11 or 12 dpo now 💚

When is AF due for everyone this month?
Mines due 15th December..give or take not been regular since it all

@Kelb79
Hopefully you just had your last period for 9 months 🤞🙏🍀💚

@Lou199 welcome lovely ❤️ So sorry you’re here but definitely the right place for support ❤️

Happy December everyone!

Here’s praying for some Christmas miracles!! 🙏🏼
My next AF is actually due on Christmas Day 🙄 I’m regular as clockwork so that’s gonna be fun 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Welcome @Lou199 but at the same time sorry that you find yourself here. We use this group to voice what's going on in our lives at the moment. Sometimes just to vent. TTC is hard especially after loss.

@Lou199
Welcome to are we group, so sorry you find yourself here thou. So sorry about your loss it can be a lonely time this group makes you feel less lonely as the girls know what your going through.

I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp please don't put pressure on yourself cause your not pregnant again, I listened to that your more fertile after a loss but was never the case for me and the girls on this group, my last loss was the end of last Jan and here I am still trying you will get there 💚

Would love to join please, looking for support having a mmc in June and still ttc

@Annny27 I donated eggs a long time ago. At the London Women's Clinic.
I Don't know about IVF quality but my experience was really good. People were nice and professional all the way.

www.londonwomensclinic.com/clinics/harley-street/

They have a free open day for fertility treatment (couple) this Saturday morning!
Obviously I don't know where you are located but that's the only place I can recommend!

@Kelb79
It's the say you get use to it, you hope for the best but prepare for the worst everytime you get that bfp. Hoping your next bfp is a big sticky bean and your rainbow baby 💚

Ohmygod…. You guys!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I have SO much respect for what you’ve all been through.
2 years TTC and one MC has damn near broken me completely. I can’t imagine the pain of multiple MCs (and pray to god I never know)
I am totally in awe of your strength and resilience ❤️❤️❤️
You are all AMAZING!!!!

@Annny27 hopefully neither of us get that far…. But if we do I’ll be just ahead of you on the IVF train… I’ve got no idea what I’m doing either yet really but my fertility nurse told me about www.hfea.gov.uk for starting to get a feel for things.
I’m in Cornwall so my options are limited with choosing a clinic unless I travel…… where are you?

@Annny27
Ah shit. So it was the witch.
Hope your appeal works. 2 years is ridiculous

@Annny27 I’m so frustrated for you that they won’t consider you for IVF for such a long time it’s awful.
Really hope your appeal is successful. x

Love it @Babyghirl. Do decs you here yet. Will be drip feeding them into the house over the next few weeks but tree won’t be going up until 19th Dec as we get a real one and that’s prob the first opportunity we will get to go and pick one.

@Annny27 sorry AF arrived. Sure she is about to make an appearance for me too - but not being doing OPKs so no idea on dpo

@Babyghirl sorry you’ve been feeling ill.

@Kelb79 took 8mths from starting TTC to first BFP - MC confirmed at 10 weeks. 12 mths TTC until next BFP - MC at 9 weeks but knew that was going to be the outcome from 7weeks. 7mths TTC until next BFP MC at 8weeks. 3mths since last MC and back to waiting for that BFP - sorry but really don’t buy the you are more fertile after a MC theory.

@PeanuttyButter with you - it’s the uncertainty of ever being able to hold my baby in arms that I hate and that it’s out of my control.

Well girls it's done for another year lol have yous got yours up yet xx

I sometimes wish you could order a baby/pregnancy. I would wait if I knew it would be successful and I'd make it to the end. Even if they said to me "Your pregnancy will commence on X day year X" I wouldn't mind waiting if the certainty was there. It's the unknown I can't deal with

@Annny27 sorry AF got you, but glad the spotting is now all gone, that's one of the worst parts of TTC when you know AF is basically here but she won't fully come in so you can move on.

@Kelb79 We started TCC properly in Dec 20, got caught in my mid March cycle (24 day cycle so more than 3 cycles). Lost that at 9.5 weeks, had surgery 4th June. 2 AF later then got caught again at my end of July cycle and lost that at 9 weeks, surgery 1st October.

@Annny27
I have heard people saying on these threads about a deal pay for 3 goes and if not successful you get money back don't quite me on it thou but have a look at the ivf threads, sorry the bitch rocked in on her broom stick bitch she is 💚

@Kelb79
The cp happened in the march was meant to add.

@Kelb79
5 months but was a cp then fell again that September lost it at ten and a half weeks, then fell the following September lost at 6+5 weeks, then fell the following September lost at ten weeks, then fell in the Jan and lost at 6 weeks and nothing from it,💚

@Annny27
4 off them gone and another 2 going soon then another one lol, hopefully the bitch does not rock up on u and you get ur bfp 🤞🙏🍀💚

🤞

Well it won't be as magical as I envisioned.
We will be in a temporary accommodation in Switzerland. DH doesn't have holiday since he just starts work next week... so it wiĺl just be a weekend!
And all my xmas decorations are in storage :(

We will still do presents and get a small tiny tree I hope!