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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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ShellUK09 · 30/08/2021 11:19

@x1092 well curiosity got the better of me and ended up doing an early detection test (Superdrug own brand) and got a BFN. No hint of a line whatsoever. I can get on with my day now anyway but feel quite disappointed after feeling a glimmer of hope earlier. Never mind will wait for my period next and go from there x

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90mamabear · 30/08/2021 08:59

Hey girl !! That sounds promising ! It could be like late implantation or sometimes spotting can happen in early pregnancy ! Are you testing tomorrow ! I got a neg this am wirh a first response early it would have detected by now for sure so I'm definitely out this month ! Excited to hear for you tho!! If with you being unsure of dates get neg and ur period doesn't show abs with you being off the pill I would test again a week later just to be sure :) x

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ShellUK09 · 30/08/2021 08:11

@x1092 thanks so much for the advice Smile there’s so many things to look out for, many things I’ve never even heard of before looking on this site! Yesterday before I went to bed there was some slight pink staining on the toilet paper when wiping, not sure if this is the start of AF or if it is implantation. I haven’t had the usual headache/migraine I usually get just before AF… But if I’m not pregnant it will be very helpful to work out the luteal phase for next time. How are you doing today? x

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90mamabear · 29/08/2021 09:14

Hi @ShellUK09 another cycle buddy ! It definitely helps :) that's probably a good idea !! Your test plan ! If toy record your next few cycles (if you aren't preg this month) you can work out your lute al phase which is the time from u ovulate to you bleed. Then you will know exactly when you can expect your period after you do if using opk. Look out for your cervix so mucus changes too. It can take some peoples bodies time to adjust after the mini pill so hang in there bud some people straight away!! Keep in touch !! X

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ShellUK09 · 29/08/2021 08:27

Hello, I am 9DO today, well I think I am. Second month of trying and used ovulation kit this time so feel sure we DTD at the right time. According to the app my period is due on 31st but this could be wrong as feel like my body is still adjusting after stopping the mini pill a few month ago. This is all new to me. I’ve decided not to do a test until 31st, just to try to prevent overthinking, but also not had a huge amount of symptoms only a bit of back cramps so not really expecting it to be positive. @x1092 sorry to hear that, maybe it is still too early for you to test and maybe try again in a few days x

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90mamabear · 29/08/2021 07:05

Stark white BFN 10dpo 🥲 I'm gutted . Not even a hint of a line . And I've started to get period pain so no doubt a few days it will be here :( . Let me know how u get on!! :) I'll test again on day 14 if it isn't here by then but I know in my heart I'm out x

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 19:56

First month of trying but ntnp for months . And nothing it's number 2 for us and our first was the first time . Pcos is mild but making it a bit more complicated this time but I ovulate and know that we have dtd each time all month so it makes no sense to me. Let me know how you get on . I will test tomorrow morning and 12dpo then the day I'm due on. I'm so stressed out everyone around me is pregnant I can't understand how it hasn't just happened yet which is why we have decided to properly try. I hope this is your month 🙏🏻 I'm sure it's so frustrating when the others happens so easy sending hugs x

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Fairy45 · 28/08/2021 19:36

I will probably test at 11 dpo and then if bfn just wait for period. I've done the whole testing twice a day from day 10 and it drives me mad. How long you been trying? This is for baby 4 for me and all 3 of my others we got it straight away, dtd around ovulation. But this time feel like something must be wrong as we've met ovulation each time. I know it's chance though so trying to stay positive.

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 18:23

Awh hi!! @Fairy45 Smile I have pcos (so annoying ) but I had a pos opk on 18/08 so making me 9dpo I assume or thereabouts 8 at the least !! I stupidly took a frer today as it was driving me mad and of course white as white bfn! I feel so deflated even tho I know it's still early . It's torture isn't it . I don't have symptoms really either but im extremely extremely crampy and sore and it's too early for my period which is due either 02/09 or 03/09 ! When are you testing ? So glad for a buddy ! X

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Fairy45 · 28/08/2021 18:06

I'm 8 dpo. No symptoms or anything. Feeling very pessimistic on attempt number 5.

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