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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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Mama500 · 23/09/2021 20:10

@ShellUK09 sorry you’re going through this it’s really so hard such a rollercoaster. I bled with both my pregnancy’s. One ended in mmc the other my DS. Stay positive xx

ShellUK09 · 23/09/2021 20:09

@90mamabear thank you 💕 I am currently 7 weeks and 1 day going off the last proper period, so surely I can get a scan now?! My GP surgery is quite awkward and won’t do blood tests on site, you have to go up to the hospital for that, if I was going to the hospital I’d rather go straight for the scan. Anyway will see what he says and will keep you posted. If I’m prepared for the worst I’ll be able to cope, but will try to think positive and not get too stressed x

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 19:38

@ShellUK09 . I would advise you have bloods done with the go to check ur hcg levels to make sure they are appropriate to ur stage of pregnancy. If you have any abdo pain or anything go to ED. as soon as by ur dates you are six weeks make contact with the early pregnancy unit and you will get an early scan . I know it's hard but try not to worry 💕 I hope u get sorted soon x

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ShellUK09 · 23/09/2021 19:30

@90mamabear hello! It’s been quite stressful so far. At 5 weeks I had a bleed, it felt like a period but mainly for one day, it calmed down by day 2. Due to this I thought I had lost the pregnancy. I did a test a few days later and it was negative so I had to get my head around that and we did come to terms with it and thought about trying again straight away. I then started doing clear blue digital ovulation tests and the static smiley kept coming up each day which I thought was very odd! Did another pregnancy test and it was definitely positive. Then I had brown discharge for a while but that has gone now. I’ve done quite a few tests since then and they have all been positive. I think the negative test I did was negative as it wasn’t an ‘early’ test. Done some non early tests since and they are positive now as well. The whole thing has been very confusing. I went to the GP last week and he was confused as well! He wanted to get me in for an early scan but the hospital said I had to wait 2 weeks. The GP wanted me to go back in a week so I’m there again tomorrow and if the test is still positive I think he is going to push for the scan. I feel like until I know for certain what is going on I can’t get excited about this yet. Sorry that was a long response to your question! I hope you are doing well x

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 18:27

(X1092) :)

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 18:27

Girls I've changed my username but it's me

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Mama500 · 23/09/2021 16:05

Hey sorry I haven’t managed to keep up. I’ve had one mc and my ds was conceived a few months after. Ttc number 2 but don’t fall easy! What about you?

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 15:58

@ShellUK09 I hope all is well with you and your pregnancy xo

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 15:57

@Hope18 @Mama500 is this your first pregnancy you are trying for ?

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 15:02

You have given me hope ! I keep telling dh that we need to before the surge but he doesn't get it haha !! The funny thing is how often they want to do that then when it comes to timing needing to be sort of included they aren't so keen lol!! Men !! 🤭🤭

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MissLB · 23/09/2021 14:27

@x1092
I've read that you don't ovulate until 24/36 hours after LH surge so you're probably covered in that respect. :)
I did every other day until surge and then that day and the following day. I was going to do The day after that too but I was on. Isn't shift and DH wasn't home before I set off for work. X

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 14:09

@MissLB I'm not feeling hopefully either ! I know when I got my lh surge we dtd that night and the day after and day after but I feel so annoyed I feel like we should have done it the days before lh surge (I've been testing for ovulation) just to cover us. What u recon my chances are ? Worst case scenario if I ov really immediately after surge means we dtd on day of ov and day after :/ I'm working today and having one of those days where the tww is driving me crazy. My luteal phase is 14/15 days. I'm going to test early like 2nd / 3rd and then 4th be my last day unless af doesn't come xxx

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90mamabear · 23/09/2021 14:06

@Hope18 welcome !!! Heyyy how are you!? How long has you been trying !? Your timings look good iv you oh about day 14 and you are regular cycle looking good!! They say 1-2 days before ov is actually best for conception! I'm not due until October 4th I'm a bit behind this month last months cycle was long this thread was created then but this is great even more of us !! Excited ! When will you test again! I've had so many Evaps with them

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MissLB · 23/09/2021 13:35

@Hope18 I'd do one More if AF doesn't arrive in a couple of days. You're not out until you're out as they say!
I'm 7DPO today. My lutual phase is only usually 13 days so I'm trying to hold off testing. We only DTD twice during fertile window too and I've got no symptoms so I'm not hopeful x

Hope18 · 23/09/2021 11:06

My app screen for this month..

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Hope18 · 23/09/2021 11:06

Hi girls!
Can I join please too??
AF due 29th..ill send my app picture.. So the love hearts is DTD. Yellow is fertile bracket.
Only managed twice as we were poorly this month! But still hoping for a chance although I did FRER yesterday and got Evap. Then did clear blue last night and FRER this morning and both BFN..

What do you rekon to my timings etc?
Sending you all luck! When's everyone testing!/AF due? Xx

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90mamabear · 22/09/2021 21:52

@Mama500 welcome !!!☺️ keep us updated ! 9/10 is still early ! When are you testing again? Have you been ttc for long xx

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Mama500 · 22/09/2021 19:39

Hey ladies can I join! I’m 9/10 dpo and jve convinced myself I’m pregnant this month. I don’t fall pregnant easily and been trying a while. Taken 4 tests today! Addicted

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90mamabear · 22/09/2021 14:44

How are you girls doing !:) x

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90mamabear · 20/09/2021 21:55

I feel weirdly better about it this month. My last months cycles have been so long wirh ovulation so late. This month I ovulated like cycle day 16/17 which for me is amazing ! So I'm feeling lucky xx

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MissLB · 20/09/2021 21:46

@x1092 fingers crossed!!!! 😊😊 x

Fairy45 · 20/09/2021 21:41

Eeek so exciting!!! Got my fingers crossed for us all!!

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90mamabear · 20/09/2021 21:35

@Fairy45 @MissLB Smile

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90mamabear · 20/09/2021 21:34

Ovulation today !! And it begins ! How are u girls doing ?

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90mamabear · 19/09/2021 06:43

Morning girls :) just got my lh surge :) !! So I'm right with you both just a tiny bit behind! We got this !! - let's hope for 3 june babies x

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