Anyone 9dpo

@90mamabear@ Mine is 2nd October but I’ll probably know before then due to spotting etc. I didn’t have any symptoms apart from vivid dreams with DD and I don’t sleep long enough nowadays with her being 3 months and up twice for feeds to dream 😂😂😂 so I don’t think I’ll have a heads up before OTD!!

Hi guys do you mind if I join you? I'm 7dpo and trying not to symptom spot or test! Had a major dip in temp at 5dpo below cover line but last two days it's been back up again... god knows what that means!

Hope you don't mind me jumping in . I'm 10dpo and nervously starting testing. Does look like the start of a line or have I got major line eyes already🙈

I'm 8 dpo and been so busy this week with work that I've totally forgotten which to be honest has been great! Though I'm shattered. But glad my mind has been on something else. Probably won't bother testing until weds maybe which will be pretty accurate at 13 dpo. What are you planning?
@ShellUK09 I'm so sorry for your loss it's an awful thing to experience x

I’m pretty sure I’m out BFN today and I’m due on in 2/3 days x

@MrsMo21 wow what an amazing story, thank you for explaining! I'm so pleased for you both you have DD..❤️ I can imagine it must take a toll on you both during the IVF.

It's amazing but at the same time scary this whole entering this TTC again isn't it.
We had MC 2017 followed by DD born 2018 and now ttc #2 but I always worry now I'm that few years older etc what my body is like and if it will be possible etc?! You just never know what's going on in there do you!
Wishing you all the luck..
I'm going to test Sunday if I don't cave tomorrow.. 🙈 I really know i shouldn't cave..
I've had alot of cramping today tho which is a boooo.😩 Xx

@ShellUK09 I know I’m new to the thread but I’m so sorry for what’s happened. I had a miscarriage last year before I started IVF with my DD and it was horrible. 💐

@Hope18 of course you can ask! I have low AMH so my egg reserve is very low for my age - not call it quits low but we needed to get a move on. We went privately so basically the consultant said that we could keep trying naturally and risk maybe never getting pregnant and then it being too late (I’m 30 but menopause will most likely be here for me around 34) or to go for it with IVF and see what happens. My DH and I decided that we desperately wanted a child and weren’t prepared to risk not having one and our first round worked! They say you’re more fertile after having a baby and I do ovulate according to OPKs (just with low AMH some months might be low quality eggs etc) so we know it’s a super long shot but I don’t want to go into more rounds of IVF just yet as my DD is still so little and it takes it’s toll on your mental and physical well-being! Hoping for a miracle really but one thing I’ve learned is that ttc often makes no sense and anything is possible! Xx

@shelluk09 I'm sorry to hear about your tough day today.. And sorry for your loss. A loss is a loss no matter what stage.. And it definitely hurts. I hope you have a comfortable evening.. Nice warm bath and some yummy snacks?
It's not nice being examined so much either.
Interesting about the tests..

@90mamabear the TWW is awful waiting isnt it any slight twinge and I question!! Today I've had some more cramping so not sure if AF is just letting me know the planned appearance will be on schedule lol.

Hi @MrsMo21!
Welcome
Hope your doing OK.
The start of your TWW.. All the best.. I hope this cycle is the one for you! Try and keep nice and busy!
Do you mind me asking how come you had IVF first time and this time are trying naturally for a while? I don't know anything about IVF I'm afraid.. Sorry if that's a niave question! Xx

So so sorry to hear this and I’m glad you’ve been seen. I’ve been there too snd it’s so hard. Take it easy and rest. Thank you for advice on testing xx

@90mamabear @Mama500 sad update from me. Managed to get to the EPU today after my GP made an urgent referral. At the hospital she said they couldn’t see anything on the scan apart from a tiny blob which confused her, she then did an internal scan and couldn’t find a pregnancy that way either. They did a blood test, had to wait in the hospital for an hour and a half for the result and my HCG level was 43. They advised I likely did have an early miscarriage when I had the bleed on 10th September and I have to do another pregnancy test in a week to confirm a negative result. Feeling quite deflated but glad the limbo is now over and taking it easy now after a very intense day, all while I was meant to be working from home today! I had to tell my manager I had gone to hospital for tests but I didn’t go into any details. They said at the hospital if I am still testing positive this time next week to call them back as it may be the early stages of a new early pregnancy. They said never to use early tests or digital tests and to rely on missed period, and cheap tests from Home Bargains which is what they use! So going to try to follow that advice next time as early testing can drive you mad, I was obsessed last time! Very impressed with my GP today for making sure I got seen today and going to try and chill out tonight x

Hi! Hope I can join please?
I’m currently ttc baby number 2 - first baby (3 months) is IVF but we’re going to try naturally for 10 months or so before having IVF again next year so I might be here for a while!
Currently 1dpo!

LOLLL so so funny..
I was like
Eh? She wants to add me to a thread to delete my account. 😂😂
But yes.. We all got this. 👍🏻

Sorry you probably already said, but When's your AF due?

@90mamabear Aw gosh, same here. So we MC in Oct 2017, and fell Jan 18 and they say your more fertile after a loss etc.. I was so suprised when we fell so quick last time.. ( and grateful!) but even though this is only cycle 1 I really thought I'd be more chilled..but as soon as TWW hit I've lost the plot😂😭

I think we DTD a bit early.. Although I read sperm can live for up to 5 days.. But who knows.. I've got a feeling I actually ovulated on the Thursday but we DTD Monday and Tuesday as the app said that was higher days..
But when I read online it says subtract 14 days from 1st bleed of month to when next is due..

Who knows. Lol. Its so hard!! X

@90mamabear sorry for the late post!
DD has a sickness bug as of this afternoon.. Ugh!

I'm ttc #2.. How about you? 😊
Sorry for your tough time atm@ShellUK09 I really hope you get some answers soon.. Stay positive hun xxx

@90mamabear and @Mama500 thank you for your kind advice. Fingers crossed I get some answers soon, I just want to be out of this limbo now! I’ll ask if there is a walk in at my EPU at weekends and I will be first in the queue x

When I went to A&E they tested bloods but wouldn’t scan. EPU was appointment only for me but you could walk in on weekends