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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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Fairy45 · 27/09/2021 20:29

I tested with frer today at 10dpo and got bfn 😪 I'm not testing now till 30th, feeling deflated again.

Hope18 · 27/09/2021 19:27

Hi all, just an update AF arrived Last night!

Going to try ovulation tests this coming cycle, never used them before but we're going to give them a go! X

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90mamabear · 27/09/2021 16:23

@Ladylou17 sorry to hear :( but do not give up! Test again the day ur period is due if it doesn't come or before that grab a first response early result and try at 12dpo! Remember ovulation can be out a day or two and implantation is later for some !! Honestly I wouldn't give up at al although I know how deflating it is - I cry every time ! When I was having my daughter I felt every single second that my period was coming . I felt like complete pms. I kept running to the loo to wipe and expect my period. I didn't get a positive until it was due ! Xx hang in there !!

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MissLB · 27/09/2021 16:05

@Ladylou17
I took a test yesterday at 10DPO. BFN. Also feeling deflated. I felt like all month it wasn't going to be this month. Do people get a feeling that it's worked when they are ? I've never been pregnant before so I don't know

MrsMo21 · 27/09/2021 07:39

@Ladylou17 that sucks. I’ve been there many times. I’ll probably be there at the end of this week! I just repeat mantras to myself - I will be a mum, I will have my baby, my body can do this, I trust the journey.

I know that makes me sound INSANE but it gave/gives me comfort on bfn days. I think unless you’re ttc people don’t understand how sad it can be at times!

💐

Ladylou17 · 27/09/2021 07:08

Did a test this morning 12dpo bfn feeling deflated :(

ShellUK09 · 26/09/2021 15:21

@90mamabear ooh sounds promising, fingers crossed for you 🤞

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90mamabear · 26/09/2021 13:15

I don't want to be excited as every time I am it's pms and I'm wrong . But I'm 200% extra tired the past few days . And I distinctly recall this with my daughter . Please let it be a sign 🙏🏻

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Ladylou17 · 25/09/2021 22:54

@ShellUK09 it's really hard, I didn't tell work either or have a day off sick so it's been quite rough. It's a nice relief to talk about it here with people who understand. Pretending to be normal is the worst thing isn't it. Thank you, I hope we have our rainbow babies soon x

ShellUK09 · 25/09/2021 22:45

@90mamabear aww thank you. We are both gutted but we are supporting each other and we will be okay. It’s a huge shock when it happens and it can be hard to be strong but I am focused on looking forward. We do want to try again as soon as we can really, although I want my body to get back to some normality first too. I still have very vivid dreams every night, although I enjoy that symptom as they are entertaining! x

@Ladylou17 aw I’m sorry to hear what you have went through too and I hope things work out for you this cycle. One of the hardest things is trying to act normal at work or when you see people, we haven’t told anyone we were TTC and definitely didn’t tell anyone I was pregnant and then had an early loss, so I really appreciate having people here who understand and who I can talk to x

@Hope18 it may be too early for the digital test to pick it up, there’s still hope for a BFP if you test later in the week x

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 21:32

@Hope18 there's
100% time yet!! Get a first response early result and test again closer to wed it will give u def answer ! With my daughter this is what happened me ! Xxx

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Hope18 · 25/09/2021 20:02

Hi all just a quick update but I took a digital this morning.. AF due Wednesday.. and BFN.. Sad

Wishing you all lots of luck in the next few days/week!
Xx

Ladylou17 · 25/09/2021 18:43

@ShellUK09 I totally understand how you're feeling I had a miscarriage 2 months ago nearly now at 9 weeks.
Hospital told me to wait a full cycle and period before trying again so this is our first month though we'll be properly trying from our next cycle if I'm not bfp. Sending love your way I understand how horrid it is x

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 17:15

@ShellUK09 you should have a period in the next few weeks . And then u will have a starting point for when you feel you are ready to try again whenever that is for you both. My heart goes out to you. I have been thinking of you. Make sure you are kind to yourself and look after yourselves and don't put pressure on yourself . Early or not early a loss is the same loss. Lots of love xo

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ShellUK09 · 25/09/2021 16:45

Thanks for all your kind words, I feel strange now as I’m waiting for a negative test rather than a positive! As then I will know I can start trying again after the early loss and things will be clearer. In the hospital she said she wouldn’t count my bleed when I lost the pregnancy as a period so I’m really confused now but will give my body time to readjust, we aren’t going to DTD for at least a week so I won’t have much to report for a while. Good luck to you all 💕

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 16:36

@Ladylou17 literally can think of nothing else or concentrate on anything else !x

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Ladylou17 · 25/09/2021 16:25

@90mamabear me too it's a bit soul destroying isn't it. Trying not to keep thinking about it but it's so hard!

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 16:22

@Ladylou17 same. ! Fed up any just want to know . The thought of starting all over too - ugh :(

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Ladylou17 · 25/09/2021 16:06

I'm due on the 2nd. Driving myself mad! Hope it goes quick for all of us. First time trying properly had a mc in July so feeling all kinds of anxious.

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 15:44

@Bridgey8 I think I'm gonna say the 5th for being due on . It's that or the 4th gonna say 5th - I'm just 2 days behind you 🤞🏻🤞🏻xx Great little group we have going here girls

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Bridgey8 · 25/09/2021 15:33

thanks @90mamabear - due on the 3rd - going to try and hold off testing until then!!

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 13:42

@Mama500 you aren't out until it comes !!! What did u test using ? U may have ovulated earlier that u think. With my daughter that happened me
!! X

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90mamabear · 25/09/2021 13:31

@Bridgey8 @Melabells welcome to the club !!

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MissLB · 25/09/2021 13:24

@90mamabear
My AF is due on 30th and I'm trying to hold off until then. I had a bit of heartburn this morning but no symptoms other than that so I'm not hopeful! I've also had that awful cold that's probably taken my mind off testing! :)

MrsMo21 · 25/09/2021 13:21

Also as a little bit of hope here…when I was ttc DD I was on a board like this of 5 women and within 6 months we were all pregnant. One lady had been ttc for 2 years, got pregnant third cycle on the chat and I was IVF. Hopefully this thread will be equally as lucky! ✨

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