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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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Ladylou17 · 28/09/2021 09:54

@90mamabear I'm 13dpo today I'll try a frer tomorrow thank you. I have a feeling it's not my month. Came up after 5 minutes xx

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 09:51

@Ladylou17 I see it too a faint line ur right :) . How many dpo? I would def test again tomorrow morning ! Did it appear straight away ?

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 09:50

@Ladylou17 thank you!!! P.s happy do do another set of eyes for you !!!😁 x

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Ladylou17 · 28/09/2021 09:50

Nothing there really it's in my mind 🤦‍♀️

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Ladylou17 · 28/09/2021 09:49

Morning all! @Melabells omg! Congratulations 🥳 amazing news!
@90mamabear I know the feeling I hide (majority) of my stress to other half too. Don't be disheartened as @MrsMo21 said positive affirmations "this will happen for me" brings a lot of peace and helped me yesterday. Big hugs, I did a test this morning but looks like a super slight evap line so not getting my hopes up x

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 09:03

@Melabells amazing !! 💕 keep in touch !! So so happy for u . Take care and thank you for sharing your news with us 💕 xx

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 09:02

@MrsMo21 thank you so so much . You have no idea how much you have made me smile ! Honestly thank you. It means the world a wee message like that. I think it's just been so long from I last had a little one that I feel it's never going to happen again. I have drove my dh to distraction: he's so fed up with me symptoms spotting and worrying that im now pretending that I'm relaxed !! I just can't shake the feeling it's not going to happen . Seeing that on line is just so deflating but I'm no different than anyone else I think as women we get so angry with our own bodies don't we . So much pressure . How are you doing ? Remind me what day you are on 💕? Did you test last time prior to 12dpo xxx

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Melabells · 28/09/2021 08:59

Thanks for all the congratulations. I have irregular cycles so I thought I was out but I'm proof that some women only get positives after 11 dpo. Baby dust to you all!

MrsMo21 · 28/09/2021 08:57

@Melabells CONGRATULATIONS!! See I think this is the start of a lucky thread here ✨

@90mamabear oh lovely please don’t cry! It’s still very early days- I was looking at photos from pregnancy tests with DD and my positive came up 9 days past a 3 day transfer which would be 12dpo so it’s early. If it’s any consolation I know I’m not pregnant this month either, I just can feel it in my bones which is disappointing but there you go. You’re not alone.

Do you want to write down here all of your worries regarding ttc? Like get it all out of your head and down here? I’m here to listen and can maybe help? My DH used to get so fed up when we were ttc DD because I had so many worries in my head and it was all consuming when I was talking to him xx

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 08:41

@MissLB @Ladylou17 @Fairy45 seeing messages from yesterday now - hope you girls are ok! X

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 08:40

@Ladylou17 I would really recommend frer for early detection :) 😚

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 08:37

@Melabells was af due tomorrow wed ? That's a definite positive

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 08:34

@Melabells oh my god !!! I'm so sorry I didn't see you had posted wowwww!!! I am absolutely over the moon for you !!! This is amazing !! Look at that line !!! Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈 !! I'm so glad this thread helped ! I hope you are doing something lovely today to celebrate! Lots of love ! I'm so sorry for my big rant haha ! I didn't see u had posted or I would have congratulated u ! So fab girl xx

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 08:32

Girls seriously why do I do this to myself . I'm either 7 or 8 dpo this morning . And I've yet again fmu took a frer and of course bfn. Anyone else told me this I would be able to reassure them . Now I've spent the morning sobbing . I have got myself so worked up. It's just such an emotional roller coaster . I've ended up too with cystitis probably from dtd so much . I wish I could be one of those women just enjoy dtd forget about ttc and get pregnant super fast and it's a lovely experience. But I know in comparison to having dd who literally happened after one time a decade ago this time around it just isn't happening like that and never did I think I would become so stressed and so hard on myself . So Sorry for the rant . I try not to talk about my worried at home as dh is 100% fed up with the entirety of the topic of ttc . 🤣 xx

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Melabells · 28/09/2021 06:47

This is such a great thread and kept me going when I was so uncertain. My light lines which I was convinced were Evaps on 11 and 12 dpo have today been confirmed as a positive. I'm 13dpo and no denying it's positive I'm so excited! Will do a first response tomorrow to confirm and probs test again day my period is due which is next Wednesday. 😊😊feeling fine apart from tiredness and backache .

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90mamabear · 27/09/2021 21:39

@Fairy45 @MissLB*@Mama500 @Hope18* @MrsMo21 @Melabells @Bridgey8 @Ladylou17 girls this group is awesome really keeping me going !! X such an active group love it. Helps so much !!

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90mamabear · 27/09/2021 21:37

@Hope18 ur wee chart looking good! And as for next month remember the swimmers love for a few days :):)! I have realised regarding the app - I was using it to track ovulation . On e I started before I got Mira , using the clear blue ones that tell u the extra peak days , the advanced that I ovulate later than the app was telling me and I was flipping missing peak time to dtd! X

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Hope18 · 27/09/2021 21:24

@Ladylou17 we've been looking at clear blue 2 day ovulation ones or something?! We literally have no clue what we are doing with that though 😂🙈

I use Ovia app to track cycles.. Have done since DD was born.. But finding things really hard.. X

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90mamabear · 27/09/2021 21:24

@Fairy45 I hope ur ok hang in there 💕. I tested like an absolute idiot today at 6/7dpo wirh frer bnfn why did I do it to myself ugh idiot :(

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Ladylou17 · 27/09/2021 21:19

@MissLB @90mamabear I've been using one step for pregnancy tests would you switch to FRER? Thanks 😊

Ladylou17 · 27/09/2021 21:17

@Hope18 me too! Hopefully I will get more of an idea if I don't get a bfp this cycle
I've bought the one step ones and fertility friend to track with bbt

Ladylou17 · 27/09/2021 21:16

[quote MissLB]@Ladylou17
I took a test yesterday at 10DPO. BFN. Also feeling deflated. I felt like all month it wasn't going to be this month. Do people get a feeling that it's worked when they are ? I've never been pregnant before so I don't know [/quote]
@MissLB sorry lovely, it is very frustrating sending hugs
@MrsMo21 thank you I will definitely be saying those mantras we all deserve to be mommy's :) fingers crossed for all of us 😘
@90mamabear thanks lovely I will wait another couple of days. Symptom spotting but could be just usual pms if not am planning to start ovulation tests this month and see what happens.

Hope18 · 27/09/2021 21:08

Attached my this months cycle.. And next cycle too..
Were Away with family as of 9th so won't be much going on so not holding out any hope.. But worth a try.. So going to do days leading up to 9th and Saturday 9th too..
What do you rekon? X

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Hope18 · 27/09/2021 21:05

@Fairy45 is so deflating isn't it because you feel all these symptoms!

@90mamabear thanks hun, ❤️ defo going to stick on here.. Got to be our time soon aye!
Why is the bloody window so small lol.. Annoyingly so my cycle seems to have changed itself this month.. Because AF started yesterday and I wasn't due on until 29th. And it's now set my cycle this month at 24 days?! So short?!
Usually 28..although did have a 24 in July.. I don't know why?
Xx

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90mamabear · 27/09/2021 20:56

@Hope18 I bought a Mira machine it has literally changed my life !! Stick with us next cycle 💕 hope you are ok sending hugs x

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