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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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90mamabear · 01/10/2021 19:54

@Hope18 thank you so much for asking. I'm doing good. I've really strong cramping which I had with dd . I did a digi today to confirm. I'm so baffled . Af isn't due for days and I'm 100% of ov. My hcg levels seem very high🤷🏻‍♀️. How are you ? X

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90mamabear · 01/10/2021 19:51

@Fairy45 let us know xx

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MrsMo21 · 01/10/2021 19:37

@Melabells come back when you’re ready, most likely I’ll still be here 🤗

Fairy45 · 01/10/2021 19:24

@Melabells really sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love xx

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90mamabear · 01/10/2021 19:21

@Melabells I am so so sorry. I'm thinking of you. Take your time . Sending lots of love and prayers xx❤️

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Melabells · 01/10/2021 19:03

Ladies thanks so much for your kind words. I've started bleeding tonight as de suggested would happen. I'm just going to take some away to try and heal ❤️thank you all hopefully we will be back in a few months

Fairy45 · 01/10/2021 18:30

Thanks @Hope18 I was thinking maybe test on weds that would give 5 days but I know full well I won't be able to wait that long so might do one on Sunday! Feeling a slight glimmer of hope this month!

Hope18 · 01/10/2021 18:18

Hi all!
How are you doing today @90mamabear?

@Melabells I'm really sorry your going through some sadness. Could they do an internal scan at your local EPU?

@Fairy45 I think I read HCG doubles every 48 hrs.. So if you only had pink discharge today, it could still be implantation which wouldn't lead to full positives until 48 hrs after today? X

Fairy45 · 01/10/2021 18:00

Also I tested at what I thought was 12 dpo and was negative so 2 days ago. If it was implantation how long would it take to get hcg in urine??

Fairy45 · 01/10/2021 17:59

So was due on today and haven't come on. However yesterday I had a pink discharge - tmi sorry!! But totally unusual for me. Expected to be in full flow. Had some backaches and felt a bit crampy but then nothing. According to my calender we bd on 19th. I thought I O on 17th but maybe not as AF not arrived. And I didn't use opk this month either. Does anyone think that could be an implantation bleed?

MrsMo21 · 01/10/2021 16:27

@Melabells that’s really tough, sending hugs 💐

Ladylou17 · 01/10/2021 12:27

@Melabells so sorry to hear that xx

Melabells · 01/10/2021 12:13

I am so sad. The excitement and anticipation of what was going to be another loved buba now it's gone like a flash 😭😭

Melabells · 01/10/2021 12:12

They will do bloods if I don't start bleeding . I will re test tomorrow and see what happens

Mama500 · 01/10/2021 12:10

Sorry typo!!! Bloods to check your hcg levels that was supposed to say x

Mama500 · 01/10/2021 12:05

You could ask doctors to do bloody stools see your hcg level

Mama500 · 01/10/2021 12:05

I’m so sorry to hear this. Hope you are ok look after yourself and I still have some hope xx

Melabells · 01/10/2021 11:41

I had four great lines on different brands of test. For three days now nothing much at all. Dr thinks it's an early miscarriage so I hve to wait to start bleeding and if I'm not bleeding in a week I have to go for scan to see what's happening

Ladylou17 · 01/10/2021 09:43

@90mamabear thank you 💕
@Melabells sorry to hear that lovely. Are you getting lines at all? I would say if not it'll be a couple of days. Hugs xx

Melabells · 01/10/2021 07:32

Well tests are getting lighter again and barely see them . Think this bad news for me . I've not started bleeding yet does anyone know when I should expect it

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90mamabear · 30/09/2021 19:50

@Ladylou17 I'm excited to hear your news !! It won't be long 😘😘 xxx

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Ladylou17 · 30/09/2021 18:59

@Melabells try a FRER in the morning could just be too early for a digital xx

Ladylou17 · 30/09/2021 18:58

[quote 90mamabear]@Ladylou17 I'm so glad I've given you hope. I'm not kidding - I don't even know really what made me test again. I was crying because I in my head was out. 2 days ago I took one opened it (standard) and thought there was something ever so slight but then it went away. Yesterday morn showed up in the time but slowly and was very very faint. Yesterday afternoon showed faster but only I mean a hint darker . Had I not been so upset and testing constantly I don't think I would know yet lol!!! Hang in there I honestly never dreamt this was my month. And I have had constant af cramps which made me 100% feel out - I remember back having those last time. I have sore nipples but to be honest they are more painful before my period. And the tiredness I had last week is gone . I have much more symptoms before my period comes. I Havnt my usual pms I guess when I think of it but you know what nothing has jumped out massively at all. So hang in there ok ❤️ xx[/quote]
@90mamabear thanks lovely. Honestly so overjoyed for you 🥰
I'm hoping this next cycle is the one fingers crossed :) xx

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90mamabear · 30/09/2021 16:37

@Melabells don't panic yet - you might not have enough hcg for a digi - and possible ur urine More dilute for the first response. ? I would try a first response with first morning urine tomorrow. Hang in there ok ❤️❤️

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Melabells · 30/09/2021 16:13

Well I don't know what to think. After my lovely positive in first response and strip I had a fainter line today and a negative digital 😩 I think this is heading down a slippery slope