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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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Hope18 · 04/10/2021 21:34

@MrsMo21
@90mamabear
So going by CM like last cycle I had loads but then as soon as I had that kind of pain on the Thursday CM pretty much stopped.. But CM lasted a good 4 days or so properly..
Like sorry tmi..
But atm today I feel like I'm getting a tiny bit but no where near compared to the amount I usually get. So Surley today wasn't my ov?
I'm going to look Into that sperm.Meets the egg, never heard of it! We're so un clued up about this.. With DD we fell so quickly so never really needed to be! Xx

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 21:03

Girls one thing I have learnt and my fertility masseuse I went to told me the same - never ever ever go by the app. Go by ur cm the app is a guess based on an algorithm !! Xx

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MrsMo21 · 04/10/2021 20:57

I use opks as I can kind of rely on my CM but my app is always out by a day or so. We just dtd three days in a row around ovulation (again Im not exactly super fertile so don’t take anything I say as guidance for ttc 😂) but I’ve heard people say amazing things about The Sperm Meets Egg Plan. Don’t think DH is up to that challenge though 😂😂😂😂😂

My cycles are between 24-26 days with ov on day 14. I have a short Luteal phase which is down to my AMH they think which makes things tricky. Haven’t managed to find a consultant yet that can sort it!

Hope18 · 04/10/2021 20:49

@MrsMo21 so we've brought OPK for November cycle.. This one we are on holiday on Saturday so I'm just kinda saying this cycle is a bit of fun 🤣
But honestly..i have no idea when I ov. I usually get lots of CM around the time and some pelvic pains but tbh, I get cramps throughout so i can never pin point an actual day, I've just been going by my app.. Which last month said my day was a Tuesday but I felt more cramps on the Thursday 🙄 then after that day CM dissappeared..
Since having covid my cycle is all over the place. Last cycle as 24 days?! Usually 28!
Whay about you xx

MrsMo21 · 04/10/2021 20:28

@90mamabear please stick around! 💕💕

@Hope18 do you use opks or do you ov at the same time every month? My ov date seems to have moved since having my daughter xx

Hope18 · 04/10/2021 20:25

@Fairy45 sending lots of baby dust and I really hope this is your month! ❤️❤️

@90mamabear thanks so much, I'm still here I love reading about you guys.. I just don't have alot to report yet this cycle lol.. This is all one big waiting game isn't it! Xx

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 20:19

@Fairy45 crossing everything for you Really am ! 💕

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Fairy45 · 04/10/2021 20:17

@90mamabear I'm thinking i must have ov late as I'm still not on nor bfp so still just a waiting game. Will keep you posted if I get an update x

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 20:13

@MrsMo21 I'm doing good I think. I Havnt slept in days with horrific cramping but I can remember back from before I had the same . Thank you for asking. I'm so so sorry about ur evap. Frer caught me one month with exactly the same . We jumped for joy thinking it was a faint pos. Inwards and upwards. Next month 💪🏼💪🏼u got this. @Hope18 you too 💕. Hope you girls don't mind me still hanging out here . I just want to see how you are all getting on . You all were my rock ! X

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Hope18 · 04/10/2021 20:06

@MrsMo21 evaps are cruel arnt they! I'm sorry you had one too! 😩😩
Onto the next cycle, nice and fresh is the way I've tried to think.
According to apps I'm in fertile window but CM isn't much yet so I'm not really sure if it's still a bit early? X

MrsMo21 · 04/10/2021 20:01

@90mamabear Hey! How’re you feeling? How’s everything going?

AF spotting today so I’m definitely out! Was an evap like @Hope18 said! Never mind! Roll on next month! Xx

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 15:32

@Bridgey8 how are you !!?? X

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 15:31

@MrsMo21 how are you ? Any updates x

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90mamabear · 04/10/2021 15:31

@Fairy45 how are u ? Xx

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90mamabear · 03/10/2021 12:21

@Bridgey8 wow! Delighted for you congrats mamma xxx

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90mamabear · 03/10/2021 12:20

@MrsMo21 the test before this first one was so faint I could barely see it xx

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Bridgey8 · 03/10/2021 12:20

@90mamabear think so too thanks to this...

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90mamabear · 03/10/2021 12:17

@Fairy45 I wonder have you ov late. I was day 16 this cycle and it really confused me with dates xx

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90mamabear · 03/10/2021 12:16

@Bridgey8 congratulations 💕 that's pos!!

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90mamabear · 03/10/2021 12:16

@MrsMo21 fingers crossed it's gonna darken . I'm going to send my pics of progression for u to help . The very first one I took isnt in the pic and it was very like it maybe a tiny bit darker. My first pos I really had to squint . Xx

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Hope18 · 03/10/2021 12:06

@MrsMo21
Totally didn't want to dampen any excitement I just found it hurtful when I had evap and totally wasn't even aware it could have been that so id hate for someone else to feel sad like I did! I obvs knew mine was as following few tests the next days were BFN..
Sending lots of baby dust your way 🥰 let us know!

@Fairy45
I've found it so hard to know when exact ov day will be.. Like this cycle just gone.. We DTD but then I'm sure I OV a few days later than expected so frustrating lol.
So I think we missed the window.
Hopefully not too much longer for you to wait now xx

Fairy45 · 03/10/2021 11:06

Usually 29 days bang on. Ov on cd 15. Didn't use opk this month but I'm definitely post ov now. It's possible I ov as late as day 19/20 this time which would make me like 11 dpo but I've no way to know for certain. Definitely not taken that patronising so don't worry.

MrsMo21 · 03/10/2021 10:59

@Hope18 I fully expect it to be an evap so I appreciate your honesty, thank you!

@Fairy45 Are you sure AF is due? Sorry if that’s patronising, you know your own body but like are you sure Ov was the date you thought? Xx

Hope18 · 03/10/2021 10:57

@MrsMo21 it's still very early so try not to loose hope just yet! .. But I had an Evap that looked very similar to that this time cycle😩..not to say that yours is though!
I really hope your line gets darker in the next few days!! 😍

@bridgey8 I'd defo say that's a positive! 😍

@Fairy45 I know how you feel, the wait for AF is torture. What cycle are you on? Is AF due? You never know the sharp left pain could be late implantation? Xx

Fairy45 · 03/10/2021 10:47

I'm still getting bfn. Said i wasn't going to test until weds but I've tested today and last night both bfn. Still no AF and getting horrible sharp pains in my left side. I'd like for AF to just come now so we can move onto the next cycle. 😓 @MrsMo21 I can see the line in the bottom one I guess it's just a case of testing every morning to make sure it gets darker. Not sure it's an evap don't know much about them. 🤞 for you!

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