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Toot toot! The September bus is early...

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WantStickyBean · 25/08/2021 21:52

Grab your seats on the September bus (though I know there are a few of us still testing in August).

Absolutely everyone welcome - I'll attempt a list of tags for "reserved seats" but am guaranteed to have missed quite a few:

@ViL89
@Missy95
@Thedesirerainbow
@purpleskyssssss
@Capricorn8990
@H2689
@caz198917
@Snugglemuffins4me
@Tiredmum31111
@Goodgoodthings
@ashlove17
@MissM94
@Wilf2020
@StayHopeful
@Sunshinelollypops8
@MrsSG90
@Indianna2006
@Amazingapples
@LadyoftheWoods
@Dobcaty
@Lealu
@JK739
@Lucylulu1
@Glastomummy
@LeeTTCRainbow
@BethTTC
@PleaseSendNoodles
@Conundrum12345
@Babyboom1990
@storkstalk
@Emily199034
@Lianna93
@wellitywell
@SherbertLemons
@Teaandcrumpets95
@Paintingfences
@Dollface20
@Speccybibliophile
@Kaycw
@BingeOnChocolate
@Lucylaroo
@FlipperyGibbet
@Klg1111

Hoping it's a month with lots of baby dust for us all.

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ViL89 · 27/08/2021 14:35

@hoola23 and @purpleskyssssss

Thanks so much kind of annoying from clearblue as they are so expensive in comparison

I'm also using the cheaper OPKs there was defo a line but it wasn't as dark or darker so dont think it's that close bit will see

Thank you

Bundaberg84 · 27/08/2021 13:53

I never had a low or anything below high on the cb fertility monitor. The high phase will last around 10 days for me, that's why I don't really pay attention to it for the first week of it, as my app will say this is the "medium" phase. I can imagine the clear blue sticks will be the same?

purpleskyssssss · 27/08/2021 13:45

Hi @ViL89 I always get a flashy smiley early on and it goes on and on and on for a good amount of days until I see the static! Seems like so much longer when waiting aswell

I also always find I get my static and then the next day will get my true peak on my cheap easy at home ovulation test. I have before DTD as soon as I saw the flashy as @hoola23 and I find by the time I actually ovulated I'm exhausted and everything feels too forced, that's why I prefer the easy and home because I tend to get a steady rise so can work it out better, but that's just me.

Good luck with DTD over this next week or so 😃

hoola23 · 27/08/2021 10:43

Hey @ViL89 I bought the cb fertility monitor to try this month as had to start testing in cd6 which gave me high fertility straight away so started DTD then every other day. High lasted all the way until I got my peak on cd14 though!! Also backed this up with cheap opk just to make sure! Too exhausted to DTD the second day of the peak which I think is when I actually ovulated as I had some pain on the right side so feel like I'm out this month alreadyConfused we will do it again tonight just for good luck but think I'm closed for this fertile period this month! I've stocked up on opk already for next month as I'm not feeling positive now!

ViL89 · 27/08/2021 10:05

Hi guys

Got a clearblue flashing smiley, my app predicted I wouldn't ovulate until CD18 and its CD9 - so its well out. Did a LH aswell as know clearblue test for 2 hormones and there was a line there as well, but not a true positive.

So maybe I will ovulate much earlier this month? I find it so hard to catch it each month.

What are other people experiences with clearblue do your flashing smilies come straight away or take a while start. I've had a flashing on the 2nd day of testing which happened last month as well.

DH also has a sore you know what from DTD too much as we're on holiday so it's not good timing. Really I'd like to just DTD every day or other day but that might not be able to happen now

BritInNZ · 27/08/2021 00:23

5dpo on cycle 7 today - having figured out this month I ovulate four days later than I thought! Only figured it out from temping 😂

I often get cramps from doing intense exercise and this month it led to bleeding for four hours. So I've got an internal ultrasound in a couple of weeks to see if there's something wrong. Also got a private appointment with fertility specialist a few days after my birthday to go through bloods and SA (and probably another ultrasound!). Looking forward to September and getting some investigating/answers underway.

Nervousdave · 27/08/2021 00:06

I'm back on the bus again, cycle 3 for number 2.
Will be ovulating in the next week, AF due on the 10th Sept.

On a side note, AF has started on the 10th for the last 4 months in a row. Weird!

Bundaberg84 · 26/08/2021 23:30

@WantStickyBean not really sure actually as I only ever used the monitor but for what I gather the monitor detects more fertile days and also compares the test sticks to the next and establishes a result based on that. And it's veey foolproof.

Speccybibliophile · 26/08/2021 23:05

@Sunshinelollypops8

Oh guys can you catch a day after ovulation?

I'm ovulating today, mucus change, ovulation pain and the ovulation stick said so too 😂.
So thought right tonight is the night and well my DD has been sick so no DTD tonight 😣 but was wondering am I completely out for this cycle now?

Someone more knowledgeable will hopefully along and reply to you soon.... I do think that the egg survives 12-24 hours. Not too sure about the ovulation stick as I've never used them, so you may have a bigger window than I've suggested.
Sunshinelollypops8 · 26/08/2021 22:57

Oh guys can you catch a day after ovulation?

I'm ovulating today, mucus change, ovulation pain and the ovulation stick said so too 😂.
So thought right tonight is the night and well my DD has been sick so no DTD tonight 😣 but was wondering am I completely out for this cycle now?

Speccybibliophile · 26/08/2021 22:57

Thank you for the tag @WantStickyBean. I have been very quiet recently as I was quite down, which sounds silly as I'm currently in second cycle ttc second child. It was such a long journey getting to the stage of starting ttc that it feels impossibly long. I need to find some better coping strategies if I'm going to survive any more disappointing cycles.

On a positive note, really pleased for all the lucky ladies with their lovely news! It's heartening to hear these success stories, some of you have been waiting for so long. Hats off to you for perseverance (hope that doesn't sound condescending, genuinely don't mean for it too)

northernlola · 26/08/2021 22:45

Hi can I join!! TTC number two, had our first in 2018. SMEP worked a charm for that one, wondering if we'll be so lucky again. AF due 13th Sept so just coming into my fertile window in the next few days. Time to get busy!

purpleskyssssss · 26/08/2021 22:44

Well gone to go to bed and AF is starting, I think I will be full flow tomorrow... so onto the September bus fully and month 11 ttc cycle 10.

My periods tend to range from 26-38 days and my last period started on the day of my best friends baby shower and today CD 31 it has came when my best friend is currently in hospital having her baby. I remember on the baby shower thinking I feel like if I don't get BFP, my AF will start on the day her baba is born, we both started 'trying' at the same time but she fell first month, just reminds me how long I feel I have been trying!crazy what the mind can do

I will say though I am super happy for her and can't wait for cuddles of the little one

Anyway I am feeling hopefully for September, I am going to start tracking again and DB is sending of his SA analysis tomorrow, which is positive 😃

Danani · 26/08/2021 22:11

@ForGoodnessCake FRER are notoriously THE most sensitive, I think they detect like 6 mIU/mL whereas others are usually 10, 20, 25 etc. I personally, cannot see a line, but I never ever do on pics so this is probably just me! Hope you do get your conclusive BFP in a few more days! X

@EmsTTC thank you my love! I cannot wait, and honestly I so need this for my mental health. August was rough, and I’m looking forward to the distraction! I probably will try to just enjoy and have fun and not overthink everything, so we’ll see if we get lucky this month 🍀
Re the tests, if your app info doesn’t match up with the tests, I’d go with the tests to be sure! I know I’m taking a bit of a risk this month not using them and just blindly relying on my app, but it has been spot on the past two months and so I really hope it won’t let me down! Also looking forward to some fun vacation vibes DTD!! Last cycle when I was obsessing over the days, it felt very…work-y 😬🙈

Good luck and baby dust to all this month! Here’s to September being OUR month!!!

Will check in in a couple of weeks with y’all! X

Missy95 · 26/08/2021 21:11

@ForGoodnessCake I can see something on the frer as well! Fingers crossed for you xx

EmsTTC · 26/08/2021 20:58

@Danani so jealous you're off on holiday I hope you have a lovely time.

My ovulation tests and my app are never in sync lol if they were tho I don't think I'd bother with ovulations tests. I feel like being 'told' when to BD by an ovulation test kind of takes the fun out of the BD lol.

@ForGoodnessCake I feel like I can see a vvvf line on the FRER 💐. Maybe the FRER is more sensitive than the cheapie and that's why it's shown on the FRER first. I think FRERs are one of the most sensitive tests you can buy.

Capricorn8990 · 26/08/2021 20:24

@WantStickyBean thanks for arranging this! Xx

hoola23 · 26/08/2021 18:25

@ForGoodnessCake I can see the faintest line on the FRER actually! Try again in a couple of days but congrats, looks good to me!!

ForGoodnessCake · 26/08/2021 17:10

Hey all

I'm 1 week till AF woke up with the super sore boobs - so I tested early! As poas addicts do haha I used a cheapy form the coop because I didn't want to touch my Frer yet, needless to say I done it after I thought I seen a line in the cheapie - now I'm more confused! Surely the cheapie would show before a frer?????

Help a girl out haha

Toot toot! The September bus is early...
Toot toot! The September bus is early...
WantStickyBean · 26/08/2021 16:38

@Bundaberg84 what does the monitor do differently to the advanced sticks? I had a look at them a while back but didn't really get what they added...

@Willow1982 sorry to hear about your MC, totally get the "time-out" thing, I've opted out of a couple of buses this year. It's lovely to have the company but I do get really obsessive and it's not particularly healthy.

I'm 8DPO and have been having cramps all afternoon. Pretty sure it's all in my head because I've just been sat at my desk all day and it's easy to imagine twinges. Though I could potentially be 10DPO, so it could also be AF on the way.

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Quinn26 · 26/08/2021 16:00

Hi all, parking my bum on the Sept bus! Been TTC over a year now, unfortunately had a MMC and a chemical within that time. Really hoping for the sticky baby this month! Just waiting for my peak, had my flashing smile for 3 days now although I've got a feeling it may appear Saturday when I'm away on a hen do for the night! So hoping to get it tomorrow or Sunday! Baby dust to you all this month x

ViL89 · 26/08/2021 15:53

@Willow1982 welcome back I remember 6ou from the Aug bus. Hopefully you're have a better month in sep I always find these groups super supportive whether I'm actively chatting or not, glad you feel the same best of luck for August and Sep xx

RAP08 · 26/08/2021 14:32

@Willow1982 hello! This is just my first 'bus' and first full month TTC. I welcome the wealth of experience you all have and all the support that comes with it! Fingers crossed for you this month x

Willow1982 · 26/08/2021 14:12

Hiya hoping it’s ok for me to join, been on the TTC buses since March, was pretty much a silent passenger on the August bus as on a bit of a downer with it all,
September will be the last chance before what would have been my due date in Oct of my MC in early March, so thinking I’ll be needing the support this month!
Not out the game for August just yet, 9DPO and cycle day 29 so well in the TWW, zero symptoms, but still fingers crossed,
And good luck to all in September too xx🍀

Beowoulf · 26/08/2021 12:50

I'm starting my journey in September and hope it's OK to jump on board