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Help, Implantation bleeding?

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Laurenxx94 · 26/07/2021 09:24

Hey everyone.
I’m on month 10 of ttc my second.
Really struggling!
Anyway we just had a nice holiday abroad and ovulated in that time so haven’t thought much.

Currently on CD21 and have a 28/29 day cycle every month.

I started bleeding last night when I wiped but nothing on pants. It was dark red 😞same again this morning nothing on pants not a full flow. anyway I just wondered people’s experiences with implantation bleeding? I am a spotter before af but never this early! Maybe 5 days before af at most!
Im definitely too early for af as I’m only cd 21! Just wanted some peoples advice on this. Thanks !

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Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 16:31

@Laurenxx94 that line is excellent 💓 so excited for you. Will test again on Monday - you’ve made me feel positive xx

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 16:29

@Nicoleamdavies I'm due Tuesday so pretty chuffed with my line so far
@Flossy1982 thankyou ❤️❤️

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Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 16:11

@Laurenxx94 huge congratulations 💓💓💫

Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 16:07

@Laurenxx94 Yes, that planning part is so strange to me! My partner still wants to just take it as it comes and not try to over plan it but I want to go into super planning mode! And my AF is due on Thursday....so I few days yet! What about you? X

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 16:04

@Nicoleamdavies yes I have a 5 year old with a previous partner unplanned so I would say it's new to me aswell lol , 31 is still young I wouldn't worry too much! When is your AF due ? X

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 16:00

@Laurenxx94 Nope, no children! So this is completely new to me 😄 I'm only 31, but still worrying about my age and that I'm getting too old 😅 do you have any children?

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 15:57

@Nicoleamdavies definetely u will know best. Do you have any children xx

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 15:51

@Laurenxx94 I will take a look into which ones I can afford, thank you! And yes, I'm pretty on it with my vitamins and I've been adding the extra folate the past few weeks, so hopefully that'll help! I'm trying to be as prepared as possible, but there's so much information out there! Ha x

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 15:44

@Nicoleamdavies it doesn't get any easier lol.
The clearblue flashing opks are good with my experience but are a bit expensive. we have been trying for 10 months it doesn't get any easier if u need any advice let me know! I would also recommend taking some vitamins too x

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 15:30

@Laurenxx94 Thank you! I think I will invest in some just so I know exactly when is the best time! 😊 I feel so silly for wanting it so bad even though it's only been like a month of trying 😂 x

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 15:16

@Nicoleamdavies I would recommend opks, they definetely help as I found the app was always a few days out the first few months so was totally missing it! Xx

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 15:04

@Laurenxx94 Only by using my period tracking and doing the deed everyday in the fertile window it gave me 😂 ha. X

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 15:01

@Nicoleamdavies thanks very much. Did you track your ovulation at all? Xxx

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 14:33

Thank you @Laurenxx94 ☺️ this is actually only my first cycle actively trying, so this is all very new to me!
I think I'm going to see if the bleeding comes back, if it doesn't I'll test again in a couple of days!
Congratulations on your positive test, all my fingers are crossed for you! 🥳

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 14:25

@Nicoleamdavies hi 🤩
Well only going with my self experience just now I was bleeding 6dpo till 9 dpo and tested yesterday at 11dpo and had the faintest line and then today my line is much darker so anything is possible just keep testing 10dpo would of been too early for me to see anything xx

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Nicoleamdavies · 31/07/2021 13:54

Hi gals, I really hope you don’t mind me commenting on here! I’ve been going through a similar thing today!

I’m currently 10DPO and I’ve had quite dark red spotting/bleeding. My period is due in 6 days and I can’t think of a time that it’s ever been early! My cervix is still really high and soft (sorry, TMI)! The bleeding seems to have stopped for now! But I’m so unsure of what’s going on! Ha.

I’ve done an 6 day early pregnancy test but it was negative, but I don’t know if it’s just too early!

Any reassurance would be 😊

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 13:14

I'm cd26 and just tested again after a 3 hour hold and got this! 🤞❤️

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Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 12:18

Ps. Sorry to hear about your chemical experience 😓

Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 12:17

@Laurenxx94 exciting! Fingers & toes crossed for you. I’m CD24 today so a few days to go. What are you?

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Laurenxx94 · 31/07/2021 09:03

Awful news @Flossy1982 my chemical I was 5.5 weeks and just knew something wasn't right. Had spotting as normal before af but then my tests just wouldn't get darker and I knew they should I was like 18dpo. So I had bleeding went to epu and was confirmed it was a chemical my progesterone had dropped to 2 and hcg was 15!

Im getting more tests today will maybe do it later I feel strange my cramps and sharp and weird and my boobs and fuzzy and tingly 😂 clinging onto something this month but still
Think I may be getting af soon!
How r u feeling what cd r u? Xx

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Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 06:29

@Laurenxx94 I can’t wait for your test tomorrow, it really sounds positive 💫💫💫💫

Flossy1982 · 31/07/2021 06:28

@Laurenxx94 it’s nice to keep the hope alive as it’s definitely an different symptom month but because it’s not stopped I’m not sure regarding implantation. I suppose I’m not out until the fat aunt shows.

My story was hideous. It was the only month that it pregnancy didn’t cross my mind because we only dtd once and I was in the mindset you had to do it lots. I had an issue with the smell of butter for a week but thought it was the heat turning it rancid. I suddenly realised I was due on in 2/3 days and hadn’t had any spotting. So did a digital clear blue and came up 1-2 weeks pregnant. We were shocked. Anyway I started brown spotting a week later on & off. EPU & GP said completely normal and to relax. I couldn’t relax as just kept thinking AF was on the way. Anyway my GP booked me in for a 6 week scan at EPU to put my mind at rest. Height of COVID so Mum or Hubby couldn’t come. They were awful. They couldn’t find any signs of pregnancy- tubes clear etc but there was a ‘mass’ by my left ovary that they decided was the implanted baby. After a lot of prodding up there which really upset me and lots of bloods they said I was pregnant but HCG was only 240 and they needed to see if it’s dropping before intervention. That night I started to miscarry and the pregnancy resolved itself. The ‘mass’ turned out to be a fibroad that they are not concerned about and I think I was too early and all the stress coupled with all the poking up there made me miscarry. I tell myself everyday it just wasn’t right and I was destined to miscarry but it was very traumatic. I had daily brown discharge, generally on wiping & quite rich brown at times but it was a week after being due & getting a positive not before AF 😩

Chlo1995 · 30/07/2021 23:05

@Laurenxx94 I really hope yours is a positive!

Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Laurenxx94 · 30/07/2021 22:10

@Flossy1982 r u considering implantation? I had spotting now I have none. None at all. Boobs are tingly and cramps on and off 😞 could go either way! My test was way to
Faint going to get some tomorrow and test Sunday will be confirmed then!
What's your story with your unknown location? That must of been awful 😞

@Chlo1995 sorry about af 😭 my test was exactly like yours so thinking I'm maybe looking into it too much and it's probably an evaporation line 😞 xx

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Chlo1995 · 30/07/2021 17:07

@Flossy1982 maybe next month! We have a lot of stress with buying a house at the minute, so I’m not overly surprised it’s not happening for us!x

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