December 07- MC Avengers in big pants, going through, been through or pg after a mc, still here, still eating cakes. We will not be beaten!

Jules - hope you're OK this morning

Ellie - congrats on the scan, but feel a bit (ok, a lot) sad cos I was due a few days apart from you, and should have been 21 weeks tomorrow

Littlewifey and Sfxmum - sorry that you're going through this horrible time, but everyone here is v supportive

TJuice - did you live in Wallington too? I went to school in Sutton, and my best friend at school lived in Wallington. Glad you were able to have a reassuring scan too

Hi everyone else

morning all

SK - thanks am really pleased for you. the thing about the emotional side is that it can catch you at anytime, good to be aware, still stings but at least you recognise what it is.

Jules hang in there it is so distressing, any kind of bleeding really, B&J excellent therapy imo

littlewifey - hi am going through same now {hug} how far along did you find out? last time was truly awful had a missed one discovered at my 12wk scan. hope you are ok

this time I was 7wks am now worried am not bleeding enough

Morning it is sunny and beautiful here in sunny Sussex.

JULES excellent news about your little bean/miracle. Heparin will make you bleed like a stuck pig, excuse my expression. I once saw a lady will a small ulcer on her ankle knock it very gently on the side of a chair. She lost a huge amount of blood all across the floor. We had to very quickly get her back to bed! The moral of the tale is Heparin makes you bleed. It has to do with the clotting (boring).
ILTS Crickey how did that happen? Last I saw you were not sure/evaporation lines etc. Excellent news for you.
It is our first wedding anniversary tomorrow so we have managed to off load the DDs to anyone who will have them. Different places for both of them!! I am off to the hairdressers now.

And I havent tested..

To the girls who have just joined us welcome. Get your pants ready for outside of the trouser action.

Hey Jules - Hope things are better today. I'm on the non-denom "pew" with TJuice praying, chanting, and sending positive vibes your way.

IKWYM SK! Hard to keep positive, especially with this rubbish weather. I meant to say I'll be traveling east for work next week sort of bellshill area. I just keep saying everyday is a good day. My MIL wants to know names we've picked out and what kind of nappies we will use. I'm just thinking where I will buy jeans that fit once everything shows fine on my booking in scan. I told her I'd prefer not to think that far ahead. There are no guarantees in this game and sadly all the naivite that I once had is well gone. She said I would be complaining when it's keeping me up kicking me in the guts. I said I can't think of anything more welcome.

Littlewifey - Welcome..this group has been a serious lifeline for me. Feel free to say whatever is on your mind. We're most definitely here for you.

Morning Lissie! Anyone fancy a cub of herbal tea? I'm on a steady diet of toast, Irnbru , and Gaviscon.

hello littlewifey im sorry you are here, but we will take care of you. x

Hi everyone, I am in the middle of MC at the moment and was directed here by twilightsurfer. Needed to talk to people who really understand what I feel!

Jules- I hope everything is ok this morning, sending you positive vibes

morning SK totally understand being nervous x

jules, how are you my love?

Went to bed early last night was totally whacked.

jules - how are you feeling today, I hope the bleeding has stopped

sfxmum - glad you could come and join us but sad you have to IYSWIM. I found that in the first few weeks of my mc this place held me together, I don't want to leave now even though I am pregnant again. Before I had my mc I had no idea the effect having one has on you not just the physical but the emotional as well. Theres still not a day goes past I don't think about it and I think I am "lucky" in only having one. What it does make you do is really appreciate what you do have. Take it easy xxx

lissie - waves hello x

well i am up in the middle of the night . . . again

just want to say that i am praying, chanting, vibing (all non-denominational of course) that everything goes okay, miss jules.

xxx

phew. im sure it will be ok

oh sweetheart. have you called lWH? thats what they are there for!

oh jules, im so glad and will cross everything for you.

i know. its hard to explain to someone who's never been through it.

jules hoping that everything is OK, I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

ILTS Fantastic news! CONGRATULATIONS!

sfxmum so sorry you had to join us but welcome. This really is a great place for support.

Tjuice glad to hear that everything is OK, have you eaten all the takeaway?

thanks lissie, I feel ok and have good support, but I guess at some point it is just good to have people who really know what is happening

jules, what did the hospital do/say?

hi, im sorry you are here, but this is a great, very supportive thread x

hi all thought I'd join you as am in the middle of mc, my 4th but not consecutive and I have a 2.6yr old dd.

bit late and I am tired but wanted to add this to my active convos as was kindly directed here

omg jules, are you ok honey? did you get another scan/call LWH? is there anything i can do?