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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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yummymummy1230 · 03/01/2022 14:14

@Skl2021 thank you !!! Yes Iv had my blood tests and they've said hormone levels are normal. I also had an internal exam which also came back fine and they couldn't see any issues so eveything is coming back normal.

Just have to keep trying. It's hard to know when ovulating because my periods are not regular so that's a pain.

I'm late this month by 6 days. 2 days ago I took a pregnancy test but it's negative. Don't know why but I have a feeling I am pregnant because keep needing a wee and also feel slightly bloated! But don't want to get hopes high. So might wait another week and test again

yummymummy1230 · 03/01/2022 14:12

@Nikkic2123 Wow!!! Congrats glad it all worked out for u. Fingers crossed hope u also get ur BFP!!!

Nikkic2123 · 03/01/2022 11:31

@yummymummy1230

Can I join??

Me an DH have been trying for a year an half with no luck. Been to docs and everything comes back fine blood tests scans etc.

I really hope we get our BFP soon!!!

We tried 4.5 years for my first, unexplained infertility! Conceived after 18 months, ended in mc. We went through every test possible after. Sent us for IUI and discovered a cyst filling up and emptying at certain times with my cycle, turns out I had endo. Had it removed, conceived in 6 months for DS, 0 months for DD, 4 months for 4th pregnancy, ended in mc last June, 8 cycles later I'm still trying, would be due my last baby tomorrow, maybe my body is feeling it and I'll conceive later this month or feb x

It's not easy that's for sure.

Nikkic2123 · 03/01/2022 11:26

#CD2
Another little bit of inspiration x

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:43

@Nikkic2123 lovely quote 🙌 we will get there and it only makes us stronger ❤️

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Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 22:29

A wee bit of inspiration x

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:24

@yummymummy1230 welcome 🎉 sorry to hear it's taking so long. Have u been referred anywhere? Or are you having more tests? X

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yummymummy1230 · 02/01/2022 22:06

Can I join??

Me an DH have been trying for a year an half with no luck. Been to docs and everything comes back fine blood tests scans etc.

I really hope we get our BFP soon!!!

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:01

@Lozzie118 brill 🤗 keep us updated! 🎉✨

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Lozzie118 · 02/01/2022 21:46

[quote Skl2021]@Lozzie118 have u been testing? Yes I'm doing fine thankyou no ovulation signs yet xx[/quote]
Oh I am always testing lovely x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 21:08

@Lozzie118 have u been testing? Yes I'm doing fine thankyou no ovulation signs yet xx

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Lozzie118 · 02/01/2022 19:58

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 im sorry but at least your not in limbo now. Onwards and upwards to the next cycle I'm glad you have a plan of action it sounds like just what u need. Taking a step back and not stressing 🤞 yes the preeseed might be the trick 🙌 were here if you need to talk 💞✨

@Lozzie118 hope your doing ok! ✨ X[/quote]
I've been cramping a little bit tonight xx you ok x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 18:43

@Nikkic2123 im sorry but at least your not in limbo now. Onwards and upwards to the next cycle I'm glad you have a plan of action it sounds like just what u need. Taking a step back and not stressing 🤞 yes the preeseed might be the trick 🙌 were here if you need to talk 💞✨

@Lozzie118 hope your doing ok! ✨ X

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Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 18:28

@Skl2021
Is here! She’s arrived 😭
I’m stepping away. I’m making a plan of when to DTD to cover ovulation on day 13 or 16 and I’m not opk testing, I’m buying pre seed s recommended by @Lozzie118 and I will just let whatever happens happen x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 15:39

@Nikkic2123 don't beat yourself up about it. I was once 2 weeks late and it was torture It drove me insane and I was testing all the time. Stressed me right out. I know it's easier said than done but try and step away xx

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Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 15:16

This is the first time I’ve ever been late and not pregnant.
I’m not a tester so am always usually 3/4 days late before I test.
I’m sorry I did test. 😭

michelle2999 · 02/01/2022 15:02

@Nikkic2123 is this the first time you've been this late? I know some people don't test positive until a while after their periods are due so maybe you are one of them 🤞🏻 x

Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 14:41

@michelle2999
It’s horrible, I’m never poas again.
No opk and no hcg. Both are evil for me. Opk I think divert me from ovulation.
Those Amazon tests I think most are fake x
Though I’m sure yours were ok x

michelle2999 · 02/01/2022 14:05

@Nikkic2123 I got mine from Amazon. I've also had all the pains, my boobs don't hurt like normal, I don't have any spots like normal and I am definitely more tired than usual. It's just a waiting game now. I actually want to come on just because it's a really complicated situation atm. But hopefully you'll either have a positive test soon or you'll come on so a new cycle can begin 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 12:10

@michelle2999 It’s soul destroying.
Do you think you maybe had a chemical? Where did you buy your FR from?

I haven’t ever had feint lines, I’ve had breast pain, cramps, back ache, all the symptoms, just not positive tests x

michelle2999 · 02/01/2022 11:57

@Nikkic2123 I'm also late. One week late now and have all the pains but no period and apart from 2 frer tests with faint lines different brand last night was completely blank x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 11:41

@Nikkic2123 could well be that's why it's late! Not much u can do apart from wait it out 😩 it's horrible when your late and get negative tests! X

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Nikkic2123 · 02/01/2022 09:36

So looking back at my tests, I could have ovulated on cd 15.
My LH was high from CD12 an CD14
If I take the latter, ovulation could have been cd15/16
Meaning AF is due today or tomorrow. Making me currently 12dpo today.

This has never happened before and none of this explains why yesterday I had cramps and back ache with no AF

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Skl2021 · 01/01/2022 21:25

@Nikkic2123 I'm so sorry 😩 sending hugs your way 💞 keep strong! ❤️

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Nikkic2123 · 01/01/2022 21:13

Tests showing BFN 😭