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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Springflower3 · 26/07/2021 10:03

Lol @Skl2021 it can be hard to justify spending money on frer! I used a cheapie at around 10dpo and that was the one I thought I seen a shadow but really nothing was there..... the. The next day I used a frer and the line was there! I would hundred percent say if I was using the cheapies I would haven't have got BFP till my period was due xx

Skl2021 · 26/07/2021 09:35

@Nats7504 @Springflower3 what dpo were use when u got the bfp? X

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Skl2021 · 26/07/2021 09:34

@Nats7504 @Springflower3 just a cheapie one step test which are shit anyway but I'm not wasting money on frer with the amount I go through 🤣🙊 there usually good at giving evap lines and I can't even get one of them 🤣 xx

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Springflower3 · 26/07/2021 09:25

My AF was 13th June..... although it still doesn't make sense! Maybe at our dating scans it will tally up 🤷‍♀️ cause conception happened at the same time ffs 🤣🤣🤣
I am tired, hormonal with waves of nausea! My sense of smell is defo a bit heightened as well! I honestly am having anxiety about the scan next week.... I am hundred percent convinced I have a blighted ovum or no heartbeat! Xx

Nats7504 · 26/07/2021 09:21

@Skl2021 Aww, you’re out POAS addicts. Hopefully the spotting won’t arrive and you’ll be joining us on the BFP train soon. What tests are you using? The first test I used was a cheapy and the line was barely there but on a FRER it was much darker.

@Springflower3 I’ve used the dating app on based on my AF starting on 18th June that’s the date it gives me. When did your AF start? I feel ok, just tired and hormonal! How about you? Xx

Springflower3 · 26/07/2021 09:16

@Nats7504 I am so confused how we ovulated at the same time and got BFP at the same time that we are not at the same stage??? 🤣🤣 this confuses me! I haven't bought any more for fear it hasn't changed to 3+ 🙈 how's the symptoms???

Aww @Skl2021 there is always hope until AF shows... there is nothing so far! How sensitive are the tests your using??

@Lozzie118 I am not sure tbh... like the digital ones are less sensitive than the frer.... have you tried one of those?? Like the not pregnant could be cause by loads of things! Do you feel it is your period? Xx

Lozzie118 · 26/07/2021 08:56

Can you get a pregnant 1-2 on clearblue digi and then get your period?x

Skl2021 · 26/07/2021 08:50

@Lozzie118 sorry to hear that 😩 xx

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Skl2021 · 26/07/2021 08:49

@Nats7504 I'm getting impatient now so had to test 🤣🙈 usually spot today or tomorrow so we will see don't have much hope xx

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Lozzie118 · 26/07/2021 08:47

[quote Nats7504]**@Lozzie118* Both @Springflower3* and I had a little bit of bleeding after having sex? How are you feeling this morning? I have everything crossed for you xx[/quote]
Haven't had sex lol as been working heavy bleeding this morning girls xx

Nats7504 · 26/07/2021 08:46

@Lozzie118 Both @Springflower3 and I had a little bit of bleeding after having sex? How are you feeling this morning? I have everything crossed for you xx

Nats7504 · 26/07/2021 08:45

Morning Everyone 😊 and welcome to the newbies!

@Skl2021 I hadn’t even started testing at 10DPO, the only thing that made me test was I started to get weird cramps which I never have and hadn’t yet started spotting. You’re in until the witch arrives!

@Springflower3 How are you feeling? Over 6 weeks, yay! Half way to scan. Have you referred yourself to the midwife yet? I’m 5+4 today and got a 3+ on a clear blue digital so stepping away from testing now. Xx

Skl2021 · 26/07/2021 08:38

@Springflower3 yes been testing everyday. No lines 😭 I'm 10 dpo so think I'm out. Expecting to start spotting any time now. Xx

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Springflower3 · 26/07/2021 08:37

Hello to the new ladies joint us crazy ppl!!! 😬😬😬
@Lozzie118 I didn't get a positive on digital until the day of my missed period so try not to let that panic you! How is the bleeding this morning???

@Misp you close to me and @Nats7504! I am 6+1 today 🥰 try not to panic and his response might surprise you!! Or it will just take a while for him to come round!

@Skl2021 have you tested yet??? Xx

Skl2021 · 25/07/2021 16:52

@lozzie118 digitals need a higher hcg to register and with it not being fmu it might not be high enough. I'm not sure what more u can do it's just a waiting game see if the bleeding stops. Hopefully it does and test again in a few days 🤞 xx

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Lozzie118 · 25/07/2021 16:38

[quote Skl2021]@Lozzie118 spotting is usually light and not enough to wear a pad or tampon. Usually just when u wipe. Hopefully it stops and doesn't get any heavier 🤞 xx[/quote]
Just got this x

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Tiredmum31111 · 25/07/2021 16:36

@Lozzie118 sorry you are having such a worrying time.
I bled early in with both my pregnancy's and all was fine so hope everything settles down soon. They worry is awful I can totally remember being in pieces at the time xx

Skl2021 · 25/07/2021 16:30

@Lozzie118 spotting is usually light and not enough to wear a pad or tampon. Usually just when u wipe. Hopefully it stops and doesn't get any heavier 🤞 xx

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Lozzie118 · 25/07/2021 15:28

[quote Skl2021]@Lozzie118 I'm sorry to hear that. Is it alot or just spotting? Some people do bleed in pregnancy and go on to have healthy pregnancy xx[/quote]
Its pinky or red and mostly when I wipe sorry TMI x where the definition of spotting?x

Skl2021 · 25/07/2021 15:21

@Lozzie118 I'm sorry to hear that. Is it alot or just spotting? Some people do bleed in pregnancy and go on to have healthy pregnancy xx

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Lozzie118 · 25/07/2021 15:09

I have started bleeding today x

Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 22:30

@misp welcome! There's a few ladies on here with bfp probably around same time as you aswell if u need some support! ☺️ It's still early days and u need to get your head around it first before u tell DH! Take a deep breath and just take some time! Don't be so hard on yourself I'm sure things will work out 💕 xx

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 22:26

@Tiredmum31111 haha u never know! I'm a pee on a stick aholic so I would test anyway 🤣🤦 won't hurt ya 🙊 xx

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Lozzie118 · 24/07/2021 21:46

@Misp

Can I join? Just discovered I’m pregnant with number 3. We were not preventing not trying thinking it might take ages (or not happen) as it’s 5 years since we had our second. But two months later I’m now 5 weeks pregnant and trying to work out how I feel and how to tell DH. I’m worried he’s going to be upset/ disappointed it’s happened so quickly. I suddenly feel very aware it was mainly me pushing for us to ‘see what happened’. I’m thinking I might see how I do getting to 6 weeks and then tell him when my head is clearer. I can’t quite believe it’s real at the moment and wonder if I will have an early miscarriage. Feels surreal at the moment! Good luck to everyone trying.
Hey lovely, I'm 4 weeks plus 1. My other children are 5 and 2. I also thought it would take ages but conceived on 1st cycle trying x
Misp · 24/07/2021 21:40

Can I join? Just discovered I’m pregnant with number 3. We were not preventing not trying thinking it might take ages (or not happen) as it’s 5 years since we had our second. But two months later I’m now 5 weeks pregnant and trying to work out how I feel and how to tell DH. I’m worried he’s going to be upset/ disappointed it’s happened so quickly. I suddenly feel very aware it was mainly me pushing for us to ‘see what happened’. I’m thinking I might see how I do getting to 6 weeks and then tell him when my head is clearer. I can’t quite believe it’s real at the moment and wonder if I will have an early miscarriage. Feels surreal at the moment! Good luck to everyone trying.