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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 15:13

@Nikkic2123 thankyou. I hope it happens soon I just want it over with now. The waiting is horrible. Thanks for that picture we will get through this 💕 I hope you get your happy ever after soon 🤞 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 15:07

This is for anyone who needs it!
I seen it today! Life has dealt me some very shitty hands! This i can relate to.

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 14:01

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I'm so sorry you have been through this 😭 it's devastating I am just overcome with different emotions. Don't think like that your not a bad person these things happen 💔 it's such a cruel world sometimes. I'm going to try the natural route but I'm just so scared of what's going to happen. I'm hoping it starts soon aswell. How long did it take for you to start? I should be 12 weeks tomorrow and baby was 10 so I'm 2 weeks waiting now xx[/quote]
I was 9 weeks but baby stopped growing at 7 weeks.
We went for a private scan on Monday thinking everything was ok, there was no heartbeat. I was referred to the hospital and got an appointment on the Wednesday but started bleeding by coincidence the day after the scan, the day before hospital appointment, they were happy to let it pass through itself and warned if I soaked more that 3 pads an hour I’d to go straight to a&e

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 13:36

@Nats7504 you never think it will happen to you until it does 😩💔 I think I'm just numb need a few days to let it sink in. I thought I was safe especially after seeing a strong heartbeat but it wasn't meant to be. I don't know if I can do this again 😭 xx

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Nats7504 · 18/10/2021 13:33

@Skl2021 I don’t think anyone does when you are pretty much 12 weeks. You think you’re safe and through the worst. I’ve never been through it so have no experience but I can only imagine how scary the process must be. Be kind to yourself.. cry, mourn, scream when you need too. Xx

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 13:27

@Nats7504 thankyou 💞 I don't know what to do or feel. It's like it's not real I really wasn't expecting this outcome 😭 xx

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 13:26

@Nikkic2123 I'm so sorry you have been through this 😭 it's devastating I am just overcome with different emotions. Don't think like that your not a bad person these things happen 💔 it's such a cruel world sometimes. I'm going to try the natural route but I'm just so scared of what's going to happen. I'm hoping it starts soon aswell. How long did it take for you to start? I should be 12 weeks tomorrow and baby was 10 so I'm 2 weeks waiting now xx

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Nats7504 · 18/10/2021 13:25

@Skl2021 Aww lovely. I wasn’t expecting that message. I’m so sorry 😞 My heart breaks for you both. 💔 You too @Nikkic2123 life is so bloody cruel. Xx

Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 13:05

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 that's pretty much how I feel. I'm in shock / disbalief. Angry upset. Just can't process it all. If you don't mind me asking can I ask if you miscarried naturally? I'm pretty scared of what's about to happen now 😭 xx[/quote]
I did, it was horrendous. I started bleeding normally on a Tuesday, the following Friday I soaked two pads an hour until I passed a huge clot, I then bled normally but heavy until the Monday I passed the gestational sack (it was 2cm)

I thanked God for small mercies, as my cycle went back to normal pretty soon after.
My pregnancy tests were positive for 5 weeks after! I’ll never forget it and I’m still devastated by the whole ordeal. I feel like “why me” I must be a really bad person. 😭
I’m so sorry, I hate that this has happened to you.
If you want any more questions answered, I’m here x

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 12:56

@Nikkic2123 that's pretty much how I feel. I'm in shock / disbalief. Angry upset. Just can't process it all. If you don't mind me asking can I ask if you miscarried naturally? I'm pretty scared of what's about to happen now 😭 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 12:43

[quote Skl2021]**@Nikkic2123* @Nats7504* I have lost the baby at 10 weeks. We are heartbroken x[/quote]
Oh no! I’m so sorry. I have no words.
I lost my baby in June at 9 weeks, I know I wanted to curl up and be alone.
I’m not saying I know how you feel but I know it feels awful and no words can describe the devastation.
Keep talking to your family, I’m so so very sorry

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 12:21

@Nikkic2123 @Nats7504 I have lost the baby at 10 weeks. We are heartbroken x

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Nats7504 · 18/10/2021 11:20

@Skl2021 Oh no, that must be so worrying. I have everything crossed for you lovely. Let us know how you get on x

Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 11:15

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💕
@Nats7504 Its scaring me because it's bright red and I'm getting period pains. Previous bleeding had no pains. Scared to go to the toilet 😩 yes IV got an appointment at 11 so not long to wait now 🤞 xx[/quote]
Really hoping all is well x

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Skl2021 · 18/10/2021 10:25

@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💕
@Nats7504 Its scaring me because it's bright red and I'm getting period pains. Previous bleeding had no pains. Scared to go to the toilet 😩 yes IV got an appointment at 11 so not long to wait now 🤞 xx

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Nats7504 · 18/10/2021 10:18

@Skl2021 I would definitely get it checked out. Hopefully they’ll find a reason for it. It’s scary bleeding when you get closer to the ‘safe’ time. I had a little bit around that time but it was only when I wiped, I put it down to my body stretching. Have you called the EPU yet? Xx

Nikkic2123 · 18/10/2021 07:27

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I hope so I'm petrified 😭🙌 xx[/quote]
Good luck today xx

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Skl2021 · 17/10/2021 22:53

@Nikkic2123 I hope so I'm petrified 😭🙌 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 17/10/2021 22:38

Summer salts x

Nikkic2123 · 17/10/2021 22:37

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 definitely only the one in there! Had two scans already xx[/quote]
Ahhhh, we rascal must be doing dinner salts in there xx

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Skl2021 · 17/10/2021 22:33

@Nikkic2123 definitely only the one in there! Had two scans already xx

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Nikkic2123 · 17/10/2021 21:46

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thankyou I'm going to ring epu in morning and hopefully they will see me 🤞 just hope it doesn't get any worse over night xx[/quote]
Hopefully baby just got bigger all of a sudden and caused it and all is well.
Do you know if it’s a Singleton or twins?

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Skl2021 · 17/10/2021 21:44

@Nikkic2123 thankyou I'm going to ring epu in morning and hopefully they will see me 🤞 just hope it doesn't get any worse over night xx

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Nikkic2123 · 17/10/2021 21:30

[quote Skl2021]@Nats7504 yes it made me panic I was so scared. Last few times it's been like dark browny pinky but this time was fresh blood and alot more of it. Still there sometimes when I go toilet but it's pink now so might ring epu in the morning and see if there's anything I should do. It was shut over the weekend. My scans next week 😩 when I'm like 13 weeks. I'm getting periody pains aswell. Never had any of this with my previous pregnancies x[/quote]
Good luck
I hope everything is ok - keep us informed x

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Skl2021 · 17/10/2021 19:07

@Nats7504 yes it made me panic I was so scared. Last few times it's been like dark browny pinky but this time was fresh blood and alot more of it. Still there sometimes when I go toilet but it's pink now so might ring epu in the morning and see if there's anything I should do. It was shut over the weekend. My scans next week 😩 when I'm like 13 weeks. I'm getting periody pains aswell. Never had any of this with my previous pregnancies x

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