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@ChinChilly I don't have it but have been following lottiedrynan on insta for ages and she seems to looove hers and it's not an ad lol.

@kat668 perfect timing! Hopefully ovulation happens pre weekend so you don't have to stress about missing the egg

@MissM94 thank you x

@ChinChilly yeah it's tough, yesterday would have been my scan, but luckily work was really busy and took my mind off it. I've gone back and caught up, and just want to say I hope you're OK and the referral, whether private or with Tommy's goes well x

I haven't got one but I've heard good things! I always check independent review pages to see what people are saying too, might be worth checking those with that price?

This morning I got my negative test, and I haven't bled for a few days so think I'm gunna start TTC again today! 🤭 I had loads of EWCM yesterday evening so not sure if that's just the end of the MC or whether my body is already ovulating but I'm not ginna risk it and miss my window! 😂

@Kat668 sorry your finding it hard, I get it sometimes I sit and think about the milestones we would of hit by now, finding out the gender, 20 week scan etc... it's really tough.

Random question ladies, does anyone have the dyson airwrap? I'm pretty tempted to buy one but the price tag isn't cheap (£450) so I'm trying to figure out if it's worth the price tag or not.

@Kat668 thank you ♥️ sorry you're having such a hard time atm x

@Juno231 and @Sunshinedaisybuttermellow thank you both. Love a good hot tub so will make the most of being able to go in! It's a girly weekend so hubby won't be affected 😂 need to look at the positives as this weekend was when I was meant to be telling them I was pregnant so will be a bit tough.

@Kat668 sorry you've been having an awful time. Personally I would go in the hot tub, maybe just drop it a couple of degrees or don't stay in too long if concerned.

@kat668 I'm sorry you've had a rough time of it. The hot tub precaution is when you're already pregnant I think, as it's about the raising of your body temp potentially harming the baby the same way it's really bad for you to have a fever when pregnant. Around ovulation it won't have an effect - although it might for OH's swimmers if he's going too!

I'd say don't overthink it as you could be a while away from ovulation if unlucky - lots of post MC cycles get wonky. Focus on relaxing and having a good time, you deserve it!

@MissM94 huge congratulations that's such wonderful news!

Hey everyone :) sorry I've been absent from here after the MC. Had a few complications with it so needed some time off. I think fingers crossed I'm at the end of it now so starting to think about TTC again. Will be doing a test soon to double check it's all done with. Quick question though, I'm going on a weekend away to a cottage with a hot tub this weekend. If I'm negative and could be leading up to ovulation, would it be best to not go in the hot tub? I know the docs said to wait for the first period so they can date it easier but I just want to get started ASAP and don't want to do anything that might jeopardise it.

Anyway hope your all well!

@Moocher90 thank you! X

@MissM94 congrats on the BFP!! X

@Juno231 I used the excuse "I'm growing your child" to my partner last night to get more back tickles so think I'm finally accepting I am pregnant 😂 thank you xxx

@Juno231 thank you, you're so right!

@TheDaydreamBelievers thank you ♥️

@ChinChilly honestly I feel loads better, I really am being positive and acknowledging what I currently am, you've helped me massively so thank you for that xxx

@MissM94 ahh thank you, that's really kind, hope you're feeling better about everything xx

@MissM94 yup keep reminding yourself "today I am pregnant" - cause that's all that matters! Enjoy it xxx

@ChinChilly thank you so much, you're so strong I'm in absolute awe of you.. you're so right ♥️

@MissM94 I would say just let the excitement happen, I spent the entire time I was pregnant waiting for something bad to happen I didn't allow my self to enjoy it or be excited and it didn't make it any easier when we found out the was no heartbeat but I'd spent the previous 12 weeks anxious about something happening whereas I could of spent it being happy and excited...the outcome wouldn't of been any different but getting over it wouldn't of been either so for now you are pregnant so enjoy it.

@MissC07 thank you! ♥️

@ChinChilly aww bloody hell (no pun intended!!) make sure you have a nice bubble bath to ease the pain and flow haha! It slowly is but I'm so scared of something happening it's taking over me getting excited! I'm annoyed I got symptoms so early and tested haha I've never had a loss and I don't know anyone IRL who has, but cos I've read so much on here I know it's so common so I'm trying not to get too attached because tbh I don't know how I would get over it, if it was to go that way 😩 but it's out of my control isn't it currently, I'll be okay when I hopefully see something on my scan in a couple of weeks haha

@MissM94 I'm ok thank you apart from having the longest heaviest period to date! Just plodding along until my appointment really...how are you feeling? Has it all sunk in yet?

@MissM94 Wow congratulations. Keeping everything crossed for you!!

CD136 for me... hope you're all doing ok ❤️

@ChinChilly thank you so much 🥺♥️ how are you doing?

@MissM94 Yayyy!! Congratulations lovely ❤

@Sunshinedaisybuttermellow thank you! 🥺

@TheDaydreamBelievers aw thank you!