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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 16/07/2021 14:46

In the shimmering summer heat, we need to head for the water to cool down and relax. Bring your inflatable flamingo, your romcom read and your sunscreen, cause it's time for a pool party!

Welcome to the 12th post pill party thread. We are here for women who have recently come off the pill... and women like me who not-so-recently came off the pill! Share and get support with the highs and lows of TTC.

I can see these people rockin' up with their cossies on:

Ladies already at the soiree:

@ChinChilly
@Juno231
@CharWils
@Moocher90
@MissM94
@MissC07
@Kay00
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@pineapple2021
@Theosmommy2011
@Lovebug06
@WhirlingD
@Carolinesturn
@Tillybabs
@redclueless
@Cams50
@sunshinedaisybuttermellow

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Kay00 · 04/08/2021 10:44

@Kem1234 Welcome! It does seem that you fall into a similar pattern of long cycles as many of us women on this thread. It could be something like PCOS causing delayed cycles (my only symptom was irregular periods too) but you won't know for sure until you get checked out by a fertility specialist. Are you taking any supplements to help with cycle regularity?

Kem1234 · 04/08/2021 10:08

Hi everyone, newbie here. I'm 9 months off the pill and on cycle 5. Currently day 60 of my longest cycle with a peak OPK on Monday. Absolutely no idea what I'm doing, doctors won't speak to me yet. I'm not sure about PCOS as irregular period is my only symptom, so frustrating! Especially when everyone I know falls pregnant 3 seconds after stopping the pill.

Juno231 · 04/08/2021 10:02

@TheDaydreamBelievers nooo what even is that?! Did you take it much earlier at all? Mouth open?

TheDaydreamBelievers · 04/08/2021 07:24

@MissC07 arghhhh so frustrating!

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 04/08/2021 07:10

Nevermind my hopes. I either did not ovulate yet or this will be a super short cycle overall. Temps down again already

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MissC07 · 03/08/2021 18:58

@Juno231 the doc went 'well as long as you have 4 periods a year then that's fine....' 🤬 I really would like it after my holiday as I know I sound over dramatic but I don't want it to ruin my holiday. The pathetic 4 cycles I've had post pill I've always had a 14 day LP so I keep working dates out on the calendar if by some miracle I do ovulate and AF arrives! (Chart attached for just pure embarrassment)

@Kay00 congrats on your appointment and clomid!!

@TheDaydreamBelievers keeping everything crossed for you!!

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 03/08/2021 15:04

Hand a tiny bit of pinky brown cm today and ofc am off daydreaming that its implantation on 6dpo 🙄 #itsthehopethatkillsyou

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Kay00 · 03/08/2021 11:01

Welcome @Theosmommy2011 @Woo8723 !!

Morning ladies. I had my follow up appointment with the fertility consultant this morning. We discussed the results of the HyCoSy (my poly cystic ovaries) and the Metformin which I have started. She has now also prescribed me Clomid (hurray!!).

I think I have just ovulated (CD20/21) so I might give Metformin another cycle to work its magic after this one, then on to my 1st Clomid cycle. If my cycles play ball then I will be starting Clomid mid/late Sept.

Clomid will induce ovulation in 80% of women, and will lead to pregnancy for 40%, so I have my fingers crossed I will fit into that 40%!!

Theosmommy2011 · 03/08/2021 10:16

@Juno231 I hadn't realised that with the POP, thank you for that :-). Yes, I'll just wait on a withdrawal bleed and go from there. Fingers crossed it comes soon xx

Woo8723 · 03/08/2021 10:08

@Juno231 aw thanks so much for your reply. I don’t usually test after ovulation but will do this month to see if it sheds any light on what’s going on! x

Juno231 · 03/08/2021 10:01

@Woo8723 welcome! Do you carry on testing after ovulation? Only asking as LPs can be max 18 days long I think so in your 39 and 41 day cycles it's likely you caught a surge that didn't actually turn into ovulation and you ovulated later?

Woo8723 · 03/08/2021 09:46

Hi all, I’m new here. I came off the pill nearly 12 months ago and have been TTC since. Early miscarriage in April but nothing since. Test every month for ovulation using clear blue and always get a still smiley between days 15-18. My last two cycles have been all over the place since my first Covid vaccine - usually they’re 27-31 days but my last two have been 39 and 41 days. Still ovulating around the same time though. Had my second vaccine last week so goodness knows what effect that’ll have. Really fed up 😞 Rang the doctors this morning but they could only offer me a telephone appointment two weeks away.

Juno231 · 03/08/2021 09:44

@Theosmommy2011 problem is that it's a fake cycle whilst on the pill - completely regulated by the meds and not your body. First stop for you now is to wait for a withdrawal bleed and then your real cycle commences :)

Theosmommy2011 · 03/08/2021 09:36

@Juno231 thank you. Well my cycle didn't change at all whilst on the pill so I am really hoping it will remain unchanged now. I haven't had any bleeding at all since stopping, just a waiting game now to see what happens. I'm so eager to get started xx

Juno231 · 03/08/2021 09:17

@Theosmommy2011 welcome! Are your 28 day cycles based on the pill though? If so they're not real cycles and it remains to be seen when AF (have you had a withdrawal bleed?) shows. Hopefully on time though so TTC can properly get started :)

@TheDaydreamBelievers thank you for the thread, I'll pop on there in a jiffy

@MissC07 oof it does look like triple digits is happening doesn't it?! And your docs just don't care? Would you prefer it coming during your holiday or being so late it comes after?

Theosmommy2011 · 03/08/2021 09:10

Morning ladies. Hope you are all well. Just thought I would give an update. So I finally binned the cerazette, I'm on cycle day 24 of a usual 28/29 day cycle, so hoping AF shows on time. Really nervous for it as I think the pill was helping with my endo pain. Had an array of symptoms coming off the pill, tons of cramping, nausea and breast tenderness. My endo pain has increased a little but I have to just go with it at this point xx

Kay00 · 02/08/2021 21:09

@kat668 I used to (day) dream about telling my mum that I was pregnant, I think she would be so happy, but I try not to think about it now... 😒

Kat668 · 02/08/2021 19:59

@Kay00 that dream would make me sad waking up and realising I'm not there! Ha ha!

@TheDaydreamBelievers thank you! I'll go join it :)

TheDaydreamBelievers · 02/08/2021 19:21

Thread here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/4312873-Weight-Loss-x-Conception?watched=1&msgid=109611855#109611855 @kay00 @Juno231 @MissC07 @ChinChilly @Kat668 and anyone else who fancies it

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 02/08/2021 19:11

Okay, I'm going to create a thread!

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MissC07 · 02/08/2021 19:08

@TheDaydreamBelievers I'd definitely be up for that group!! I'm the heaviest I've ever been, although I am tall but that's no excuse!!

@Kay00 woohoo for ovulation 🎊

CD91 for me and not a whiff of Ovulation.... any bets on whether it'll happen before I get to triple figures?? I'm supposed to be going on holiday at the end of this month so sods law AF will arrive in horrific fashion then!!

Juno231 · 02/08/2021 15:36

@kay00 omg proof that you have a normal cycle nowadays!! Get banging Grin

Kay00 · 02/08/2021 15:23

Haha, that's an awesome dream.

It seems tis the season to ovulate... hopefully mine is just around the corner too! Grin fingers crossed.

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Juno231 · 02/08/2021 14:42

@kay00 haha what a fab dream! I dreamt that I was in a caravan out at sea watching blue whales in the water and then one of them flipped the caravan and plummeted us to the bottom of the sea... Cue panicked escape from being trapped in a rapidly filling up container. I still woke up mainly happy from having seen whales though lol.

@Kat668 oof that sucks - I've had similar dreams before and they really mess with your head

@TheDaydreamBelievers I'm glad counselling felt positive - I hope it will help xx

Kay00 · 02/08/2021 13:53

@Kat668 Sad that's the worst kind of dream... I had a dream that I was in South Korea eating sushi and working as an undercover detective Grin haha! Such an odd dream!

@TheDaydreamBelievers yes, I'm up for a weight loss thread too Grin. I don't have huge amounts to loose but I will be watching my sugar intake forever more!