🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

@spotsmama
Glad you had a great weekend, I was drunk yesterday dying today took myself to bed with Netflix and not moving the rest of the day lol. 💚

Been away camping for a long weekend, encouraged by my husband to get out and it would do me good. He was right, so great to get away and unwind.
It's so lovely catching uo on this thread, makes me realise I'm not the only one going through this and everything I feel seems normal. Wishing you all well on this crazy scary journey. Xox

@H0peing congratulations on the BFP. Fingers crossed for you xx

@EmiGoiko Sending you lots of love and hope it goes really well at your 6 week scan xxxx

@HOpeing
Omg congratulations girl praying this is your sticky baby, go to the paperclip and add the photo that way. 💚

@kiwi17 I guess it depends when you ovulate etc but based on what I've read online it seems that a lot of bfp's don't show until around 14dpo / the day of the expected period or even later. I'm hoping you get your bfp very soon! Xx

@Babyghirl A bed day sounds great! Hoping you get your bfp in September xxxx

Hello all,

I've not been on here recently as I'm on a week away near Camber Sands. Not much beach weather though lol! Last full day today. I was feeling a lot of nausea, sore boobs and bloated yesterday so I decided to take a pregnancy test. I wasn't sure when to test as my last bleed was a miscarriage but, according to my Clearblue peak day, I think I was 10dpo and I got a positive 1-2 weeks on a Clearblue digital! I was going to post a pic but I can't seem to do that. I was so worried that I'd taken the progesterone pessaries too early and prevented pregnancy! Really hoping that taking the pessaries and the low dose aspirin earlier will help this time! Xx

Well CD8 for me and I have my ovulation pain on the left hand side so looks like it's going to be a 24 day cycle for me this month again. Abit Green today oh working so think lm going to have a bed day today and watch a load of films and chill after I get my cleaning done lol 💚

Great days girls tucked up in bed nw going to watch ice rial Liam nesson x

Thanks @PeanuttyButter, you're right. It's a good way to look at it. I'm going to try and relax.

@kiwi17 so hard to resist testing isn't it! 10 dpo is too early, so stay hopeful. Fingers crossed.

Hahaha @babyghirl brilliant. Sounds like it will be a good night!

@babyghirl have one for me!

Haha @Babyghirl love it 😆 I'm 10dpo here, af due Tuesday apparently although that seems a bit early! Stupidly took a test this afternoon (Why?!) And it was a bfn obviously but I haven't started spotting yet so staying positive!

Well I'm drunk girls llf pray for me tomorrow 😂😂😂😂😂 how's ur weekend going firs lol xx

@EmiGoiko I know exactly what you mean and how you feel. I was like that the first time not wanting to call the GP and make it real, but I've decided that nothing I do will change the outcome of what's going to happen. I did everything right last time and look how that turned out. I can't remember my symptoms and stuff from this time last time round because I was so stressed at the thought of being pregnant! Crazy

To clarify, it's not that I don't think there is a point. It's more like I feel so scared and pessimistic I can't bring myself to ring up my gp and make it real. I don't know if that makes sense.

@PeanuttyButter they say symptoms come and go so try not to worry, especially cramp. I remember with my DD they would be different one day to the next.

I am in a similar place amd so anxious that all my cramps have stopped and my only other symptom (tender boobs) is mild. Having had a MMC I know what a mind F*ck it is, not knowing is hell. It's so tough. Hang on in there.

Good for you getting the ball rolling on getting a midwife appointment and scan. I'd really push and tell them how anxious you are. My epu have always been great when I explain my history.

I haven't booked anything yet or registered with midwife. I'm too scared. I feel like there is no point. I think if I can get to 6 weeks then I'll try and get a scan to check there actually is a baby this time. 6 weeks is still 5 days away- a lifetime (and then I go on holiday so great timing!)

@Emigoiko
Fingers crossed it is all r months 🤞🙏🍀💚
@PeanuttyButter
Pregnancy after a miscarriage is awful your just waiting on it happening bank Holiday on Monday so I think everywhere will be closed but hopefully they can sort u out for an early scan on Tuesday 💚

@ELM7 glad things are going well for your mum. It's so great that you saw a heartbeat. At this early stage it's so difficult to date but have my fingers crossed that your next scan will bring good news.

@Babyghirl hope September is your month too, lucky that your active all month long. DH is done in after fertile week and isn't interested haha

Well I don't feel pregnant at all today which I know is strange. Not really had sore boobs but had no nausea or cramping today. Wouldn't have thought anything about it usually but with my MMC I remember feeling 'normal' for a few days, a few weeks before we found out. Just need the next few weeks to go quickly so I can get a scan. Planning on ringing GP Monday to get the ball rolling on my midwife referral, hoping they send me for a scan to be honest due to me not having had a true bleed since my ERPC at the start of June. If not will get a private one done, don't want to go the same place as last time but the other place only does them from 7 weeks not 6!

Ah @PeanuttyButter that is so hard. I'm sorry 😔. I am seeing one of my best friends tomorrow and her new baby. I was so excited before our MMC as we would have been due 10 weeks after her (this September) and we would have been on maternity leave together. I'm sort of dreading seeing her, even though I miss her and I know it will be nice.

Good luck @ttcissoboring and @Babyghirl , hope this is your month!

@ELM7 so glad to hear your mum is recovering. ❤ That's great you saw a heartbeat! I'll be hoping and praying that everything is fine in the next scan. I know it must be a worrying time. Try and find things to distract yourself and keep busy in the next two weeks.

@ELM7
Glad things r going well for ur mum and she nw recovering, have my fingers crossed little bean catches up on dates at nxt scan and sure this has added to ur worries hoping September is another lucky month for me and it sticks this time 💚

Hi Ladies really sorry I’ve been awol. Hope you are all doing ok?

Lots going on and am trying and failing not to stress. My mum is recovering well from her op so that good but now it’s just waiting again for her consultant appointment to see how the op went and when she will start radiotherapy.

I went for a reassurance scan at EPU on Tuesday and in good news we saw a little bean with a heartbeat (which was so amazing to see as we have never seen that before) but of course I always have something to worry about as I should of been 7+3 and our bean was measuring around 6+1. Whilst they weren’t worried because I was they are going to scan me again so I’m currently in a different version of the TWW

Really hope that being back on the horse is a success @Babyghirl

@PeanuttyButter
I don't use them they stress me out lol but I dtd every other day anyway quite active in the bedroom so I could not miss it if I tryed lol going to start temping again tomara morning then stop when it rises c what that says xx

@babyghirl good luck!
Also have you continued testing after your peak before...I only say this because when o got pregnant in March I had a peak at day 9, then I carried on testing and on cd16/17 and I had another peak. That's the only month I caught as all the other times I stopped. I was having failed ovulation attempts early on. The same happened last month too. Just thought I'd mention xxx

@ttcissoboring
Time to get on that horse 😂😂😂😂 I'm cd6 today and have watery cm I ovulated on CD8 in just so prop ovulating early again 💚