🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

Welcome @Trenzalor. I'm sorry for your loss. I had a mc in march ttc number 2 so I know how you feel about completing your family and there are a few other ladies in similar situations here. How are you feeling?

Also ladies, I just poas and got a positive opk at 7dpo... trying to not get my hopes up but after @SLCxxx success story it's hard not to! Either that or I'm ovulating late 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ but I definitely had a positive 7 days ago and am not due til 8th July... help!!

May I join you all? Just had my third consecutive MC trying for baby No3. I’d like to be able to chat with people who understand not only MC but also that need to complete your family despite MC.

[quote Babyghirl]@PeanuttyButter
That's the way I was thinking but also the sooner it was here and out off the Rd the sooner it would be to start ttc again 💚
@lovelylittlesunflower
My period post mc was nt bad they told me it could be but tbh it was really light like I lost most of the blood during mc as I had to be kept in hospital cause it was bad so don't think there was anything left for my first period lol 💚[/quote]
That's reassuring! I was hospital for 2 nights with mine, they wanted to keep me in for longer but my partner wasn't allowed to visit so I came home.

@PeanuttyButter
That's the way I was thinking but also the sooner it was here and out off the Rd the sooner it would be to start ttc again 💚
@lovelylittlesunflower
My period post mc was nt bad they told me it could be but tbh it was really light like I lost most of the blood during mc as I had to be kept in hospital cause it was bad so don't think there was anything left for my first period lol 💚

[quote PeanuttyButter]@ELM7
@Babyghirl
I tested yesterday although we've only dtd to completion once and I don't think i was fertile. Can't help myself!!

@lovelylittlesunflower I'm in the same situation as you, waiting for my first period post MMC. Had a bit of pink when I wiped yesterday and today so AF is on her way. I don't know how I will feel once it comes to be honest. I want it here now so it's done, but at the same time I wish it wasn't due.

So glad I found this thread xx[/quote]
It's so tough isn't it. I'm quite traumatised from my MC, I had a haemorrhage 😩 so I'm dreading my period.
We will get through, as soon as I go through my AF the closer I am to moving on from this.

[quote Babyghirl]@lovelylittlesunflower
Not going to lie first period after my losses hit me hard it was the fact of it brought it bck I was no longer pregnant but you get through it one way or another. I had planty of chocolate and a few drinks and a relaxed nite for the first day it was the hardest out of it but your strong you can do it xx[/quote]
Thank you 🙏🏻

@ELM7
@Babyghirl
I tested yesterday although we've only dtd to completion once and I don't think i was fertile. Can't help myself!!

@lovelylittlesunflower I'm in the same situation as you, waiting for my first period post MMC. Had a bit of pink when I wiped yesterday and today so AF is on her way. I don't know how I will feel once it comes to be honest. I want it here now so it's done, but at the same time I wish it wasn't due.

So glad I found this thread xx

@lovelylittlesunflower
Not going to lie first period after my losses hit me hard it was the fact of it brought it bck I was no longer pregnant but you get through it one way or another. I had planty of chocolate and a few drinks and a relaxed nite for the first day it was the hardest out of it but your strong you can do it xx

Hope everyone is ok!
Funny to be knowing I'll be going through the TWW with everyone again. When I got pregnant it was so weird as I had such a strong positive way before my period was due....wonder what it will be like next time.
I'm sorta stuck in the weird limbo of waiting for my blob or ovulation, will probably be my period. I bloody hate them, horrendously heavy and it's gonna be tough seeing blood again, feel a bit weird about it!

@ELM7
@PeanuttyButter
I'm 12 dpo today tested on Monday cause I had period cramps on sat of course a bfn lol so just 4 more days to the witch rides in on her broom stick lol 💚

@PeanuttyButter you are so right it doesn’t satisfy! I crumbled and tested this morning. 12dpo and AF due any time now. Of course it was a BFN but I still have the thought well maybe it’s too early/test not sensitive enough. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Thanks for the add @Annny27

@kiwi17 I have the same feelings myself every month, hopefully the next few days go quickly for you and AF stays away.

@treesall I don't know why we do it to ourselves, we test knowing it's too soon then it doesn't satisfy us because we know it still could go either way.

@kiwi17
I have in my head ur not out to the bitch comes in on her broom stick lol, yea do he might do bloods to c what going on or asked to be referred to gynecologist 💚

I definitely will if it happens again this month! I've never had the problem before I'd normally spot about 2/3days before but 6 days seems extreme! Plus added to a week of af means I'm bleeding for 2 out of 4 weeks each cycle which is really frustrating. I know I guess the excitement gets you through ovulation and week 1 and then I start to feel frustrated that I haven't had any symptoms of pg so decide it hasn't happened 🤦‍♀️

@kiwi17
Hoping the witch stays away for you, I knw what u mean you be all positive coming up to ovulation then the week the witch is due to show u get all nagitive again, the spotting could indicate low progesterone can u nt say to your doc abot but tell him ur spotting from like cd8 he might give you progesterone to c if that helps sometimes a wee while lie is needed lol. 💚

That would be awesome @Babyghirl! Well I'm on cd22 about 7dpo I think and have hit the miserable side of the 2ww where I think it's never going to happen 😟 this happens every month! Anyone else? Need distracting big time today.. literally have no reason for it but if my lp is only 10 days like it has been then I should start spotting in 3 days time.. 😏

@Babyghirl thanks for adding me back in ☺️

@kiwi17
With the same dinosaurs as before 😂😂😂😂😂😂 and some new faces we r in this together just let's hope we all get a bfp before this thread ends and we can call the chat pregnancy after miscarriage tbh how nice would that be 😍🤗

Oh hello everyone and shiny new thread! 🦕🦕😂

[quote Babyghirl]@lovelylittlesunflower
Nt everybody ovulates after a miscarriage until they have a clear out period just to let you knw so don't be to hard on yourself if it does s not happen, that's what the midwife told me so I relaxed until my period came and went, also the lh strips r not reliable until nxt cycle so they told me to stay away from them until my period came and went but just know you will get there we r strong and r rainbows will be with us soon 💚[/quote]
That's really interesting, thank you....I guess that takes the pressure off a bit X

@miscarriage39
Your very welcome you gota stay with us bunch of nutts 😂😂😂😂😂
@treesall
Awwww put away the tests girl you got this what treatment have you been put on 💚

I am behaving like a lunatic. Trying to be calm and rational (this is my first cycle on recurrent miscarriage treatment). So far I've been really relaxed, knowing it's gonna take at least a few months to fall pregnant and then tonight I just lost the plot and did an IC test at 6dpo, afternoon pee, no hold. Absolutely pointless! I 100% knew it would be negative, there was no other possible outcome but I did it anyway. I've lost all self control! I'm fully expecting a BFN this month - pretty certain that'll be the case! But no idea how to get through the next few days without behaving like a total loony. Arghhhhhh! Sorry for my ridiculous rant. X

Thanks for the add Babyghirl

@lovelylittlesunflower
Nt everybody ovulates after a miscarriage until they have a clear out period just to let you knw so don't be to hard on yourself if it does s not happen, that's what the midwife told me so I relaxed until my period came and went, also the lh strips r not reliable until nxt cycle so they told me to stay away from them until my period came and went but just know you will get there we r strong and r rainbows will be with us soon 💚

[quote Babyghirl]@lovelylittlesunflower
Good to hear in a strange way its going in the right direction for you lovely 💚
@chali7
Oh I will do that to if I ever get that far but I have faith I will as my doc said to me the good thing is you can get pregnant so that's a start a lot of people that come to me can't so your a step further than they r which has stuck with me xx[/quote]
Yeah I'm desperately wanting to ovulate again and that won't happen until my preg test is negative!