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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

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Annny27 · 29/06/2021 21:08

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

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kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 19:05

@Babyghirl whoops no and I've just had a wee as well 🤦‍♀️🤣

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 19:03

@kiwi17
Have you done another one to c what reading that gives u 💚

kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 18:41

@lovelylittlesunflower opks are ovulation predictor kits 😊 the little strips you wee on to see if you are about to ovulate or not. You can get the digital ones too.

I know right @Annny27? Very odd. Will just have to wait and see my own fault for trying to poas without wasting a pg test 😂 when's your blood test?

lovelylittlesunflower · 01/07/2021 18:37

I still haven't worked out what OPKS stands for Shock

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 17:40

@Annny27
Fingers crossed I find out soon can feel the witch riding slowly in on that broom stick 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Annny27 · 01/07/2021 17:28

@babyghirl hopefully they can let you know pretty soon after the blood results! Yes I think @fizzl had to inject herself daily because of a blood clotting issue

@kiwi17 @elm7 strange worh the positive opks but negative hpts!

I am around 3dpo today just waiting for my progesterone blood test on Monday now :)

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Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 16:31

@PeanuttyButter
The first period is always bittersweet after a loss but just know its a clean out u need for nxt bean to stick well look after urself and its OK to cry if u need to 💚
@treesall
Hopefully I get results soon, that all I can think of why they would want them again first one coming bck positive so for them to say u have it I think u need 2 positive results 💚 and I truly knw what u mean abit it being a good thing cause it can be easily sorted 💚

treesall · 01/07/2021 15:31

@Babyghirl on the positive side I understand blood clotting disorders are a "good" diagnosis for miscarriage because it's easily treated. I hope you understand what I mean by that - obviously it's not good at all that you've had to go through the awful miscarriages but should mean they know how to prevent them in future? I hope you get some answers.

@kiwi17 that's where I'm going wrong - I've got most of a box of cheapy tests and 3 frers burning a hole in the bathroom cupboard!

PeanuttyButter · 01/07/2021 15:24

Fingers crossed those waiting for BFPs, I've started spotting this morning so I think AF is about to come, had cramps for a few days too. I usually come on during the night and wake to full flow so I think that's my weekend. Bittersweet I suppose but at least I can move on.

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 14:34

@kiwi17
Yea just means if I do I will need to inject myself everyday when pregnant again and taking aspirin along with it 💚

kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 14:31

That sounds serious @Babyghirl would that be treatable? @treesall 😂😂 I know what you mean... we get so in our heads that the only way to stop the am I aren't I is to test even when it's bfn! What's also stopping me is I only have 2 pg tests in the house so don't want to waste them 😆

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 14:05

Well update more bloods requested lol so done and dusted another 4 tubes, so nw I'm wondering if there was a blood clotting disorder found in my last set and they want to c if these ones have it to I do knw they need to positives before they diagnose you 💚

treesall · 01/07/2021 13:10

@kiwi17 I wish I was as patient as you! I'm also 8dpo and tested again today, even though I knew it'd be negative. I don't know whyyyy I do it to myself! Pretty sure this month won't be successful anyway though. Fingers crossed for you x

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 10:22

@ELM7
If you ovulated then your period should still come on time I heard the vaccine delayed ovulation so that's where the period comes late fingers crossed its leading to a bfp for u girl 💚
@kiwi17
I do know them lh strips r nt reliable with fmu so may that the case either way 🙏🤞🍀

kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 09:58

@ELM7 oh yeah I see! Oh fingers crossed for you then- just another hurdle to throw into the game isn't it?! I hadn't even thought about that!!

ELM7 · 01/07/2021 09:50

@kiwi17 had my second vaccine 2 weeks ago today. Ov day after vaccine so currently 13dpo and CD28 but normal cycle length is about 26/27 days.

First vaccine didn’t effect my cycle at all but know it has caused delays for some people - hoping it’s not going to mess up my cycle now.

kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 09:43

Oh that's weird @ELM7 I haven't done a pg test yet will wait for 14dpo probably- only 8dpo today. I had my second dose nearly 3 weeks ago now so hoping that it won't have affected it - when did you have yours?

ELM7 · 01/07/2021 09:33

@kiwi17 I got a positive OPK this morning but negative HCG. Now wondering if my second covid vaccine is going to mess/delay AF.

@SLCxxx hope you get to see a sticky bean at your next scan.

🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕
kiwi17 · 01/07/2021 09:25

@SLCxxx fingers crossed for everything to turn out ok for you! It is still early to see the embryo isn't it? I did another opk this morning and it was super faint and negative so I'm guessing that yesterday's was just a fluke 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ serves me right for getting my hopes Up! Haha. Never mind. I will just have to wait and see. Weird thing was yesterday's was positive in the afternoon with weak urine and this morning was fmu 🤷‍♀️ anyway. I don't temp anymore as I found it was just stressing me out as I could never do it at the same time of day so I'm not sure about that either!

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 09:17

@slcxxx
Hoping u see bean and heart beat on screen when u go bck have you any symptoms xx

SLCxxx · 01/07/2021 08:29

5+3 I think, that’s going from ovulation date plus 2wks, if I go from LMP it’s 6+4.

We literally only DTD 2 times last month, 2 days in a row in my FW. The only thing I did different was slept with the fertilily in and peelings with preseed, I honestly feel it helped

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 08:17

@slcxxx
How far along r you now 💚

SLCxxx · 01/07/2021 08:10

Omg @kiwi17!! Keep daily testing now, you will know because it gets darker. My fingers and toes are crossed for you! Also my temp stayed 36.7-36.8, it didn’t drop (still hasn’t). Keeps us updated 🤗

@Annny27 thank you for the new thread lovely 💕

@Babyghirl I had such a bad pain on my right side I thought I was having a ruptured ectopic, EPAU done a scan and I have a cyst there and an empty gestational and yolk sac in my womb, have to go back on 10th to see if an embryo has developed or not 🤦🏼‍♀️ So still peeing on sticks to keep me going, lol

Babyghirl · 01/07/2021 06:59

@kiwi17
Omg my fingers r crossed for you girl hoping this is your month 🙏🤞🍀💚
@Trenzalor
Welcome so sorry you find yourself with us, us ladies know what ur going through so here to keep u company girl, I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp ttc num 1 they r heart breaking but you learn to get through them 💚

Miscarriage39 · 30/06/2021 21:47

Fingers crossed Kiwi17. I really hope it is a sign that things have worked this month.

Trenzalor welcome, although I am sorry you find yourself here. I had a miscarriage in March while trying for our third, so I totally get you on the pain of miscarriage while trying to complete a family.

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