🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

Wrote a really long reply before but my browser crashed and I lost it.
Having a bad few days recently but was cheered up by a great weekend. Unfortunately that's now ended as DH cousin has announced their pregnancy tonight and they would be due about 2 weeks after I would have been. I feel like my world has crumbled again. I know people will get pregnant and I am happy for them at heart but also hurting so so badly. It's crushing me

@Annny27
Norm my pain happens the day of ovulation cause my cm goes creamy the day after the pain 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 I'm sure that super annoying for you phone the waiting list office and c where u r and when you would at least be expecting an op date 💚

Well right hand sided pain on CD 8 well I took my period one day before that but they say if it after a certain time count nxt day as CD1 so I say cd8/9 surely I could not be ovulating nw what you girls think 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

@lozza2206
Omg a wee boy I'm sure ur over the moon yea I'm good a load of tests going on at the min nw getting tested for diabetes got a scan nxt Tuesday for the structure of the urters, heading in to the dtd week 😂😂😂😂😂 cd8 today for the egg will be dropping soon norm CD 11/12 but mostly 11 got more bloods bot 2 weeks ago for blood clotting bot 2 weeks ago so just waiting on the results of that coming through to 💚

@Babyghirl thank you for asking! I'm doing good 17 weeks today and found out it's a wee boy 💙 how are you doing? Xx

@lozza2206
How r you getting on xx

@nuggetlover27
Great to hear @fizzl had her wee baby girl to was on the other day updating us, sorry bot your mental health thou but hope it's eases for you soon xx

Thanks for thinking of me @Babyghirl
I'm doing okay. I've always suffered with my mental health and seems to be a lot more since getting pregnant so have avoided MN as everything I seem to read sets off my anxiety, I've been thinking of you girls though and sending lots of baby dust your way. I know you'll get your BFPs soon 🥰

In currently 26+3 and baby boy 💙 seems to be growing well. Other than my mental health my pregnancy has been a pretty good one with only a small amount of sickness and other symptoms.

Hope all the 🦕s are doing well

@PeanuttyButter
I will look forward to ovulation is over so I can step of the saddle and get a break 😂😂😂😂😂 3 or 4 days to go for me so nt to far away I norm get pain and cm turns creamy day after that so I kind of know when it's happened 💚 fingers crossed it r month 💚

Congratulations @Miscarriage39 fingers crossed for you all remains well.

Sorry to hear about what you're going through @Naomi2b89 you're in the right place for support everyone is lovely here.

@Babyghirl haha on the horse riding...someone's a lucky to be able to use the horse analogy hehe
I'm currently CD9 says ovulation in 6 days but tbh I have no idea when it's going to happen now but we have started to DTD eod and plan on doing that until about cd18 so fingers crossed we are lucky this time.

@Naomi2b89 I have a small uterine fibroid. I had one when I was pregnant with my DS but it disappeared / shrank during the pregnancy. I've heard of lots of people having successful pregnancies with fibroids. Folic acid, vit D and having a healthy BMI is recommended whilst TTC so they could help. Wishing you success when you do choose to try again Xx

@Miscarriage39 sending lots of positive thoughts your way and hoping that you can find some enjoyable ways to fill the next 3 weeks! It would be great if you could find ways to treat yourself because you deserve it! It could be worth calling to beg your local EPU for extra scans from 6 weeks onwards. I managed to get one extra scan with my first and only child when I called and begged them for one before I'd had any miscarriages. I guess it may partly depend on who answers the phone and how busy they are at the time. Xx

Congrats @Miscarriage39 ❤️❤️

@slcxxx
Omg big congratulations great to hear x
@Naomi2b89
You norm get it tested on day 21 of your cycle if you ovulate on dy 14 really has to be 7 dpo just ask ur doc for the bloods, so sorry the bleeding has got worse for you, when I had my cp I pass a like a clear clot and you can c like vains running through it and my blood eased of after that look after yourself and relax as much as u can 💚

Thanks all. I've spent the evening having cuddles and playing games with my 2 children which has helped. Just went to loo and I'm bleeding quite heavy, hopefully it calms down soon and passed one clot like a size of a 50p and then some really small dark ones (sorry for tmi)... hopefully I'll feel better tomorrow and the cramps would of calmed down, had to dose myself up on painkillers..
Its such a stressful time, we had a discussion tonight and now I'm not sure I'm prepared to try August, I'm tempted to try and lose some weight first, take folic acid and vit d everyday... and go from there, wondering if I'm low on the progesterone..do you know how I can get this checked? Not sure my gp will actually help given ive had one mc last year at 5/6 weeks (which is on my records as I had to go to EPU) but considering I was only 4 weeks this time they don't need to know and won't class it as a mc so they might just say that I can just try again. I also had been suffering with lower cramps/ painful when having sex back last year had a scan done back in jan this year and they found one small fibroid on my womb, the dr said it was tiny it was hard to say if it was affect pregnancy and now I'm not sure if it is the cause.... hard work being a woman! Xx

Hahaha @Babyghirl you're not wrong! Not sure when I'll ovulate this month though it's all a big fun guessing game without the opks 😂 @SLCxxx great news! 🤞 for you it all keeps going smoothly. @Miscarriage39 that's so frustrating for you and literally makes no sense because if there is an issue this is the moment you need to know about it!? I really hope and trust that it's not going to be a big problem and when you find out in 3 weeks it doesn't matter for you 🤞

I am so sorry your care has been so abysmal lovelylittlesunflower. Hopefully now they know what is going on you will soon feel fully recovered and be in a much better place.

So please your scan went well SLCxxx.

I doubt it H0peing. I’ve only had one miscarriage, and when I spoke to the GP receptionist yesterday, she said it would still be fine to wait three weeks to discuss my blood results. So all-in-all, I don’t think I’ll be able to get any extra checks unfortunately.

Welcome Naomi2b89, although sorry you find yourself here.

@SLCxxx Glad your uss went well! Maybe putting some extra garlic in your food might help your cold to go away sooner. I find that helps me, although I know that not everyone wants to eat as much garlic as me lol. Xx

@Naomi2b89 Welcome! Sorry for your losses. It can be very tricky not to test early. I have tried having none in the house but you can often get same day delivery on Amazon so it definitely takes willpower not to, which I don't have much of because I always want to know. I'm planning to have a day 21 test this month to try to find out of part of my problem is low progesterone (3 early losses at 8 weeks and under). If I do need to take progesterone then from what I understand I will have to test early for a BFP so that I can take progesterone early in my next pregnancy. I hope that August is the month for your Rainbow baby. Xx

@Miscarriage39 Do you know if you can have some early scans on the NHS? One of my friends had several early scans on the NHS due to recurrent miscarriage and also because she was 40. She only paid for one extra 3D scan near the end and had a beautiful baby girl a few months ago. Xx

@lovelylittlesunflower It's terrible that they discharged you before you were ready! Glad that the Sister yesterday has been a lot more helpful. It seems like you will get the help you need from now on. Xx

@Annny27 I now have the letter to take with me for my day 21 blood test but I have to call them on Monday to book the appointment and not sure how busy they'll be yet. Really hoping that I can get an appointment this month! X

Welcome @Naomi2b89, so sorry for your loss, such a hard thing to go through. This group is amazing support. Sending you the best of luck ttc 💜

Congratulations @Miscarriage39 🎉