🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

@Babyghirl doesn’t sound bad at all. That is exactly my thoughts I want a bump and want to feel baby kicking. But can’t help but think it will never happen.

I have tried running a few times But I hate it - need to find something that I do enjoy to get some exercise. I’ve lost 3 stone since Sept but have still got more to loose and have sort of hit a wall so need to change things up and bring exercise in.

Really hope the plan of 2 biological children and an adopted child happens for you @Annny27. My husband is adopted and has an older brother who is his parents biological child.

@ELM7
I would not rule it out but really want the experience of a baby right from the start, hope that doesn't sound bad in writing but I want the pregnancy to the birth the lot of it, the run killed me tbh lol but felt so good after it I'm only 9st 9lb not doing it to loss a girl I knw swears it clears the ovaries so made me go on it she went through fertility problems for ten years after having one and had her second.💚
@Annny27
Thank you sorry the witch got you maybe you need the progesterone seems urs is falling very early in your cycle 💚

@Annny27 sorry AF arrived again.

@Babyghirl very impressed going out for a run. I really need to do some exercise.

I know this is a thread for TTC but 2 and a half years in from starting this crappy journey - wondered if any of you had thought about adoption? My husband mentioned it the other day after hearing an advert on the radio.

@apwilso I have ewcm for about 5-6 days and always thought I ovulated much earlier than I did. Fingers crossed it holds out for you x

@apwilso
You can have ewcm for about 2 to 3 days leading up to ovulation so fingers crossed that egg hold of to Thursday nite Friday mines is approaching to I have watery cm so will be on it tonite 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Can someone help me!

So been tracking my opks and my app said ovulation due tomorrow of course my boyfriend is working away. Wiped before and had EWCM but not done a opk for today. Not bad sex since Saturday and last night I fell asleep.

Do you reckon ovulation will be in the next few days? I'm hopeful because he is back on Thursday 😖

Kiwi17 I would definitely ask what the ‘normal’ bands are and just how far within them your results were.

I totally get you on feeling like your body is not your own. I hope the scans go well. And we’ll done for running! My DH does 10k several times a week, whereas I can barely run for a bus!

@kiwi17
Ask all the questions then I would I have my scan nxt Tuesday both abdominal and internal to gs my body is nt mine anymore 😂😂😂😂😂 💚

@Babyghirl it said 4.0nmol/l any idea what that means?! It was the day 3 test though so guessing progesterone not a big deal in that one? Fsh was 9.1 and LH 5.6 but again it all just says satisfactory so I have no idea whether that's ok or not! Got the internal exam on Friday so will ask the Dr then.. a run seems like hard work 😆

Well went on a run today to say it killed me is an under statement 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so now in bed watching to hot to handle on Netflix have yous watched it 💚

@kiwi17
Did you not ask for numbers I would my progesterone was 16.5 first time I got it done they said no action needed but to me that is on the low end as they say it needs to be 16 or over to say ovulation has happened can't remember if it was that that was being tested 💚

@Babyghirl it certainly raises some questions...plus if my body is that peaceful inside I'd like to go on a little trip to lie on that boat 😂 so I phoned the gp and bloods all came back satisfactory literally nothing to note at all so I'm even more fed up now because it's not that anything can be fixed it's just not working 😞

@slcxxx
It's more complicated as we think just to get to chill on that boat is a hard job for them but I wana knw how the f##k a boat got in to my tube 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💚

*sperm

@Babyghirl I watched the great speed race 🤣 omg it was so interesting! And there was me thinking it was all about timing 🤦🏼‍♀️ Didn’t realise how complex it all is, lol

@slcxxx
So glad things r going so well for you girl we will all be following you soon 💚.
@Annny27
Awww sorry you feeling down but don't loss hope keep phoning you never knw could offer you a cancellation on the phone when u phone one day, it will be ur turn soon just like it will be my turn one day girl 💚

Thanks Ladies 🤗 just hope it continues going well.

I would say that I honestly believe the Ferti-Lily made all the difference. It’s such a small cup and sits over the cervix (tmi). I left it in all night and I think the sperm had only 1 direction to go.. up 🤣. I hope you all get your BFPs soon 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@PeanuttyButter
It's so easy for them to say things like that yes there going through it to but not on the same level as us, its r body's that's letting us down and that's the hardest part to take in 💚

@lozza2206
Hopefully nxt will be my rainbow baby xx

@Babyghirl just had an argument with DH now too. Basically since I misscarried 3 other people have gone on to have normal 12week scans and I was saying to him that this is killing me, I'm literally the 1 in 4. He just snapped and told me he knows I'm upset but I've got to get over it and stop thinking about other people as it will happen eventually. I just snapped back and said "well everytime you mention insert upcoming event he's been stressing about instead of comforting you I'm gonna say the same to you!' now I've gone to bed my chest literally hurting. I feel so alone and awful right now as I don't feel I'm allowed to be upset anymore.

@Babyghirl I'm happy they are testing you for everything! Wishing you all the luck and love xoxo

@PeanuttyButter
Awwww big hugs its awful I knw how ur feeling my sis in law was the same got pregnant after my first miscarriage and had baby 2 weeks after my second miscarriage it killed me, just do what u have to do to protect your feelings, I did nt c her while pregnant cause it killed me and never meet baby for a while either but I did not care what anybody thought I was looking after myself xxx