🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

@Miscarriage39 sorry you are bleeding. Really hope you or your DH can get through to a Dr tomorrow and that they will get you referred to EPU.

@Annny27 hope it cools down before Ov - I was lucky ov was last week so not quite so hot for DTD! But now another dreaded TWW!

@Babyghirl hope scan is ok tomorrow and interesting that you’ve had a letter about IVF

Just putting this out here! 😂

Yes, I’m hoping the GP will refer me H0peing. The challenge will be getting past the receptionist, but I might get my DH to call for me. He’s better at pushing the point and doesn’t go all passive when they respond to the request for an appointment with, ‘is it an emergency’.

@miscarriage39 I think I was typing whilst you wrote a response! Sorry! Hope your GP can help to arrange an early scan when you call them tomorrow. Xx

@Miscarriage39 you should definitely be able to get an early scan with what you're going through! There are lots of women who have some red bleeding in early pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies so I hope you can try to stay as positive as possible. Easier said than done but I'm sending positive thoughts your way! Sending loads of love xxxx

Our EPU doesn’t accept direct requests from patients unless you have had either three consecutive miscarriages or an ectopic pregnancy, unfortunately, H0peing. They wouldn’t even speak to me three weeks after I’d had surgery and been in the ward, because I’d had a negative test, so my GP has to get involved and speak to them for advice. I’ll call my GP tomorrow, although we have so many lights, I doubt I’ll get to speak with anyone I’ve actually spoken to before.

@PeanuttyButter how many dpo are you now? I think I'm 3dpo so maybe we'll get our BFP'S around the same time this monthxx

@miscarriage39 Thanks! Will let you know how it goes. Do you think you'll try calling your local EPU to beg for a 6 week / early scan? I hope you enjoy the whole 9 months as much as possible. Xx

@MrsF111 Welcome! I think I'm 3dpo so I really hope that we will have an exciting BFP journey together!💖xx

OMG Babyghirl, I really hope so!

I hope nobody will mind me discussing this here, but I think I may be loosing this pregnancy! Had some bright red blood when I wiped early afternoon, and now having it every time I wipe! Ironically, I felt quite positive this morning as my breasts were much more tender. Will call GP in the morning, but I kind of just know 😔

@Babyghirl I no it's crazy isnt it I am so lucky my gp have backed me all the way and to refer me to private and get the NHS to pay I am so grateful and no how incredibly lucky I am so my legs will be closed no pending positive pregnant tests for me for a while and my consultant is also amazing didnt fob me off and has decided to go above and beyond to fix my insides.. so scared about the tube removal I hope it doesn't come to that I really don't going to continue with my castor packs and pray they help... I have had everything crossed for your scan tomorrow hun keep us updated xx

Well a letter came today telling me all that is going to happen for ivf so wonder if it will be soon if they sending a letter out like that 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

@sweetbabydust1989
Wow that is quick it will fly in my scan tomorrow can't come quick enough tbh💚
@Annny27
Cd16 for me today the heat is getting to much nw I want. The winter to come nw lol💚
@kiwi17
It's hard to tell 😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

@Annny27 I feel you! 😂 also anyone get to the point where they're not sure if it's ewcm or just sweat?! 🤣🤣 luckily or unluckily I've yet decided dh has gone away til tomorrow night so it's a good thing I'm not tracking anything this month it'll just happen when it does!

@Annny27 it's fast because my gp referred me to a bmi hospital but the nhs pay kinda fast track I have been under the same consultant since October but had to have my first lap cancelled due to my ectopic... I am having both a lap and hysteroscopy according to my clinic letter xx

Surgery day has been book 5th October feels so long away but it's not I could be loosing my right tube according to the clinic letter... also what is a hysteroscopy is it the same as a hsg I am a little confused and too scared to google 🤣🙈 had another pregnancy announcement in the family wish these girls would close their legs for a year or so 🤣 feel like someone has kicked me in the ovaries xx

@Babyghirl it seems to swing from cd13 anywhere to cd17 so not really sure 😆 think my body is a mess!

@kiwi17 what day do your norm ovulate 💚

Oh well night time recently have been sweaty! 😂 @Babyghirl my cycles are normally 29 days... but because of the 6 days of spotting before af they are doing tests..

@kiwi17
Yea look it up they say sleeping in a warmer or colder room can make your temp higher or lower I'm not checking mine either have not for months nw lol, hw many days is your cycle.

@Miscarriage39 I totally agree and actually think that if I keep turning down responsibilities because I 'might' get pregnant then they will stop asking! Yeah so the running thing I really should have seen coming- he's just done an ultra marathon in the lakes (100km - 13 hrs of running) and has been training for it for months so running every day... not sure why I didn't think of it before 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ but fingers crossed that's what it is! Hope you're doing ok 5 weeks done 35 to go! 😁

@Babyghirl you reckon the heat affects ovulation? I'm not even checking this month so have no idea where I'm at in the cycle😂 but had to book my day 22 bloods on day 25 as we're away so hoping they'll still be able to get something from that 😬

@PeanuttyButter
Think this head has knocked us all off tbh but you look like u have it covered and hopefully it's ur month 💚

Hi girls
Think I'm ok the tww now, had my lh peak few days ago and now it's on its way down again. Think O was on CD13 which is early for me, but we dtd on day 8,10,12 and 14 and hopefully tomorrow again for good luck. Not feeling optimistic as my temps haven't made much sense. Fingers crossed for us all x

It will happen for you kiwi17. Hopefully it’s just a case of your DH cutting back in the running. I totally get that extra responsibilities at work may not be what you want right now, but the experience will put your career in a better place when you do take a break to have a baby. I’ve always been someone who likes to plan and have everything in a logical, orderly order in life, but I’m really learning that sometimes you just have to go with the flow, take the opportunities that come up, and accept that life’s detours can actually have positive outcomes (even if it seems unlikely at the time). Good luck with the new bits to your role.

Oh no Babyghirl, sun stroke is horrible. I hope you feel much better in the morning.

Good luck for the 21 day bloods H0peing.
I’ll be 5 weeks tomorrow, so still early days.