🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

Hi ladies can anyone explain what a hysteroscopy is and what it actually does?? I am reading my clinic letter and was trying to work out what he is actually doing 🙈 I no I am having a lap done and he will check my tubes if left is fine right is coming out I guess he will use the dye thingy for that then I read about the hysteroscopy and was like what is that I no it's a camera up my moo moo but that's about as far as I have looked into it 🙈🤣 xx

Last night (about 7dpo) I had cramp/pain on my right overy same side I had ovulation pain from, then this morning a little blood when I wiped. Praying this was implantation 🤞🤞🤞🤞 really hoping this time will be my rainbow

No, it’s more like a heavy period than anything awful H0peing. To be honest, I dinky really want a scan as I don’t want to see nothing again. I’m sure I’ve lost this one, so it all feels a bit pointless. Had I just kept spotting, it might have been different.

PeanuttyButter it’s so frustrating when they say that isn’t it?

@PeanuttyButter @ELM7 Yes, I guess we're in our TWW together! Sending love to both of you...hopefully this is our month! Xx

@Miscarriage39 I am shocked by the advice from 111! Several women bleed in pregnancy and then go onto have healthy babies. I know this from friends and family of mine. I'm guessing that you're not experiencing any serious pain or very heavy bleeding? If not then can't you exagerrate the amount of pain you're in if you call 111 / your GP again as everyone has different pain thresholds anyway? They could offer you a scan then. I really hope that you can see someone soon rather than be left for 2 weeks! Yes, men usually don't seem to understand what we have to go through in moments like this! Xx

@Miscarriage39 @babyghirl they have no clue do they. They just carry on as normal it doesn't alter anything for them until it's here, the fact our bodies are under so much pressure and we feel emotionally drained doesn't register. DH just says 'try again' ' we have a plan', but they don't realise we think about where we are on our journey every single day

@miscarriage39
It's so tuff when men really don't understand how we feel as the women to go through all this shit, it's ok for them there body's aren't clocks like rs when ttc, xx

No SLCxxx, typically they were shut for training yesterday. I did speak to 111 and they said that at this stage, as long as I didn’t my have serious pain or very heavy bleeding I didn’t really need to speak to the GP. I was just advised to monitor symptoms and do a test in two weeks. That has fed pretty well into DH’s decision to think of this as just being a late period (because that helps him deal with it, or at least, pretend it’s not happening). He’s very hung ho, and has said we’ll just start trying again as soon as the bleeding stops. We are now arguing, because he insists he never knew I wanted a baby several years ago, and Imm angry because she did know, but he was too busy with his career and wanting to do things that weren’t my compatible. He always insisted that he knew loads of women like who had a straightforward time having healthy babies in their 40s, and that I was just being pessimistic when I said time was running out. Anyway, sorry for the ramble and moan.

@Miscarriage39 I’m so sorry. Did you manage to speak to your GP?x

Thanks Babyghirl.

Good luck to all of you in the TWW

@PeanuttyButter
One of the girls there said she had one and went on to have babies just have to wait on my consultant phoning me nw to c what they say 💚

@elm7 @H0peing looks like we are all in the dreaded wait together. Didnt used to bother me the tww, used to just be glad the fertile week was over and I can relax but now I'm on edge. Don't want to test early incase of CP

@Babyghirlwhat did they say about how that will affect you?

I've had cramping today although it could be my bowels easy enough, I've constantly got issues on that front. Trying to just stay neutral and not look into every little thing because when AF comes it will just make me feel worse. Surely 5/6dpo is too early to feel anything anyways.

Well scan done she did tell me it's a heart shape uterus she seen on screen, but on the front of being tested for diabetes still waiting but my sugar levels where low today so would nt surprise me was 3.9

@miscarriage39
Virtual hugs from me, xx

Thanks kiwi17

I'm so sorry @Miscarriage39 😞 everything crossed for you.

@ELM7 @PeanuttyButter I think that I'm around 4dpo too! I really hope that we get our BFP's soon!

I was planning on not testing until the day after my period is due but part of me wants to check earlier in case I need a progesterone prescription straight away. I've got my 21 day progesterone check this afternoon so I should know by the end of the week if it's low or not.

Also, I was drinking ginger tea to warm up my body on the advice of the lady that I've been seeing for Chinese herbs but I've since read online that ginger tea isn't recommended if you have a history of miscarriages, which I do, so I've stopped drinking that now just in case that's true although you can't believe everything you read online! X

Thanks for all the positivity ladies, but pretty sure I’m miscarrying. The bleeding has got heavier over night.

Have everything crossed for you that AF doesn’t arrive ELM7.

@Miscarriage39 fingers crossed it's just a blip and your pregnancy continues. Staying positive is the only thing you can do. We are all here xx

@H0peing I am either 4 or 5dpo based on two different tracking apps. I'm not planning on testing though until AF is late. How about you?

@H0peing only 4dpo so it’s next week that I’ll be driving myself crazy waiting for AF and hoping it doesn’t arrive!

Oh no @Miscarriage39 that's crappy I hope it's nothing sinister - definitely see if you can get an early scan if possible. Everything crossed for you 🤞

@ELM7 how many dpo are you now? Hope you get some good news soon😊Xx

@Miscarriage39 Yes, from what you've said it does seem like a very good idea to ask DH to call them whilst you're with him. Xx

@miscarriage39
Awwww sorry your going through this, got everything crossed that is nothing bad girl 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 do get on the fone to doc tomorrow and hopefully he will get u a scan xx