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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

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Annny27 · 29/06/2021 21:08

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

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Babyghirl · 27/07/2021 09:38

@HOpeing
I knew I ovulated on CD8 I had the pain only cd24 today so goes with the time frame I norm have a 15/16 day lp but knew yesterday I was going to come on today but I will get that bfp soon 💚

H0peing · 27/07/2021 09:33

@Babyghirl so sorry that the witch arrived! Hoping that you'll get your Summer BFP next month! Xx

Babyghirl · 27/07/2021 09:30

@ELM7
Congratulations girl great to c another bfp xx
@mrsF111
Try a frer hoping it's still to early for you xx

MrsF111 · 27/07/2021 09:14

@ELM7 congratulations!!

ELM7 · 27/07/2021 09:12

Congratulations @H0peing. Looks like we are in this together as this has happened here….

I hate what MCs have done to us Ladies as I just can’t even start to feel excited or bring myself to tell my husband.

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ELM7 · 27/07/2021 09:10

Morning Ladies hope you are all ok.

Sorry that the witch arrived @Babyghirl and I really hope that she doesn’t arrive in the next couple of days for you @MrsF111

Hope you had a lovely time away @Annny27 and have got through the FW ok. Now the dreaded TWW. x

MrsF111 · 27/07/2021 09:07

@Babyghirl sorry the witch arrived for you! 🙁

MrsF111 · 27/07/2021 09:06

I think it’s a no from me, I’m not sure if I’m imagining the faintest of lines or if it’s totally blank?! Due on in 2 days so I’ll probably wait now until then to test again 😢

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Babyghirl · 27/07/2021 06:33

@PeanuttyButter
No need to test woke up this morning with the witch I knew yesterday she was on her way lol, 💚
@mrsF111
Goodluck girl 🤞🙏🍀💚

PeanuttyButter · 26/07/2021 22:12

@H0peing Oooh fantastic news fingers crossed for you. Sending lots of love

@babyghirl @mrsf111 good luck for testing tomorrow!!

Babyghirl · 26/07/2021 22:10

@mrsF111
I will be 👀this thread in the morning for an update 😂😂😂😂😂 my 🤞r crossed for you I have cramping so knw the with is on ther way in on cd23 lol 💚

MrsF111 · 26/07/2021 21:18

@H0peing congratulations!!

@Babyghirl no I chickened out of testing this morning 🤣🤣 the spotting has completely stopped so it was 4 days from 7dpo to 10dpo. Tomorrow will be 12dpo so I’ll test in the morning 🤞🤞🤞

Gummybear17 · 26/07/2021 20:46

@Miscarriage39 I am sorry camping wasn't as relaxing as you would have hoped . It really is hard to park emotions after such a stressful and emotional time. Yes I caved and booked one this morning. I had been getting pain all night but didn't feel I could justify an NHS scan . Measured 6+3 which I am and good strong heartbeat thank goodness. I guess I am as reassured as I can be at the moment but I won't relax not for a long time x

Miscarriage39 · 26/07/2021 19:22

Oh wow, congratulations H0peing. That’s brilliant that your GP is so supportive and was so quick off the mark with getting prescriptions. I really hope everything goes well for you.

I’m sorry you’re also having stand offs with your DH kiwi17. I hope it’s all a bit easier this evening. I don’t think it was exactly a throw away comment. He thinks I need some emotional support, but is also questioning whether we look at tests with a private fertility place.

Babyghirl · 26/07/2021 18:13

@HOpeing
Congratulations girl glad u got progesterone sorted I had a wee pink stain yesterday when wiping but nt holding out much hope but will test tomorrow if I have nt came on, 💚
@mrsF111
Any word from u yet lol 💚

H0peing · 26/07/2021 18:00

I had a very faint positive pregnancy test yesterday and then a much darker one today using smu on a frer! My period was due today. I spoke to my Dr this morning, who has been on this whole journey with me and she managed to speak to a gynaecologist regarding my history who has prescribed me progesterone and aspirin for the first 12 weeks. I really appreciate their swift response this time round! It's due to 3 miscarriages but I also recently turned 40 so that will be an extra risk now!

Mixed emotions of mainly happiness and excitement but also fear! DH and I were arguing last night because he started talking about my miscarriages and then said "Let's hope it doesn't happen again!" I told him that I would rather focus on the future and just try to stay as positive as possible! My last miscarriage was at 8 weeks so I'll probably feel more positive when we get past 8 weeks and then there's the 12 week scan!

I used smu for my pregnancy test because I read online that a lot of women get more accurate results from frer when using smu so I definitely found that tip helpful.

I didn't realise that my progesterone prescription would be a pessary! Glad I realised before I put it in the wrong hole! X

kiwi17 · 26/07/2021 17:46

@PeanuttyButter I'm not sure I believe the super fertile hype to be honest - I think they just tell people that to comfort them after a mc... sorry it's not your month :( @Miscarriage39 argh noo sorry it was a stressful time - I've just had a 24h standoff with my dh (although about the randomest thing) so I have sympathy. Was that a throw away comment from him or is he serious?!

H0peing · 26/07/2021 17:45

@Miscarriage39 so sorry to hear that camping didn't go well. How do you feel about fertility tests and counselling? I would probably have paid for both if we could afford it as I've definitely had some very dark days and there's always the hope that tests may find a problem that can be fixed. I had most fertility tests done through the NHS due to having 3 miscarriages but some tests are only available privately so we didn't do those.

@PeanuttyButter @babyghirl I guess you're not fully out yet! Hoping that you'll get Summer bfp's! Xx

Miscarriage39 · 26/07/2021 16:29

Sorry it’s not you month PeanuttyButter.

Thanks Annny27. I hope you enjoyed your holiday.

I hope everything is still going well for you
Gummybear17. Did you book a scan.

Camping was more stressful that I had hoped. We are now home and you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. DH has asked if I want to pay for fertility screening or counselling.

Babyghirl · 26/07/2021 12:29

@PeanuttyButter
Sorry the witch got you, I can feel mine in the bck ground to I say prop be here today sometime I'm cd23 but did feel ovulation pain around cd8 so would be about right xx

PeanuttyButter · 25/07/2021 21:10

Well guys I'm CD23 of a usual 24 day cycle and I think AF is here or will be here properly in the morning. I had convinced myself that I could be pregnant as we dtd on the right days and I had cramping and spotting 5 days ago which stopped (same as when I got my bfp) and I must have been wrong. Didn't expect it last month as it would have been my first period since, but kinda hoped I was super fertile and it would happen this month. Oh well. Good luck to all those testing soon and in the tww xx

Babyghirl · 24/07/2021 20:45

@Annny27
Heat is unreal I love it when away but nt at home in work lol, but 11 day in work done and 2 to go then off for a day lol, the letter says I will be offered a dated in 3 to 4 months so hoping things happen on there own before then lol 💚

kiwi17 · 24/07/2021 20:24

@Annny27 hahaha it was very sweaty!! Bit more chilled in one way though as I didn't use opks as I've run out and refuse to buy anymore so don't even know when I ovulated! Haha now we're staying at my parents so it's put paid to dtd which gives an excuse to stop for this month 😂

Annny27 · 24/07/2021 19:50

Hello ladies 💕 I have been a bit quiet as we have been on holiday (just in the UK) but nice to be away for a bit!

I am ovulating at the moment (cd13) so a fairly early one for me but I am pleased as really cba to dtd atm feels like such a chore after years of trying!

@sweetbabydust1989 I will also be having a laproscopy - hope yours goes well when it comes around!

@miscarriage39 I am so sorry to hear you have had another loss :( it's so heartbreaking and totally understand your frustration with DP about the whole situation and delay to ttc. But like babyghirl says, you haven't left it too late and women have babies well into their 40s!

@babyghirl are you feeling better after your heat exhaustion? I live in south east england and omg it was MELTING

Thata great your IVF letter came through even if it's just the start of it all :)

@ELM7 I also follow the worst girl gang and they post some relatable stuff!

@kiwi17 how was dtd in the heat? Awful 😂😂

@27donfin sending love to you too :)

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Babyghirl · 24/07/2021 16:34

@Gummybear17
I know the feeling 4 miscarriages and 1 cp and and from I get a bfp I wait on it to start it's awful x

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